Date: 5/12/2002 8:03:00 PM
From Authorid: 12103
omg this is awful! who cares if he buys you soemthing when he gets paid next..even if he got you a 99 cent card ON mothers day would be better then getting a zillion flowers on a different day..well i thought so anywase..im so sorry *huggles*  |
Date: 5/12/2002 8:05:00 PM
From Authorid: 48993
at least it wasnt your birthday! my hubby forgot my b day 3 yrs ago ....... he never said anything to me before he left for work that day ... and my b day is vetrans day and he watches the today show before work so it was said over and over again the date 11/11 and the fact that it was vetrans day ........ he came home with a dozen roses and said im sorry over and over again ....... but it doesnt take away the hurt i felt all that day ..... and just remember him on fathers day and make him feel really terrible !~ (((hugs))) happy mothers day to you!  |
Date: 5/12/2002 8:06:00 PM
From Authorid: 1631
Sounds like a good reason to STAY separated to me...  |
Date: 5/12/2002 8:07:00 PM
From Authorid: 24924
Sorry, but the guy IS a loser. NOTHING is acceptable as an excuse for not acknowledging you. Nothing. He's an insensitive clod.  |
Date: 5/12/2002 8:09:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 16069
PrincessJen, He does this on all Holidays and on my birthday. Like you said, its not about what he gets for me, its the thought, and he didnt even think of me. Last year he at least made me aa card. I was happy about that. I just dont feel like he even cares about me at all.  |
Date: 5/12/2002 8:11:00 PM
From Authorid: 33925
I agree with Ali..sounds to me like the separation should be made permanent..what a loser..Im sorry hon..I know you are hurt..geez..how insensitive!! xoxo  |
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Date: 5/12/2002 8:15:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 16069
TheThinker, I just dont see how its possiable for him to remember its mothers day with his own mom, while Im standing right there. Even my daughter yelled, Happy Mothers day mommy! And my husband says, yeah, tell gramma happy mothers day! Does he even have a brain? Or was he intentionally trying to hurt me. I cant take it anymore. I cant quit crying. thanks for your support!! |
Date: 5/12/2002 8:17:00 PM
From Authorid: 46069
Aughhh MEN!!!... i didn't get anything either hon...  |
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Date: 5/12/2002 8:18:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 16069
LadyLuck, I hope you had a nice Mothers Day! All in all, mine was pretty good. My parents fed me, took me out for ice cream and got my flowers and a shirt, and they both told me happy mothers day the second they saw me. They made me feel special. I told them about my husband fgorgeting. They just said he doesnt care about you. When are you going to realize that. They werent trying to be mean they just hate how he treats me. Ohhhhh, and I saw baby bunnies! They were so beautiful! Happy moms day! |
Date: 5/12/2002 8:24:00 PM
From Authorid: 4231
Hmm..I'm sorry..Happy mothers Day..
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Date: 5/12/2002 8:31:00 PM
From Authorid: 45630
I've never seen it as a day for men to say thanks to the partners. I see it as a celebration of love and thanks for your mother. My dad never does anything for my mum on mothers day because it's understood that it's a day about my mum, my sister and myself. He looks after her on their anniversary and christmas so it's not needed. It's the same on fathers day. Mum doesn't interfere because it has nothing to do with her.  |
Date: 5/12/2002 8:34:00 PM
From Authorid: 3263
L-O-S-E-R!! Sorry to say it, cuz I know you are hurting, but the man obviously isn't good enough for you. Buy yourself flowers, and revel in the fact that although 2 can often be better than one, you are a strong, independant woman, and don't need him  |
Date: 5/12/2002 8:44:00 PM
From Authorid: 39887
I think you needed this separation to find out just what you mean or don't mean to him. He probably did it on purpose. YOU are a better person than he is, don't let this get to you. You are a great mom and your daughter loves you very much, his love you can do without because its not enough!! There is someone out there that will love and cherish you and feel honored to do so. Life can and will go on without him. Its time to move on and make happiness somewhere else. I hope he got his mom a gift, if not, he's a double jerk!!  |
Date: 5/12/2002 8:54:00 PM
From Authorid: 46800
my husband would never tell me happy mothers day never.... he'd go out and get a card for his mom and then tell me your not my mother so I dont have to tell you happy mothers day...... I fixed him up a couple of yrs later I cheated on him.....now he tell me happy mothers day!!!!!!!!!!!! Sometimes a man needs to know how much you can take off and get a new life, sometimes they need a wack in the head to let them know you are somebody. From all what you've said I wish you lots of love and luck with this man I know its hard and I know is rough and I know you are hurting so much. I've been there through the whole ringer. Sometimes you just gotta do whatcha gotta do and I am not saying do what I did its not the answer. But letting him hurt you either isnt...After I cheated I walked up to my husband and said phuh......... you arent worth crying over anymore.... he changed because he knew I was moving on...  |
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Date: 5/12/2002 8:55:00 PM
From Authorid: 46800
********HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY******** |
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Date: 5/12/2002 8:55:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 16069
KurtVedder, My daughter is only 3, too young to make a card on her own, thats why she'd need her dad to help her, and I dont see anything wrong with him wishing me a happy mothers day. Im the mother of his daughter and I think he could at least acknowledge that. Anyways, thats just how I feel. I can still see where your coming from, I just dont feel the same way. |
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Date: 5/12/2002 9:00:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 16069
BusyBee, he didnt get her a gift either, but I did. This whole time we've been seperated, I didnt even miss him. Thats not true love. We both deserve better. Thanks for always being such a good friend to me! |
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Date: 5/12/2002 9:02:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 16069
Cards, We've been going through so much lately. Just a week ago, I told him It was over. I didnt just want a seperation, I also wanted a divorce. Youd think hed be trying to win me over again. But no, he forgets its mothers day. Ew! Thanks! |
Date: 5/12/2002 9:38:00 PM
From Authorid: 21867
Yo LOA,
Whoa...I can see (and feel in your words) that you are hurt by this...and that is a shame. I don't know the guy...but unless he got knocked over the head and had amnesia or something, then there really is no excuse for not doing something for the mother of his child. Be you guys separated or not...you are still the mother os his child...and that SHOULD mean a great deal to him. Obviously it doesn't. Unfortunately LOA...my gut feeling is that this man is NO man...but a loser kid trapped in a Mans body. Maybe its not so much of a loss after all that you guys are separated...I mean, would you really want to spend your life with someone like this?? Again - I don't know the guy...but he don't sound right in the head. Peace,  |
Date: 5/13/2002 12:43:00 AM
From Authorid: 47699
I'm so sorry! I think what he really needs to give you for Mother's Day is a divorce! That's only my opinion but good grief! What a loser! My heart goes out to you! You deserve much, much better than that!  |
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Date: 5/13/2002 6:32:00 AM
From Authorid: 53906
Well,Mother's Day is before Father's Day,just forget Father's Day.Let your husband know what it feels like.Happy Mother's Day! Don't feel bad about your husband forgetting the day, just be thankful that a bad day never lasts forever.Joyride |
Date: 5/20/2002 9:28:00 AM
From Authorid: 1432
Dude thats HARSH of him.. talk about lowest of the low  ..  |
