Date: 5/23/2002 4:23:00 PM
From Authorid: 3538
Ask now, before things get too intense.Let him know that your an honest person, who wants to hear the truth, let him know, if he not telling the truth, that you won't get mad or upset, but do ask him why he felt the need to lie to you.There is a reason why he does not want to reveal his real state, if at all.  |
Date: 5/23/2002 4:25:00 PM
From Authorid: 49789
yeah you should ask him. if he really is your friend, then he shouldn`t be bothered by your question. don`t worry about it  *Huggles* All My Love,  |
Date: 5/23/2002 4:27:00 PM
From Authorid: 49037
Maybe at first he was a little wary about becoming close with someone he met on the internet. So he said he lived in another state, just in case. I wouldn't think that he's trying to nicely ditch you or anything because he did call. maybe he's trying to figure out how to tell you that he fibbed at first, but he's afraid you'll get mad. If you truely want to continue the friendship, just tell him straight out. You do have a right to know if he's lying to you, and why. Just say, "Listen, I noticed that when you called me, the number that showed up was from ___ state. What's the deal?" If he's worth having as a friend, he won't get mad, and he'll tell you the truth. Sorry, I know I'm long winded sometimes, I'll stop now. Good luck. :-)  |
Date: 5/23/2002 4:27:00 PM
From Authorid: 28946
If he lied about this small thing, what about the big things he might not have told you. I would be extremely cautious!  |
Date: 5/23/2002 4:28:00 PM
From Authorid: 3321
If he uses a calling card, then the number will be from the state where the company that sells the calling card is based in. That would be a very logical reason. See what he says.  |
Date: 5/23/2002 4:30:00 PM
From Authorid: 53806
ask him don't go into any relationship with doubt! and if he's offended by you asking, then you don't need that type of man in your life!  |
Date: 5/23/2002 4:40:00 PM
From Authorid: 49465
ask him, you need to know before something happens. Shotman007  |
Date: 5/23/2002 4:44:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 43336
Ok well, it looks like I should ask him. So when I talk to him I will. I can understand if he was wary about telling me where he was from but what I don't get, unless it is because of what Persephone said might be the reason, then I can understand this part, is that he gave me another number from the state he told me he lived in. I haven't called it so I am not sure what would happen, but I will ask him and see what he says. Thank you everyone for the advice. He really does seem like a good guy otherwise.  |
Date: 5/24/2002 2:23:00 AM
From Authorid: 47699
2+2 don't equal 5 no matter how you look at it. Think about that for a second! Be careful!  |
Date: 5/24/2002 6:25:00 AM
From Authorid: 48577
You can try two different tacts here. You could be up front with him and ask, or call his number and find out.  |
