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Our parents say it's wrong, but I disagree.

  Author:  46005  Category:(Discussion) Created:(7/1/2002 3:59:00 PM)
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Okay- not all parents. but most --- let me start !

Most people think it is wrong to live together before marriage... I disagree! I lived with my husband two years before we were married. We have been married for three years. there is nothing that we could have did not living together that we could do living together. I think now days it is more common for people to live together first- however there are still those people who think it is immoral, trashy, and un Christain. Well why is this? If you live with someone before you marry them, you learn all of thier flaws. I didn't know that my husband threw his socks all over the house till we moved in together, because he always cleaned house before I would come over. We lived 2 hours away from each other-- * he was in college * ...... By living together we were kinda practicing being married! Thats what it was like. A friend of mine was married 3 weeks ago to her boyfriend of 3 years. They had never even spent the night together before. They are in thier early 20's. I think he is 25, and she is 24. Well both thier parents are very Christain, and matter of fact she had a curfew till she was married--- * crazy huh * but anyhow back to what I was saying, she called me the other day, they can't sleep in the same bed, because they fight nhon stop about pillows, and blankets. They have different hygene habits, and eatting habits. She was raised to eat whenever she was hungry, he was raised to only eat at meal times. She was raised to use the same towell a few days in a row after bathing, he found this disgusting! So I can only say that when my kids come home and tell me they are going to move in with thier girlfriends, or viseversa.... I won't have a problem with it. Will you?

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Date: 7/1/2002 4:04:00 PM  From Authorid: 51191    its like this theres no difference between marriage and living together you're happy and you know each other well and if two gay women live together then noone will think anything of it unless they know they are gay so if girls can live with girls and guys with guys then why not together and if you have a bf and you don't live with youre parents then you're probably having sex so so have sex whenn you get married you have sex when you aren't your gonna have sex so wouldn't it just be easier if you lived and slept together and if someone has a prob with it they will get over and its not their bis and not their concern. tell them to mtofb  
Date: 7/1/2002 4:05:00 PM  From Authorid: 49914    i think living together is ok. I didnt live with my husband before we were married, because my parents ask me not too, but i think you do learn alot about each other so i dont have a problem with it  
Date: 7/1/2002 4:14:00 PM  From Authorid: 6050    I'm glad i lived with my ex...Because, you get a glimpse of the future to come..and that could be the very reason i turned him down for marriage.  
Date: 7/1/2002 4:15:00 PM  From Authorid: 56192    I lived with my husband long before we got married and I dont think there is anything wrong with it. I also think it gives you a chance to learn about eachothers habbits before you say I do. Its better then getting a divorce a month after you get married, lol. ~*~BluexDolphin~*~  
Date: 7/1/2002 4:16:00 PM  From Authorid: 56825    i don't know and it is disgusting to use the same
towel over and over again but it depends
on the couple i think that i don't rightly know
but that it just the husband will cleave to his
wife and the two will become one flesh
something that's happened for some weird reason
it's literal i think i don't do you think that
the two actually become one? like they think
the same thoughts and all that? And if so
do you think that God did it for a reason?
It can't be all that bad since he loves
and has a good peaceful plan for those that
follow His way you know what do you think?
Date: 7/1/2002 4:17:00 PM  From Authorid: 56825    and by the way i was taught that you eat
at meals too and i know how to cook food
always have a salad a veggie and other things
we've talked about this before!
Date: 7/1/2002 4:17:00 PM  From Authorid: 52866    I disagree too! - Luv Bug  
Date: 7/1/2002 4:19:00 PM  From Authorid: 56825    also i don't think about things like that
all the little things it's just called being
courteous if someone doesn't like something
just say i prefer this or that and the other
person says okay honey! that's called cooperation
it takes maturity and working with others
at work helps you be mature about things
I prefer to talk about career stuff
Date: 7/1/2002 4:20:00 PM  From Authorid: 56825    what else is there
that's different?
Date: 7/1/2002 5:20:00 PM  From Authorid: 53052    it's written in the bible but the bible is VERY outdated i think it's better to live together first get ti know the person you will intend to marry and if you can live together before you jump into the marriage commitment... less chance of divorce...and i also think that people should not be allowed to marry if they haven't been dating thier partner for a MIN of 6-8 months(i like more of a year though)  
Date: 7/1/2002 5:49:00 PM  From Authorid: 53909    Umm, my dad didn't like the idea of me and my bf living together. We've been living together for over two years now. My dad thinks that we should get married after being together for 2 1/2 years, but we feel its not time yet....*PunkStarChikk*  
Date: 7/1/2002 5:52:00 PM  From Authorid: 26227    I dont think its wrong. You get to see all the other ones flaws before you get married  
Date: 7/1/2002 6:08:00 PM  From Authorid: 42522    I agree with Halfbaked.  
Date: 7/1/2002 6:20:00 PM  From Authorid: 46486    I will only have a provlem with it if the guy/girl is a completele jerk and is not right for my child. But my parents won't let my fiance move in with us, and he really needs to move in because there are more jobs where I live than where he lives. Anyway, I was really angry about it, so wasn't he. I don't know why they say its wrong either.  
Date: 7/1/2002 6:21:00 PM  From Authorid: 42945    I wouldn't have, but today being 2002, ideas and opinions have changed so much, 2 of my kids did and it didnt work out when they did eventually marry, its hard to say these days that when a couple do marry without living together first that their relationship will last anyway...to each their own I say....hugs Zema  

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