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Anyone have Low Self Esteem?....*PunkStarChikk*

  Author:  53909  Category:(General Advice) Created:(6/15/2002 7:55:00 PM)
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I have a real low self esteem. It's so depressing. Like, I hate the way I look, I always put myself down, day and day I wish that I were someone else and beautiful, I am so negative...etc...

I have sufffered from this and depression since a little before high school. I can't even look into a mirror without crying so I don't look at it at all. Depression isn't an easy thing to make go away. It runs in my family....but I really wish that I could bring up my self esteem just a little. Everyday I'm so upset of what I look like and stuff..... Has anyone ever felt like this? What did you do?

I've tried many and many times to not believe what people say to me. When someone does say something nice to me, like I look good..etc... , I dont' believe it. No matter how hard I try. All I can think of is how ugly I am... I tell myself that all the time.....I can't help it... I wish I were beautiful and I wish that this pain would go away...

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Date: 6/15/2002 7:57:00 PM  From Authorid: 54289    i can understand that. i'd say i have a medium self-esteem  
Date: 6/15/2002 7:58:00 PM  From Authorid: 10534    Aw I'm sorry that you feel that way, I do to. If any one says anything nice, I'm thinking "haha yeah right" and I also don't think any one likes me, even though I do have a lot of friends. I have really low self esteem...ehhh  
Date: 6/15/2002 8:04:00 PM  From Authorid: 18516    I understand how you feel b/c I feel that way too. It's hard to deal with..I was really down on myself like a year and half ago after I got my hair cut real short. I just cried b/c I thought I was so ugly..and people have said some negative things to me that are upsetting..you can end up dwelling on those negative things. I think about the positive things that people have said to me..focus on that stuff. Your true beauty is inside let it out and your outer beauty will show. I do admit I have very low self confidence as well. But anywho cheer up hon cuz you are BEAUTIFUL!!! If you need to talk msg me anytime.  
Date: 6/15/2002 8:04:00 PM  From Authorid: 29928    I have been there many times myself for one reason or the other. You can try this..make a list of affirmations and say them to yourself everyday, several times a day for quite a while..reprogram your sub conscience. Write things down like: I am a good person, I am beautiful, I have a good heart, etc. whatever you think is appropriate..it does help. Hugs,  
Date: 6/15/2002 8:53:00 PM  From Authorid: 18527    Yeah actually I do...   
Date: 6/15/2002 9:07:00 PM  From Authorid: 42522    I have really low self esteem...it sux.  
Date: 6/15/2002 10:55:00 PM  From Authorid: 14314    I´m sure you are not ugly at all, and you are a beautiful perosn, and also, you are beautiful for God, He is your Creator, and will always love you!!!!!!!!! I know what you mean, I used to feel like that, when I was a teenager, but thank God, I feel better now!! I hope you feel better soon!! GOD Loves You!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  
Date: 6/16/2002 10:51:00 AM  From Authorid: 54909    Great post you are a beautiful person dont ever put yourself down... if you keep yourself up, you will look even more beautiful then you are, good luck.
Date: 6/16/2002 10:53:00 AM  From Authorid: 54909    I always keep my self esteem up because i know how i feel when i do, but sometimes i can think that im like ugly and fat... but those days ill try to get over it... From: BlackBeauty
Date: 6/16/2002 11:23:00 AM  From Authorid: 53409    ve a really low self asteem too...A lot of people used to make fun of me all the time...like for 2 years straight my nick-name was Piggy or pig or lil' miss piggy...all I ever think anymore is ohw ugly I am, and how fat I am...nobody knows what all the pig stuff did to me..i dont even think that I know, but people are finally starting to lighten up on it, and then when they are talking to me..they ask me why I have such low self esteem, and I say it is cause of you and I walk away. most of them dont even care that they have made my life *really bad* but they have. I have ound myself some friends that are helping me with my self esteem problem whether they know it or not. so find yourself some friends...some GOOD friends that is, and it might help a lil bit. and im sure you arn't ugly at all! good luck *hugz* ~*~Superficial Sister*~*  
Date: 6/16/2002 2:37:00 PM  From Authorid: 54830    You should feel happy that you are alive and are able to function well.. why do you even care about how you dress, or what you look like? 'It is not but what you look like, but the content of your charactor that matters' i love that re-done version of that quote, you have friends do you not? If you do, thats great go out and be happy, forget about everything else.. just have fun, if you dont, go out and join clubs, or sports.. but remember to have fun. If none of this helped you, try talking to someone, or go to Therapy. But remember be yourself... *hugz* GigaBitez  
Date: 6/17/2002 3:14:00 AM  From Authorid: 53052    have you tried a personal hobby trying to express yourself through something... painting.... photography?  
Date: 7/23/2002 2:57:00 PM  From Authorid: 14780    I think this is common for girls...we all feel this way one time or another...Just take it one day at a time and everyday compliment yourself on something.....  

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