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I need help on this... ::bf/gf type stuff:: ~*KittieChic*~

  Author:  53164  Category:(General Advice) Created:(5/19/2002 6:34:00 PM)
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Alright, I've been going out with this guy for a month plus more. He's really nice and sometimes funny but it's come to my attention that we hardly have anything in common, we rarely talk about unless we're discussing plans for something (when we're out we still don't really talk...at all), and he always stays a foot away from me when we do things today, or walk together or something. Plus he got slapped on the butt by this "hot" girl at school and although he thinks it's nasty, he still tries to tell anyone that'll listen to him, he even named some girls he thinks are hot in front of me! I want to break up with him but I think that he has some feelings for me of some kind. I hate hurting people, too. Plus...there's this other guy I kinda sorta like that I know will treat me better. What do y'all think I should do?

SHEA DON'T TELL HIM I SAID THIS! ~*KittieChic*~

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Date: 5/19/2002 6:39:00 PM  From Authorid: 54891    i think you should just get rid of him and tell him you jusst want to be friends with him cause you think you guys don't have enough in commom to go out with him
Date: 5/19/2002 6:44:00 PM  From Authorid: 41067    Go with the other guy Katie, he sounds like he'll be better for you.  
Date: 5/19/2002 6:44:00 PM  From Authorid: 45866    tell him those reasons you just told us, and give it a few more days, if he doesn't straighten up his act, boot him and meet and greet the next guy.  
Date: 5/19/2002 6:45:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 53164    Thanks everyone.  
Date: 5/19/2002 6:46:00 PM  From Authorid: 36803    I totally understand the not hurting people's feelings thing, but sometimes it's unavoidable. You have to do what's going to make you the happiest. You've said you don't have anything in common, you hardly talk, he talks about other girls in front of you, and he tells everyone about the girl who gave him a pat on the bum. Obviously, there's not much compatibility here and you already know there's another guy you'd rather have. Just tell him, that'd you'd rather be friends. You don't have to be mean about it, just meet him in person, sit him down and explain that you've decided friendship would be the better way to go and that you don't have enough interests in common to be compatible. By the way he's acting, more than likely he feels the same way too and just hasn't gotten the courage to say anything. Good Luck. I hope things work out for you. *hugs*  
Date: 5/19/2002 8:58:00 PM  From Authorid: 35383    i think you should go for the guy who will treat you better. whats the point of being with that other guy if ya'll dont even act like a bf and gf ya know? well good luck
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Date: 5/19/2002 10:29:00 PM  From Authorid: 30786    It sounds like you already know that he is not right for you. You don't seem compatible, and I don't think you should feel trapped in the relationship for fear of hurting someone else. Are you willing to stay with him forever just so his feelings aren't hurt? I think not  
Date: 5/19/2002 11:40:00 PM  From Authorid: 53052    you are in an auard situation.. any relationship situation what isn't a good one tends to be aquard*L* i do suggest parting way but remaining friends, say something like i know your noticing other girls and seem to be getting less and less intersted in me but that is ok, because deep down i think both of us don't think this is gonna work out and it's better to know and end it sooner then when it gets to a larger thing a few months... years down the road  
Date: 5/20/2002 2:49:00 PM  From Authorid: 53158    ok kt i won't i think you should break up with him cuz he is a creep. a creepy creep. what i am trying to say is that he is just using you to say he is going out with somebody. i know a few things about him that he has said in homeroom

-sphinix
  

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