Date: 5/10/2002 10:34:00 PM
From Authorid: 53339
When this happens remind her of all the good things in her life also tell her loved ones would want her to be happy and remember all the good times that were shared they wouldn't want her to spend her all her time depressed. Good Luck with your friend.  BabyCry  |
Date: 5/10/2002 10:37:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 53054
thanks babycry. Hey she also wants to go and talk to someone, but there are always people there. Should i talk to ths person and ask if she can talk to him alone without all the other interruptions??? if ya knwo what i mean  |
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Date: 5/10/2002 10:41:00 PM
From Authorid: 53339
I think it's good that she wants to talk to some one it shows that she is not so depressed that she will end up doing something out of her depressing such as suicide. Yeah i think it might be easier for her to talk to someone with out an audience you can also tell her that if she feels more comfortable you will be there . Let her know you will help her through this tough time in her life. BabyCry |
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Date: 5/10/2002 10:43:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 53054
thanks again babycry, u do know alot of good things!!!! and have great advice |
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Date: 5/10/2002 10:46:00 PM
From Authorid: 53339
I went through something like this last summer. my grandma died. My b/f and best friend were there for me. even when she was dying I was scared to see her but my B/F went in w/ me to see her and I felt a lot better knowing I had my b/f and my best friend there for me to help me get through it. BabyCry |
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Date: 5/10/2002 11:01:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 53054
thats really sad babycry. r u coping ok now???? |
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Date: 5/10/2002 11:04:00 PM
From Authorid: 53339
Yeah I'm okay now but it was nice to know that i had people there when I needed them, I'm sure your friend will be comforted you that you will be there for her. BabyCry |
Date: 5/11/2002 6:45:00 PM
From Authorid: 53836
Well for one, you can remind her gebtly that her bf and family member are watching her and want her to be happy. They probably aren't resting in peace knowing that she hasn't let them go. She doesn't have to, they will both always be a part of her. Tell her to remember and emulate, or try to copy the strengths of her loved ones and those traits she forms will always be sweet memories of Them. ~Space Case76  |
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Date: 5/11/2002 7:37:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 53054
thanks space pea was it lool i forgot already |
