Date: 7/13/2002 8:10:00 PM
From Authorid: 45866
I think most singe parents may have that problem, or had it.  |
Date: 7/13/2002 8:12:00 PM
From Authorid: 26303
Oh you poor thing. I hate this when men carrying on like that. It is so hard on the kids. I'm not single, but do have single friends/family. I wish i could give you words of wisdom. But I don't have any. But you hang in there. You are doing the right thing. And in time, your kids will know this, and see daddy for what he is worth. He is playing games with you, at the kids expense. Hopefully, he will see this soon, and stop. Until then, take care and hugs.  |
Date: 7/13/2002 8:24:00 PM
From Authorid: 53961
I am glad my children are no longer minors and I don't have that part of my life to contend with anymore. Make sure you document all this with dates, times, etc. Because if you are going to try and get physical custody, you need to "BACK UP YOUR BACKSIDE WITH PAPERWORK!" Write it all down; are they clean, fed, etc.? As for your little girl, just give her extra attention and love and keep her busy. As she grows older, she will form her own opinion. Don't criticize him in front of them. You won't have to say or do anything. Just love them, unconditionally. It's not going to be easy, but after doing it alone for so many years, I can testify, it will be worth it. Hey,Hey,Paula  |
Date: 7/13/2002 8:28:00 PM
From Authorid: 7654
My children and I went through this with their father..On his weekends he would bring them home early or take them to his mom's where he spent no time what so ever with them..Finally it got to the point to where they didn't want to go with him anylonger..But I followed my divorce orders and insisted that they go.Finally when each one of them turned 16 I didn't insist on them going.  |
Date: 7/13/2002 8:58:00 PM
From Authorid: 42069
Just curious why does he have custody?  |
Date: 7/14/2002 10:57:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 53659
well he ad custody because i went through a bout of very bad depression from the abuse i suffered at his hands i was in a shelter and i had to start my whole life over from scratch i had no friends they all took his side and my family also did because i never told the things he did to me now my life is getting better and i keep to myself quite a bit it is hard to know who you can trust i have only one friend and i have the support of some mental health professionals they come in once a week to check on me it has been over a year and my meds are working and i haven't had any majour bouts with it  |
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Date: 7/14/2002 6:39:00 PM
From Authorid: 53961
You are doing great! Hang in there. Things will get better. (((HUGS!))) Paula |
