Date: 5/25/2002 5:54:00 PM
From Authorid: 5252
breathe!! it's NATURAL to fight with your parent(s). instead of making her upset, just go to your room, or walk around outside, or do something to calm you down. it'll be better in the end. if you know you're about to fight with her, then walk away, tell her you need to cool down.  |
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Date: 5/25/2002 5:59:00 PM
From Authorid: 36877
Well first of all i wouldnt come out and tell her she should excercise but instead try to encourage it. Ask her to go for a walk with you to the store or around the block or to the park or something. Second it seems like you have a lot of stress your going through too. Try to get rid of some of it by talking to someone about whats bothering you. My SN is Shadyase just in case you want to talk to me. |
Date: 5/25/2002 6:06:00 PM
From Authorid: 5622
I think that you are taken an importand step in recognizing that there is a problem. Your mom could be afraid of what these tumors could be...but if you, instead of getting angry at her try another aproach like telling her how you are going to missed her if anything happened to her and how much you care and love her, and how you are going to support her no matter what, you could get closer...don't blame yourself because its only going to block any alternatives that you could have, just be sure to be supportive or get out side help to make your mom realize that she must take care of her condition...  |
Date: 5/25/2002 6:12:00 PM
From Authorid: 53547
I think that you need to be as happy as possible around your mom, and like 36877 said, try to possitively encourage your mom to exercise, and do it in ways so it's not looked at by her as exercise. If she still won't excercise and it seems like everything in the world is going to blow up with tension, just ask another adult for help, your only 14 and you can't be expected to do everything... **BIG HUG** (And not everyone gets hugs from me  - Abdicated to Tertiary  |
Date: 5/25/2002 7:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 28767
Awww hun, me and my mom got in fights all the time..And we still do.. I realized its not my fault all the time. You gotta realize. I bet there seems to be a lot of tension in your family. All I can say is try to sit down and talk to her nicely, Tell her it makes me feel bad when you yell at me...When she starts to yell don't say anything back, but run outside and ignore it, til you both cool down. Because you should be out having fun and not having to deal wiht so much stress...I also might recomend seeing a counseler. peace out..  |
Date: 5/25/2002 7:54:00 PM
From Authorid: 51194
try going to a coussler or a really good friend and see if they can help. all teen ager fight but try tog et some body else to incourge her. maybe her best friend or her mom and dad but you can't do it all. and most of all prey for her.  |
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Date: 5/27/2002 9:32:00 PM
From Authorid: 54063
Parents and their children will fight, its natural. You are concerned about your family and that is normal. Just be happy they are there and don't worry about he fights WiccaGal |
