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Long distance love.. or relationship stuff getitng old... tons of questions here.. open to all!! :D

  Author:  34758  Category:(General Advice) Created:(6/10/2002 4:27:00 PM)
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Do you think when we are with people for a while, and it's the same thing over and over, you just get tired of it no matter what? are we ever satisfied or do we always want/need more? here is my situation. I am in a long distance relationship right now and i have been in one for the last 8 months, at least. during the last, well, our whole relationship we have seen each other a lot. i ran out of vacation time at work, we're both broke, and he can't really come here much under the circumstances. we are very close. we talk at least twice a day. but, lately i have been feeling the disance. when we saw each other more often it wasn't that bad. we both always couldn't wait to see each other, and the time we spent together was 100% the best. well now, we're both sort of tired of the phone. we're tired of emails for sure... we're tired of missing each other so much that the whole thing is just feeling "old." i plan on moving to be with him, but i can't any time in the very near future because i'm sort of waiting on a job there. i may move next month, i may move 8 months from now. i know we can make it threw, but i wanted to see if anyone else has gone through similar feelings where things just felt "old." or if i could get some encouragment to hang in there for the love that we have.. i mean.. we do love each other a whole lot, but this is definitly a true test. i'm sure he feels the same. the phone just doesn't seem as fullfilling as it use to. does this mean i don't love him as much? what are some things i could do to make this better?

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Date: 6/10/2002 4:33:00 PM  From Authorid: 18527    Ack... that´s a toughie... I had a long distance relationship for 3 years (I was married 2 of them) and it was really hard... but we got through it... just remember how much you love each other!  
Date: 6/10/2002 4:33:00 PM  From Authorid: 3688    been there, done that...trust me i understand how hard it is but it'll get easier....the thing to focus on...would you rather have him....even if he is far away for now or would you rather end it and risk losing a good thing? i spent almost two years in a long distance relationship, before i up and moved, getting married to him in the process and i can say that distance bites..hands down it bites....but if you two are truly meant to be you'll make it work.  
Date: 6/10/2002 4:40:00 PM  From Authorid: 47699    I'll just put it this way. If the TV is in another town, it's pretty hard to run a cable to it.  
Date: 6/10/2002 4:46:00 PM  From Authorid: 16845    tough, I was upset yesterday because my honey *yes doing the distance thing too* left to go back home after a week visit....due to some health problems it was iffy if I'd be able to visit for his friends wedding later this month.....but his friend just asked me to do the wedding photography for their wedding LOL so I'll most likely be headed out in a few weeks. it's not easy yesterday I thought 'I could move out there this summer....' But I won't if we're meant to be we're meant to be.....communication is the simple key...  
Date: 6/10/2002 4:46:00 PM  From Authorid: 15997    I'm in a long distance relationship...i have been for over 2 years now. all i'm gonna say is that compared to my long distance relationship u r truly blessed. Hold on to what you have...i know its hard...but i would trade places with you in a heartbeat. dont take what u have for granted.  
Date: 6/10/2002 4:49:00 PM  From Authorid: 49101    WOW! When did YOU read MY Diary??? LOL! My fiance lives 89.9 miles away from me. And I have cried a million tears for each mile. I know EXACTLY how you feel. I haven't worked for some time now, so I am broke and I can't go to him, and he owns his own buisness and can't get away. IT DRIVES ME MAD! YES, things get boring, same ole thing, BLAH... BUT TRUST ME, If you really love eachother, love will find a way. One of the things I do to keep things different, is I surprise him once a week, or two, with a kiss to his cell phone (Via Text messaging) OR once in a while, between all the regular Emails to tell him what has been up, I send him a virtual kiss, or a... erm... HMHMHM Picture. (Figure that one out.) The best way to keep things new, is to do them differently. DON'T call eachother EVER DAY, do so once or twice a week, so that you are LONGING to talk to one another. BE A TEASE! And in order to stick to my perfect score of "g" ratingness, you can PM or IM me for further comment! LOL! HUGGLES MissC.  
Date: 6/10/2002 4:51:00 PM  From Authorid: 49101    Miss Dewdrop is 100% correct. Communication is a key element!  
Date: 6/10/2002 5:45:00 PM  From Authorid: 28125    I am in a long distance relationship right now with a fellow USmer...we are meeting Wednesday evening...he is coming out to visit me and go to my college graduation...I really want to know if we are meant to be together...because if we are meant to be...then things will work out according to God's will for us and we will end up being together...it will be rough and maybe repetitive at times...but I will still love him no matter what the outcome may be...blessings to you...Love and Hugs...ICL~*~*~*~  
Date: 6/11/2002 8:11:00 PM  From Authorid: 41067    Yup, totally. Me and Spirits are seperated by the Atlantic, Colerado to the UK, and I feel the distance a lot, but I know that I'll always love her, no matter what. Yes, it can be frustrating, and lonely at times, but I know we'll be togther soon.  

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