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Date: 5/12/2002 8:44:00 PM
From Authorid: 6817
I am a personality person. If someone has a charming personallity then they themselves are beautiful! But if your personality is all yucky and even if u are the prettiest person ever on the outside you're uglier than a dog pile.  |
Date: 5/12/2002 8:46:00 PM
From Authorid: 43692
Ummm... Yeah, looks do lead to personality though, right? Someone who catches your attention leads you wanting to get to know them. Do I sound shallow? :-\  |
Date: 5/12/2002 8:47:00 PM
From Authorid: 49459
Personality is more important to me. Some of the real beautiful looking people can become really ugly if they have a bad personality.  |
Date: 5/12/2002 8:47:00 PM
From Authorid: 11251
I'm with Freaq. Personality is everything. True beauty comes from within.  |
Date: 5/12/2002 8:48:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 45630
No that's my whole point. I mean you can becaome friends with someone and then fall in love with them but if your in a public place your eyes will be drawn to the prettiest flower. You'll then go over and see if it is a flower or a weed so to speak.  |
Date: 5/12/2002 8:48:00 PM
From Authorid: 48993
both............. if i wasnt attracted to my hubby , how could i of ever began a relationship with him? its both , because if my hubby had no personality , we would of never been together longer than a few months ....... i need both for sure!  it will be 8 years in august and he still keeps me guessing and i am still attracted to him! he takes my breath away ......... and drives me up a wall!! ahhhhh the wonders of marriage!  |
Date: 5/12/2002 8:48:00 PM
From Authorid: 42519
Its personality for me, but you gotta grab my attention by how you look. Its a love the way you are, but if I dont talk to you first cuz your not that cute, then you better be for showin me otherwise...  |
Date: 5/12/2002 8:49:00 PM
From Authorid: 50193
Looks are definetly secondary to Personality; luckily I found them both with Fallin Angel. >Vampyre Gerbil<  |
Date: 5/12/2002 8:49:00 PM
From Authorid: 20956
i agree with you there Kurt. Although i mainly go for guys that have a personality that i like and that 'meshes' with mine, i still need to have some physical attraction between us. i also find that a person can become alot more attractive if they have a great personality and vis versa. I once met this guy who was a complete hottie and everyone wanted him. anyway, i dated him a few times and realised that he absolutely nothing past his looks. I would have got a more stimulating converstation talking to a park bench!!! ......  |
Date: 5/12/2002 8:51:00 PM
From Authorid: 28767
Attraction and than personality...lol peace out..  |
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Date: 5/12/2002 8:53:00 PM
From Authorid: 43692
Lol, say, Sun Angel, do you know any park benches that you can hook me up with? |
Date: 5/12/2002 8:54:00 PM
From Authorid: 17014
Materialistic people go for looks. People like me go for personality-- how they make me feel is more important than how they look.  |
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Date: 5/12/2002 8:55:00 PM
From Authorid: 6817
If you went for looks...you would prolly have someone that would go and cheat on u or sumthin becuz the hottie would know they could just have someone else if they wanted them...my advice to you...if you go for the hotties you'll fly over all the flowers and land in a pile of crap... |
Date: 5/12/2002 8:56:00 PM
From Authorid: 48412
Personality is the most important but most ppl go after looks,but then they discover that they chose the wrong choice.But realy no one can go for someone that is ugly althought they have the best personality.If u ask me Im in the middle  |
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Date: 5/12/2002 8:58:00 PM
From Authorid: 17014
LMAO FreaqFreeze has it right!!!! LOL |
Date: 5/12/2002 8:59:00 PM
From Authorid: 38683
I think that Personallity is more important!   |
Date: 5/12/2002 9:00:00 PM
From Authorid: 35720
Well naturally looks are what attracts me to a guy. I'm not looking for Brad Pitt.. but an attractive appearance is appealing. Personality is the most important aspect however. I like a guy whose hilarious and perverted but good-natured perverted not gross perverted. LOL it's hard to explain. Anyway, a mixture of both is perfect.  |
Date: 5/12/2002 9:00:00 PM
From Authorid: 53055
I think that it has to be mostly personality. If you are going out or married to someone who has a lousy personality, you won't be able to get along with that person. Things will most likely turn out bad. -bloodstone  |
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Date: 5/12/2002 9:01:00 PM
From Authorid: 35720
Freaq sometimes that's not true! |
Date: 5/12/2002 9:01:00 PM
From Authorid: 50435
I agree. Why is it that we obsess over our appearances? Because, like it or not, more times than not, first APPEARANCE is what the initial attraction is. And, of course, long-distance relationships don't count. However, looks are most definitely not everything. For some they are, but for most they are not. It is important to be physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually attracted to someone. Personality is strong. You may even find yourself with someone who you may not have even considered approaching based on appearance all because of an exceptional personality. For me it's cute. A girl has to be cute. Cute is not just looks, it's a personality/physical combo. You can't truly be cute without the personality to back it up. Cute without the personality, in my opinion, is what beautiful women are. To me, cute is the highest plane. And there are more cute girls out there than you think. Finding a girl with a cute personality may just change your checklist for what you deem is important in the way of looks. I've been adjusting my own checklist neverendingly. Bottom line, for me, I need personality AND looks, but if I had to pick one, personality, 'cos you dont have to live with her looks(ouch, that sounded bad, but I don't mean it in a bad way...I mean that how you get along with her is determined by her personality, not her looks...K?). So there ya have it...LOL. Take care and talk to her before ya make any hasty decisions...you might just be surprised at what she TRULY looks like...Gallytuck.  |
Date: 5/12/2002 9:01:00 PM
From Authorid: 51684
Personally, I go for personality. I try not to make any judgements until I have met the person. Once I have met them, if they have a good personaltiy, I consider them beautiful. I think my best friend is absolutely gorgeous, but it's not because of her looks at all. In fact, others usually see her as unattractive. I wish more people would get to know others before they made any decisions. ~Charisma K.~  |
Date: 5/12/2002 9:02:00 PM
From Authorid: 21435
Greeting Kurtvedder. Here at USM, I think that it's all about personality. Out there, probably the same also. Good question...Write on....  |
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Date: 5/12/2002 9:02:00 PM
From Authorid: 6817
But rika! it is most of the time! |
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Date: 5/12/2002 9:04:00 PM
From Authorid: 6817
I have to be honest though...if someone is so nasty in the face and they have a good personallity I wont be with them if I can't look at them and be happy with the appearance....but usually the less attractive ones are the ones who treat you best! |
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Date: 5/12/2002 9:05:00 PM
From Authorid: 35720
Freaq, but if someone goes after hotties and they are EQUALLY hot.. then most likely the hotties will feel privelidged to stay with each other. Either that or they'd cheat on each other.. such a complicating theory. LOL |
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Date: 5/12/2002 9:06:00 PM
From Authorid: 35720
Freaq, yeah.. I mean if a guy has a perfect personality but he's butt ugly and then there's another with a cute face a a personality with some flaws, I'd go with the cute one.. I know that sounds shallow but I'm being honest. |
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Date: 5/12/2002 9:06:00 PM
From Authorid: 6817
I, myself, am not an antique. I am not ugly though because I treat everyone like they treat me. You treat me nice I'll be nice. You treat me ugly I'll treat you UGLIER! |
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Date: 5/12/2002 9:06:00 PM
From Authorid: 17014
Rika--most of the gorgeous guys that I've met have turned out to be the biggest jerks- 99%. It's the average ones that have the best personality's because they don't come equipped with the overinflated egos... |
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Date: 5/12/2002 9:07:00 PM
From Authorid: 6817
I agree w/ kelsey....gorgeous is gutless....hehe |
Date: 5/12/2002 9:07:00 PM
From Authorid: 42568
All a guy really needs to be is perfect, and then i'd date him. Not talkin' about looks. He could resemble a goat, and I'd still go out with him. I've been hurt way too much in my life, I'm not going to spend my time with some guy that will just end up being Mr. Wrong. It'll take close to a year of knowing the guy before I'd date him.  |
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Date: 5/12/2002 9:09:00 PM
From Authorid: 35720
Bethann, yeah same here. I like to wait till I'm sure they're right for me. |
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Date: 5/12/2002 9:09:00 PM
From Authorid: 6817
Gee, Bethann...I knew my guy for on the net for a week....then we met...I knew him a couple days after that he asked me out and we're still together! We are sooo in love! |
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Date: 5/12/2002 9:10:00 PM
From Authorid: 6817
PS. I see him like every day. So It aint a desperate long distance deal. |
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Date: 5/12/2002 9:10:00 PM
From Authorid: 35720
Freaq, that's really cool. Happy to hear it. |
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Date: 5/12/2002 9:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 6817
thank you Rika |
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Date: 5/12/2002 9:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 20956
Come to think of it Jen theres quite a nice looking one i can see now looking out my window here at work. Nice paint job, though i hear he's been seen with letter box down the street. Could just be a rumour though !!! |
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Date: 5/12/2002 9:14:00 PM
From Authorid: 42568
Thats really cool Freaq Congrats. I'm just saying for myself, coz I've got trust issues. |
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Date: 5/12/2002 9:16:00 PM
From Authorid: 6817
I use to have trust issues bad I still do kinda but there was just something about him! there were sparks the night we met! it was soooo romantic! |
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Date: 5/12/2002 9:17:00 PM
From Authorid: 35720
Awww Freaq!! I want the sparks!! No one ever sparks for me!! LOL |
Date: 5/12/2002 9:19:00 PM
From Authorid: 43200
I believe that personality is what matters the most but it's bonus if the person is goodlooking..even if it's just to you, you have to be attracted to the person..  |
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Date: 5/12/2002 9:19:00 PM
From Authorid: 6817
You gotta flash em the EYE....don't scare them but just ya know don't squint give em the look that says I AM THE SEXIEST LADY ALIVE AND I WANT YOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOU.....LOL |
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Date: 5/12/2002 9:20:00 PM
From Authorid: 43200
I believe that my boyfriend is goodlooking but not everyone may think the same... i'm attracted to him and that's all that matters.... |
Date: 5/12/2002 9:20:00 PM
From Authorid: 22080
ok i think anyone who says they only go soley(sp?) on looks they are lieing everyone needs a lil looks ill admit it there has to be some looks to compliment the personality but i go for punk,freak,and goth chix hehe  |
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Date: 5/12/2002 9:22:00 PM
From Authorid: 6817
I swear I think my bf is the sexiest guy alive! He doesn't believe me but in my eyes he is excrusiating (sp) |
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Date: 5/12/2002 9:24:00 PM
From Authorid: 6817
Awww. Kurt. You will! I know you will! |
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Date: 5/12/2002 9:24:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 45630
good for you freaq. I once had a woman that thought that of me. But we broke up a couple of years ago. It'd be nice to find that again one day. |
Date: 5/12/2002 9:25:00 PM
From Authorid: 4548
personality goes a long way...  |
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Date: 5/12/2002 9:26:00 PM
From Authorid: 6817
Welp. I am very sleepy. I am going to try and get a little shut eye now. God bless everyone and may you all find *THE SPARK* |
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Date: 5/12/2002 9:32:00 PM
From Authorid: 21867
Yo Kurt, Well, physical appearance certainly gets the first look...after that it comes down to personality. Whats more important?? Personality for sure...but the fact is the greater majority of human beings will always INITIALLY go on looks...and hope that those looks also contain some personality. Peace,  |
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Date: 5/12/2002 9:32:00 PM
From Authorid: 35720
LOL thanks Freaq!! |
Date: 5/12/2002 9:41:00 PM
From Authorid: 49543
lol at jezebel. that would have to be one charming pig, lol. luv -MaceyHope  |
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Date: 5/12/2002 9:51:00 PM
From Authorid: 4548
LMAO macey! i was wondering if anyone would catch that (royale with cheese) |
Date: 5/12/2002 10:02:00 PM
From Authorid: 49277
i think most people go for someone that looks like they have a good personality lol  |
| Date: 5/12/2002 10:19:00 PM From Authorid: 53341 I think looks and personality go together. So I say both...Takoda |
Date: 5/12/2002 10:20:00 PM
From Authorid: 17525
Me? I'm into ugly, mean people. They're really a turn-on. LOL Peace,  |
Date: 5/12/2002 10:35:00 PM
From Authorid: 38849
Well, to be honest, looks matter to some extent to all of us. While our tastes may all be different, it is usually looks that say get somebody to say hi initially, but since looks change, personality should be what carries the relationship onward. Oh, and am going to say it here. Hi Becky! I love you, dear! --  |
Date: 5/12/2002 10:42:00 PM
From Authorid: 7089
anyone who acts like they're all that might's well add '& a bag of cow chips' as far as i'm concerned-- gimme someone who lives in the real world. cheers,  |
| Date: 5/12/2002 10:56:00 PM From Authorid: 52217 Looks always matter a little...no matter who you are. i appreciate a beautiful woman but i can only respect a woman with a great personality. beauty is good to get someone to talk to you but after they come, what now? if a person has no personality, they get boring fast.i lean more on the side of personality. ~Messiah~ |
Date: 5/13/2002 3:03:00 AM
From Authorid: 46515
I think it's human nature to want to be physically attracted to someone before you get to know them. But I guess I don't have to tell you, that physical attractivness, is not everything.  |
Date: 5/13/2002 4:28:00 AM
From Authorid: 10722
Sorry but I'm willing to bet no one here dreams just about someones "personality". LOL  |
Date: 5/13/2002 4:40:00 AM
From Authorid: 12581
I definately go for the personality first but the looks second. I do feel you have to be attracted to someone physcially in order for a relationship to work, but the most important aspect is their personality cause looks can change and eventually all of our looks go, in the end it's the personality that counts. I'm no beauty queen but I feel that my easygoing personailty makes up for the lack in the looks department. My old man is literally older LOL 15 years older than I, but I think he's awfully handsome, but he's balding and has a little tummy and I love every inch of him Thanks so much for sharing this and Take care!!  |
Date: 5/13/2002 5:10:00 AM
From Authorid: 46266
Looks count. BUT - what YOU mean by 'looks?' Prettiness? I don't care how well you hide your freckles or how perfectly you pluck your eyebrows - how carefully you remember to swallow before you talk, or how often you shave your armpits. I'll admit, if you don't have a friendly face, healthy body, and genuine smile, you cannot attract me romantically. If you do not have a high standard of morality, you cannot keep me attracted for a week.  |
Date: 5/13/2002 6:02:00 AM
From Authorid: 1432
Usual its the physical that gets someones attention FIRST.. then they look past that..  |
Date: 5/13/2002 9:53:00 AM
From Authorid: 42104
first comes looks, because no one is going to try to start something with someone they aren't attracted to but to make it last there must be a personality. In the end personallity is more important.  |
| Date: 5/13/2002 10:51:00 AM From Authorid: 54108 I think that personality is very important. |
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Date: 5/13/2002 1:46:00 PM
From Authorid: 52140
I think there should be a spiritual connection, then a personality connection. I have to be bonded spirtually to a guy before I can go out w/ him. Also he has to have a good personality and he has to look slightly cute. But there are ppl who are gorgeous and their personality sucks, and I can see things that make them not look too good. But there are some ppl who's personality is awesome and their appearance is ugly and I can find beauty in them (even physically). For me tho it would spiritually, personality, looks great post JesusFreak  |
Date: 5/13/2002 2:04:00 PM
From Authorid: 52187
I think a personality is the best qualitiy, but looks do matter.  |
Date: 5/13/2002 3:22:00 PM
From Authorid: 9130
Looks are VERY important... but I HAVE gone out with hot guys who had no personalities and that didn't last long... I was lucky to find a guy that had an awesome personality as well as good looks  |
Date: 5/13/2002 6:15:00 PM
From Authorid: 15941
It's fine if she looks good but, If she has a bad attitude all the time and stuff, Forget it.  |
Date: 5/31/2002 7:08:00 PM
From Authorid: 32133
both |
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Date: 7/28/2002 6:09:00 PM
From Authorid: 42568
There was a guy that came into my work a week ago. The first impression that I got from him was that he was WEIRD! I thought, "Why is he wearing that shirt? I'd be so embarrassed..." He got called by the beautician to get his hair cut, and he sat down. He had a great personality. So outgoing, and nice to Tiphani while she was cutting his hair. He tried to keep the conversation flowing, and attract interest from her. He was talking about the Mothman Prophecies and topics I'd like to talk about with someone. He just seemed so great, I wish I asked for his phone number, but I really can't do that at work. I'm just hoping he'll come back, I'd like to be at least friends with him. I was so attracted to him while I just sat there watching him and listening to what he had to say. No way are looks important. Looks are important when you're too shallow to see the person differently. When you see their beautiful heart, they become beautiful on the outside to you as well. |
Date: 7/30/2002 12:28:00 AM
From Authorid: 20559
Personality  |
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