Date: 5/19/2002 6:02:00 PM
From Authorid: 46486
Just explain to him that you're not ready to have sex yet, if he doesn't understand then maybe it'll show that he doesn't respect you as much.  |
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Date: 5/19/2002 6:11:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 54884
but it's hard because all of he's other gf's put out and so many girls want him and would sleep with him and i don't want to lose him |
Date: 5/19/2002 6:15:00 PM
From Authorid: 53157
I agree with fallin angel!  |
Date: 5/19/2002 6:17:00 PM
From Authorid: 53164
Well, not to tell you what to do, but this is what I would do. Tell him that if he really loves you then he could wait until you are ready, and for me that is after marrige. If he gets mad and dumps you, forget about him, he doesn't really love you, or maybe he does but not so much as that he can wait...or something like that? I hope this helps. ~*KittieChic*~  |
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Date: 5/19/2002 6:34:00 PM
From Authorid: 54891
COULD YOU GUYS READ MY OTHER ONE AND WRITE ADVICEUNDER SERIOUS ADVICE CHEATING ON MY BF |
Date: 5/19/2002 6:51:00 PM
From Authorid: 41067
Expalin that you don't feel ready. A true b/f, a true man will understand and will wait for you.  |
Date: 5/19/2002 6:53:00 PM
From Authorid: 36803
I know this is a sensitive subject, but you have to keep YOUR best interests at heart. I realize you don't want to lose him, but if he really cares about your wellbeing and how you feel, than he won't pressure you into anything you're not ready to do. You just need to be blunt with him. Tell him you're not ready. Tell him you care about him A LOT, but sex is not something you take lightly and you want to make sure you're 100% ready and willing before you do it. If he can't accept your reasons, than he is not worth it. No guy who really cares, will pressure a woman into something she doesn't want or isn't ready for. A gentleman would not do that. Good Luck with talking to him. I sincerely hope things work out for you.  Just remember, your feelings about this are number 1. If you don't want to, than don't do it. *hugs*  |
Date: 12/15/2002 1:11:00 AM
From Authorid: 16339
avalonelle is absolutely right. If he truly cares abt you and loves you then he would not pressure you into doing something you dont want to do - explain to him how you feel, if he is genuine he wil understand. (And I am aware I am probably the only guy to reply, but dont underestimate my judgement because my counterparts are almost all sex craized maniacs). Act Wisely,  |
