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Date: 4/21/2002 5:53:00 PM
From Authorid: 37101
Wow Agent Smith. I haven't really noticed this activity, so perhaps I'm guilty of it myself (I honestly don't know) but I admire your boldness to stand up with this excellently well together post and voice your opinion. -  |
Date: 4/21/2002 5:54:00 PM
From Authorid: 4548
that's excellent advice, AS. what i wouldn't give to have the (relative) peace and harmony USM once boasted. a real problem exists with certain members and their bad attitudes. i hope they follow your example   |
Date: 4/21/2002 5:54:00 PM
From Authorid: 24226
i agree with this so much. i wish people wouldnt be so negative around here  |
Date: 4/21/2002 5:55:00 PM
From Authorid: 16845
well this post just sucks.....KIDDING!!! LOL *Drags AS back to usm* you aren't going anywhere bud....negativity yeah yeah seen some of that unfortunately....I myself if I use it it's....well like above, sarcasm and it's stated as such followed by a 'serious' reply....negativity is not a great thing, sometimes the stress in REAL life can get to ya though and I know some people might not THINK before they act but everyone does need to make a consious effort to restrain from doing so..not everyone is 'thick skinned'.....*Grabs her flashlight and shines it around* hey wait!!! *Shines light through AS's ear* Any light coming out the other end? *puzzled look* hehe Gotta love me!   |
Date: 4/21/2002 5:56:00 PM
From Authorid: 39258
negativity ----> (lmao)  |
Date: 4/21/2002 5:59:00 PM
From Authorid: 48993
agreed and great post!~~~~~~daniedarlin  |
Date: 4/21/2002 5:59:00 PM
From Authorid: 25390
If only people would actually heed this advice. Would make things easier, huh?  |
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Date: 4/21/2002 5:59:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo SmoothCriminal, I am glad this activity has been unnoticed by some...perhaps what I am saying is that we need to snip the buds now before they bloom into thorn filled 'roses' And I doubt you would be spreading any negativity...no way, you're far too humourous - which is what we all need Thanks for ya reply. Peace,  |
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Date: 4/21/2002 6:00:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo Jezebel, Well...we can only hope right Hehehe...thanks for ya reply. Peace, |
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Date: 4/21/2002 6:01:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo DarkPanther, Thanks buddy...glad to have ya input. Peace, |
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Date: 4/21/2002 6:03:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo Becks, Hey...if I tilt my head a little more I bet that flashlight could shine out my nose...though I suspect that might induce a few 'colour effects' Thanks for ya reply. Peace, |
Date: 4/21/2002 6:04:00 PM
From Authorid: 15033
Well said honey. I covered the destructive energies lurking in the background, waiting to pounce, while you covered the follow-up posts made by those same energies tainting the general feeling of happiness here...posts that get the feelings coming out in destructive words mixed with those emotions. Time should be taken by some to clear their negative feelings and leaving them at the door of USM before they post. *Kisses*  |
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Date: 4/21/2002 6:04:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo Telsha, I would shine Becks flashlight at ya...much I dread what we might see...LOL! Thanks for ya reply. Peace, |
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Date: 4/21/2002 6:05:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo =ODD=, Yeah...sometimes I wonder if its all like whispering into the wind. Thanks for ya reply. Peace, |
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Date: 4/21/2002 6:06:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo daniedarlin, Thanks for ya reply...and nice to meet ya too by the way Peace, |
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Date: 4/21/2002 6:06:00 PM
From Authorid: 16845
*Tilts AS's head a bit while he's being kind and answering everyone's comments* Not to uh interrupt or anything but I've got good news!!! *Jumps around* you can't see the light coming out the other side! or wait is that bad news? *Flips through a medical book*...... |
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Date: 4/21/2002 6:06:00 PM
From Authorid: 39258
agent smith, i'd give you three guesses at what you'd see and they'd all be right lmao |
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Date: 4/21/2002 6:07:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Hi Ya Thunder Honey, True words sweetness...you always speak truth Hope some do 'Check their baggage at the door' Love Ya *kiss kiss* |
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Date: 4/21/2002 6:08:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
...bad news Becky...definitely bad news. I wondered why, when I sneezed this morning, my IQ dropped about 50 points...must have been a bit of my brain coming out |
Date: 4/21/2002 6:08:00 PM
From Authorid: 33925
AS this is an EXCELLENT post!! Actually I believes it deserves top billing!! I agree with all you have said here...I too have seen the negativity...been affected by the negativity..been caught up in it..been hurt by it..even caused some of it...I think it IS time for change...and change can start with one person...AS..I think that if you left USM we would suffer a great loss...We have lost enough of our wonderful members...We NEED people like you here at USM...xoxo  |
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Date: 4/21/2002 6:09:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo Telsha, Nope nope nope *breaks flashlight just to be sure* |
Date: 4/21/2002 6:09:00 PM
From Authorid: 17516
Great post AS. I've just recently returned to USM, but with the negativity haven't felt much like posting or replying. Hopefully it'll all blow over, but if not I say let them have it (the site) I have better things to do with my time. Take care!  |
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Date: 4/21/2002 6:12:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo LadyLuck, Thank you my friend for those words. I have also been guilty of getting too involved...but its hard when you see people ya care for being attacked, seeing good people such as yourself as well who have been 'put through the grinder' by a few peeps...not nice. And I'm SOOO glad that good peeps like you have chosen to stay, as you are right, there are far too many who have left - and we are ALL poorer for that. Peace, |
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Date: 4/21/2002 6:12:00 PM
From Authorid: 16845
*Cries* but that was MY flashlight! *Steps in something gooey* uh did ya mention something about brains a second ago AS....well uh hmmmm well people with labotomies *that is rightright?* seem to do fine with part of a brain missing! *Grins* LOL |
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Date: 4/21/2002 6:14:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo Karma, Hey there! Its indeed a pleasure to see you around. Hope things are going well with you and ya family. Ya know, I really think thats a shame though that people feel like they want to leave a good site because of the darkness of a few...it really shouldn't be the constructive members who feel they have to leave. Thanks for ya reply. Peace, |
Date: 4/21/2002 6:15:00 PM
From Authorid: 33922
As Always ...To Some, Thought Provoking I hope, many Should read. I agree with USM being a haven, an escape from the negativity and daily dealings we all have. I have noticed this too. We all have bad days but, if people just try and be nice when they feel like poo on here it Comes back 2 fold or even more. I think If you left USM Smith my reading material would be of smaller volume. I would dearly miss you even though we aren't Close. I think there are many types of friends in this world, I call you one. I do this because I have appreciation and respect for your heart and thoughts. You make it easy...BECAUSE....you think inside and outside the BOX.....HUGS to You Smith and I love this post you did a great jod on it and I think it would be a blessing here at USM if the "preverbial" Game was Changed. Man I have missed this Place. Glad to have my Possessed PC back In the Game. hehehe...Luv ya Smith, Hugo Huggies  |
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Date: 4/21/2002 6:17:00 PM
From Authorid: 33925
AS, just so you know..I truly appreciate all the times you have gone to bat for me...that means alot to me...USM really is a wonderful place isnt it? Sure it has its quirks..but when you have people like yourself, Thunderhead, King Caspian, Gail..etc...We cannot go wrong...With some time and some effort I truly think we could make USM the place it once was and bring back the light and the love I remember a year ago when I joined this site...xoxo |
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Date: 4/21/2002 6:17:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yeah...sorry about that Becks, here use this instead *pushs across big BATMAN signal-light* And hey, watch where ya stepping, thats my brain...wouldn't want to lose half my brain...might start speaking Australian if that happens. Opps, kidding, just kidding any Aussies who read this |
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Date: 4/21/2002 6:21:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo TX, Wow...do I have to pay ya for those nice compliments *takes out chequebook* I would open my wallet, but I'm afraid some moths might fly out I agree with you...and those who feel they can't be nice, then thats okay too...just don't be nasty about it either. Glad ya back online too...thanks for ya reply and kind words. Peace, |
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Date: 4/21/2002 6:24:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo LL, I agree with ya. Thats why I'm posting this...as sure, I could just walk out the USM door...but what good would that do? Nope...I say stay and change it. Thanks for checking back. Peace, |
Date: 4/21/2002 6:29:00 PM
From Authorid: 45630
Agent Smith I firmly agree. I have been guilty of getting into heated discussions on here but I think it just comes when a few stubborn people won't let go of their defences. Come on people let's get together and do what comes naturally. Let's write, talk and express our ideas and values. We are one but we are many and from all the lands on we come. We should not shout to be heard, instead we should whisper for others to listen. That's my peice.  |
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Date: 4/21/2002 6:32:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo KurtVedder, Hey me Aussie Cobber...hows things?? Good to hear from ya, and you are so right...we all come from somewhere different, in the world and in life. True - I tend to listen more when someone speaks softly...so true. Cheers for the reply dude. Peace, |
Date: 4/21/2002 6:33:00 PM
From Authorid: 1631
*Looking for the "HAPPY" key on her keyboard* Hmmm....where IS that thing anyway? ...  |
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Date: 4/21/2002 6:34:00 PM
From Authorid: 45630
Hey agent Smith my kiwi mate. Sorry ta hear about the world cup he heh he. At least it means that more games will be played in Brissie now. |
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Date: 4/21/2002 6:35:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
"Press Any Key" "Any key??? Wheres the ANY key???" - Homer Simpson Yo Ali, I don't think there is a 'happy' key on a keyboard - perhaps it is found not on a keyboard but inside what we type with it. Thanks for ya reply. Peace, |
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Date: 4/21/2002 6:36:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yeah Kurt...I can just hear ya Aussies crying in sympathy from here Gee... might have to go to Brissie to watch the games then. Hmmm...how far are YOU from Brissie and have ya got a place to crash LOL! Peace, |
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Date: 4/21/2002 6:42:00 PM
From Authorid: 45630
I live half an hour from brissie. My uni is only ten miutes from Ballymore which is where they are playing the games. I just crash at my place coz the train line is so good. |
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Date: 4/21/2002 7:59:00 PM
From Authorid: 1631
I looooooooove Homer!!!!! See, I can be positive! LOL!!!... |
Date: 4/21/2002 8:38:00 PM
From Authorid: 42945
excellent post Agent and I for one would hate to see you leave because of this negativity, but you are right, so lets see what we can do about it peeps...cheers Zema  |
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Date: 4/21/2002 10:25:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Oh man Kurt...ya just LOVE rubbing it in don't ya...can see ya now with a handful of salt. Surprised ya ain't mentioned how the Aussies are taking out the Super12s...opps, I'll shut my mouth now..don't wanna give ya any more ammo Peace, |
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Date: 4/21/2002 10:26:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Doh!!! Ali. Maybe Homer can adopt you and call you Homer Junior...or as he would say "Ho-Ju" |
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Date: 4/21/2002 10:29:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo Zema, Yup...guess if we ourselves let go off any negativity, then thats one less person transmitting the virus. Thanks for ya reply. Peace, |
Date: 4/21/2002 10:45:00 PM
From Authorid: 12341
You know I talked about this last night with someone from USM, one who also spoke of leaving, what a loss it would be too, she is interesting, so very intelligent, and spreads good feelings all over USM. I'm hoping she stays, but I have no clue what happens to some of us as we sit here and type replies to each other, I am not sure why it is easier to be mean, catty, or spiteful over the internet, sure we all get riled up sometimes, but to follow people from post to post attacking them is uncalled for. One thing we all know, over time we get to know each other, we know may not "see" each other, but we get a "feel" for the people we meet here on a daily basis. I have been here awhile, two years as a logged member in July, and even longer before that, and I have learned whose posts to stay away from, who will always confront others with mean and nasty remarks, I can almost picture them sometimes hunched over their keyboards just waiting for the next victim, and then there are those who literally make coming here again and again a pleasure, even though I would never recognize some in daily life, they have touched my heart in many ways, so many times. You have a made some great points here, we all need to think about the message we send out to others, myself included! Great Post!  |
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Date: 4/21/2002 11:35:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo ShadowGhost, Wow...that is such an awesome reply. And yes, it seems to be happening more and more that some USMers are feeling like leaving...really sad, as what would be left? Remove some light and you only increase the hold of darkness. I agree...we may not see everyone here, but we do gain some form of 'feel' for them. I also do the same thing, I can picture certain USMers, smiling and joking...having fun and building people up. Then I can also picture others, delighting in the attack. And yes, I have done that before I'm ashamed to say...but really...its time to change the game. Thanks again for your wise words...they are much appreciated. Peace, |
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Date: 4/22/2002 8:20:00 AM
From Authorid: 51393
Hi! Agent Smith ,i wish you are not leaving. I enjoyed all you're post i believe in my heart that you are a great guy and i am just getting to know you.Please don't leave,give every one a chance to changed and let not negative let you down.I will miss you and someday get to know you more.I can promise you one thing"UNITE", will come soon. MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALWAYS AND MAY HAVE A WONDERFUL LIFE Always Diana  |
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Date: 4/22/2002 2:17:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo Dizzy, Yes...I know it has been said a thousand times...sometimes we need reminding. And thanks for that positivity Peace, |
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Date: 4/22/2002 2:19:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo Diana, Thank you for those kind words...and welcome to USM too Peace, |
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Date: 4/22/2002 5:47:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
THANK YOU ADMIN FOR REPOSTING THIS Peace and (((HUGS))) |
Date: 4/22/2002 6:21:00 PM
From Authorid: 9130
Wow, was my comment deleted? what a suprise. *smiles in a positive not negative way*  |
Date: 4/22/2002 6:28:00 PM
From Authorid: 28946
I know everything you said is true my friend. Sometimes a reminder will help most of us to remember what USM is all about. Thank you for the gentle Reminder.  |
Date: 4/22/2002 6:59:00 PM
From Authorid: 18870
Awesome post and I soooo Agree with you.. *huggles n love*  |
Date: 4/22/2002 7:03:00 PM
From Authorid: 29928
Hi Egan...great post! I have felt the darkness here for sometime now and I know what you mean. Somedays all it taks is opening the site and I feel it..there is a lot of negativity. What are the answers? I'm not sure. Because where there are many many people grouped together, there will unforuantely always be conflict. But I do think that if people really thought about what they are going to say before they say it, they may rethink some of what they put down to be read. Stop and think, is this going to hurt or insult anyone and then proceed. If u can't be nice, then shut up!! LOL As I said Excellent post!! Hugs,  |
Date: 4/22/2002 7:06:00 PM
From Authorid: 20956
Perfect reason why i dont enter any Religion posts and avoid the Debate section!! Seriously though, this is some great advice AS, lets hope that people heed it ...  |
Date: 4/22/2002 7:16:00 PM
From Authorid: 30051
Yep..I left for a long time..I just came back. I just stay happy.It's to bad there is alot of negativity here now..but i'm here for the long run This too shall pass *spreads the love*  |
Date: 4/22/2002 7:20:00 PM
From Authorid: 21435
Agent Smith..Man you are so "Right on" with this post. I so agree. We need to keep USM a "haven." I think that it is Sailor Sun that always ends a message with "Be excellant to each other.". Thanks for the fine words. Write on....  |
Date: 4/22/2002 8:05:00 PM
From Authorid: 15070
LSG wraps herself in a Black Cape & dashes across rhis well written post "STOP! I resemble these remarks!" & flee's off into the night shouting "I didn't do it!"  |
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Date: 4/22/2002 8:06:00 PM
From Authorid: 45630
What's that I hear. Is that the sound of three Aussie teams charging into the top 4 of the super 12. I've got my salt to rub into your wounds me matey. |
Date: 4/22/2002 8:09:00 PM
From Authorid: 40081
I agree! What a wonderful post! *HUGZZ*  |
Date: 4/22/2002 8:42:00 PM
From Authorid: 32070
AS. This is a great post. And you ain't going nowhere buddy!!!! :P..lol..*HUGS*  |
Date: 4/22/2002 8:42:00 PM
From Authorid: 21203
AWESOME! I'm not yelling that....just boldy stating my opinion! Very, VERY well put Agent Smith. (my candles have not yet extinguished) |
Date: 4/22/2002 8:45:00 PM
From Authorid: 16671
OH NO ya dont buddy!! WE wont have you LEAVING US!!! sEE look I brought OUT my FLASHLIGHT, does that help?  |
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Date: 4/22/2002 9:09:00 PM
From Authorid: 15070
LSG runs back the OTHER way stealing flashlight batteries..... |
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Date: 4/22/2002 9:47:00 PM
From Authorid: 16671
LOL, oh no ya dont, I always bring a back up pair. nanner nanananan |
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Date: 4/22/2002 9:47:00 PM
From Authorid: 16671
Firstborn runs through the halls singing," this little light of mine, I'm gonna let it shine, this little lite of mine................... |
Date: 4/22/2002 10:04:00 PM
From Authorid: 35825
Agent Smith..I applaud you for this post! I agree with everything you've said..this needed to be brought up, and I know for a fact that I couldn't have said it better myself. I have noticed the negativity flowing rather strongly through USM, but I know the bond that we all have as a family is much stronger, and if we all stick together, we can overcome anything!!  |
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Date: 4/22/2002 10:22:00 PM
From Authorid: 277
There's a light over at the Frankenstein Place There's a light burning in the fireplace There's a light, light in the darkness of everybody's life.  |
Date: 4/22/2002 10:37:00 PM
From Authorid: 5940
Thanks for the timely reminder AS, and I could'nt agree with you more. **Passes out Lounge Chairs and free passes to the cabana!**  |
Date: 4/22/2002 10:50:00 PM
From Authorid: 3642
I very much agree Agent smith ....You are what Ya eat ....or If we Give up space inside Of our selfs (hate resentment or negitivity )...we lose space That could better be used for ( Love ,JOy ,Positivity ) ......I Think You have To be very mature in your spirit mister ....  |
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Date: 4/22/2002 11:14:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo Dizzy, Hey buddy *shrugs shoulders* don't look at me...I tend not to delete comments. So it would have been an Admin. Peace, |
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Date: 4/22/2002 11:15:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo Penny, Yep...its always good to have a reminder...as sometimes we can forget Peace, |
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Date: 4/22/2002 11:15:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo Juls, Cheers for the reply Peace, |
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Date: 4/22/2002 11:17:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo PammieRose, Thank you...your words are wise as usual. While I am all for people stating their opinions - and lets face it, it would be a dull world really if we all held the same one - it IS possible to state ones opinion, even hold ones ground, without going too much on the offensive/defensive. Thanks. Peace, |
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Date: 4/22/2002 11:19:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo SunAngel, I hear ya...call me a sucker for punishment, but yes...sometimes when I click on debates I can almost hear the wailing and gnashing of teeth before the page loads - LOL! Thanks for ya reply. Peace, |
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Date: 4/22/2002 11:21:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo CoryAnn, "This too shall pass" - great saying. Something we can hold to. Thanks for ya reply. Peace, |
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Date: 4/22/2002 11:24:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Right on buddy Kronk...and if shining a little light don't work, ya could always use that spear/arrow thingy of yours to give peeps a little prod Peace, |
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Date: 4/22/2002 11:25:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo LSG, A run-by?? Here...take a flashlight with ya Peace, |
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Date: 4/22/2002 11:26:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo Kurt, Ahhh...my Aussie Matey...good thing I actually like ya, with all the rugby teasing and all...hehehe. Peace, |
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Date: 4/22/2002 11:27:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Hey Roc~N~Tree my LilSis...thanks for ya input. Peace, |
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Date: 4/22/2002 11:28:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo Illuminator, nope...your candles are still shining bright for all to see...you sure those aren't run on gas? As they never seem to burn down...Peace, |
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Date: 4/22/2002 11:29:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo PL, Where would I go? No one else would have me *sniff* Hehehe. Thanks for ya reply. Peace, |
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Date: 4/22/2002 11:30:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Hey FirstBorn! My buddy my pal...so good to see you around again. Hope all is well with ya family Peace, |
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Date: 4/22/2002 11:31:00 PM
From Authorid: 45630
Yeah well i have to say something about the Rugby coz your doing better than us in cricket. |
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Date: 4/22/2002 11:31:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Hey LSG...bring back them batteries. Oh, hang on...I have an extention cord that I can run a few flashlights off anyway. |
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Date: 4/22/2002 11:32:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Firstborn is singing??? Okay...you SURE thats just water ya drinking their FB?? |
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Date: 4/22/2002 11:33:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo SDAngel, Yep...when its gets cold - go somewhere warm. Simple advice, but very true. Peace, |
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Date: 4/22/2002 11:35:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Hawks singing now??? Okay - booze check...everyone put ya glasses/cups/mugs etc out for inspection Peace, |
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Date: 4/22/2002 11:36:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo HeyLarry, Coooool...at the Copa - Copa Cabana...opps, now I'm singing *checks his own drink* |
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Date: 4/22/2002 11:40:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo Keepsake, Whoa...that reply reminded me of something me mum did one time. She sat me down when I was really depressed, and made me hang onto a cup. Into this cup she poured some water...this represented negativity/sadness. Then she took another jug of water which represented joy/positivity. She pour some of that into this cup...of course, it overflowed and much of the 'joy' was lost...why? Because the cup was already almost full with 'sadness'. It represented to me that we all have a cup inside of us...and we can fill it with what we choose...but if we choose to fill it a little with sadness, then there is less room for the happiness. Thanks for ya reply. Peace, |
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Date: 4/22/2002 11:41:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo Kurt, Well...I would LOVE to take heart in that...but history speaks for itself...you Aussies will spank us soon enough Peace, |
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Date: 4/22/2002 11:47:00 PM
From Authorid: 12341
Agent Smith I would love to know your Mom, she sounds like a truly wise and wonderful woman. |
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Date: 4/22/2002 11:56:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo ShadowGhost, Awww...wow, thank you...yep...my mom is the bestest bestest bestest mom ever (and 'bestest' is allowed to be a word when ya talking about ya mom  . Peace, |
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Date: 4/23/2002
From Authorid: 3642
Viewed 417 times ...way To make them think |
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Date: 4/23/2002 12:01:00 AM
From Authorid: 45630
Speaking of which. The Bledisloe Cup starts soon. I have a feeling that you guys are guuna cream us. |
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Date: 4/23/2002 12:02:00 AM
From Authorid: 12341
She sounds like the *bestest* too! What a remarkable lady and mother she must be! |
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Date: 4/23/2002 12:02:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo Keeps, Awesome...hope it does cause some thought. Cheers for checking back. Peace, |
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Date: 4/23/2002 12:03:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Oh yeah - The Bledisloe...so ya gonna let us keep that trophy this year? Coz right now we're drinking outa saucers...you guys have all our 'Cups' Peace, |
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Date: 4/23/2002 12:04:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yep ShadowGhost...shes awesome... |
Date: 4/23/2002 1:12:00 AM
From Authorid: 11341
I am guilty of this myself (what a shocker huh?) Some of it is intentional, other times its just a vent. Too much light hurts the eyes you know :P  |
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Date: 4/23/2002 1:17:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo DMK, Try wearing some sunglasses when ya sit in front of the 'puter...extends ya USM time by at least 2 hours Yes - that IS experience talking Thanks for ya reply. Peace, |
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Date: 4/23/2002 1:44:00 AM
From Authorid: 38751
GOOD ON YA , US KIWIZ R NOT FULLY USELESS , LOL i have to agree so much , thanks for bringing this up!  |
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Date: 4/23/2002 1:51:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo DevilWithAHalo, Yep...us Kiwis can use da smarts ocassionally Thanks for the reply. Peace, |
Date: 4/23/2002 2:58:00 AM
From Authorid: 30747
You are absolutely right AS. I absolutely deplore negativity and that part about encountering it enough outside of USM is right on. Who needs to come to a web site and be put down and made to feel bad when you can get that anywhere, any time on the outside. I come here for peace and fun. When I see negativity it effects me deeply and I have to shut down the computer but that's just me. Some people get off on it I guess. Love begats love and hate begats hate etc and so forth. Great post...love....  |
Date: 4/23/2002 2:59:00 AM
From Authorid: 18460
far out... yeah.. me hates negativity and i don't reply at all when my head totally thinks bad or nasty..lol... i speak my mind out of course, tho i have opinions i keep to myself... thinking positive is an aura that sheds light  |
Date: 4/23/2002 3:21:00 AM
From Authorid: 48041
very well said Agent Smith...thank you.....Trekkie.  |
Date: 4/23/2002 3:39:00 AM
From Authorid: 50159
*Stands, claps* Here here, well said, very well written post.....*Hugglies  |
Date: 4/23/2002 4:19:00 AM
From Authorid: 177
Yo, Agent Smith. Dag nabit! I've already exploded all my bombs....I swear I have. I'm pure positivity these days. I ain't no Unibomber (even if I do live by myself in a shack back in the woods)LOL. Joy & love to all.  |
Date: 4/23/2002 4:34:00 AM
From Authorid: 18527
Great Post Agent Smith... I hope you stay!  |
Date: 4/23/2002 5:57:00 AM
From Authorid: 600
Hey there A.S.! This is awesome advice...It seems that from time to time negativity spreads like a disease for a while, but then the "attitude" tends to change again. I hope that the members can all take this advice to heart and try to practice kindness again. I've been guilty a time or two of not being the normal "little Susy sunshine" that I am, lol, but usually fall back into the light after a short while here with my great friends. :-)  |
Date: 4/23/2002 6:01:00 AM
From Authorid: 35629
I agree and stick to htese principles myself.I have enough in life to deal with without having more negative on here also.I think this is an awesome post,and very well said.Hope that you and others do not leave and continue to shine your light on us here at usm.  |
Date: 4/23/2002 6:01:00 AM
From Authorid: 44321
I think this was a great post,I think of USM as my place to relax and get away for a short time from the negativity in life,i deal with more than my share,I know some people say that real life is not all sunshine and roses,but so what is wrong with having at least one place where you can get away form it and just smile and feel happy for at least the time you are in here  |
Date: 4/23/2002 6:36:00 AM
From Authorid: 47734
Great post Agent Smith.. Thank you so much for posting. Such good advice to everyone. *HUGS*  |
Date: 4/23/2002 6:40:00 AM
From Authorid: 24856
I like your post Agent....it sheds much light!!  |
Date: 4/23/2002 7:22:00 AM
From Authorid: 27414
Heck, that's all I come here for! LOL!  |
| Date: 4/23/2002 7:55:00 AM From Authorid: 52066 I Just Don't Get You Guys!!!!!!!!!!What's Up Wtih All This!!!There really is no need for negativity!!USM, forgive me for saying this, but it just needs to be said.Forget about it, You WEASELs!!!!!!!!!!!GET ALONG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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Date: 4/23/2002 8:01:00 AM
From Authorid: 16671
LOL, here is my cup for inspection, what, what is that in there, NOW WHO put that in that in there, I swear agent smith IT WASNT ME> heheheh |
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Date: 4/23/2002 9:33:00 AM
From Authorid: 20579
I'm sorry Angent Smith. I haven't honestly seen any of it happening but on behalf of me myself and I. I'm a really sorry that you and a couple of the other people are consindering leaving. I will do my best to change the game. Down wit the clown Milenko  |
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Date: 4/23/2002 9:47:00 AM
From Authorid: 15033
I think we should gross Dizzy out and all of us start hugging each other...LOL!!!! C'mere Dizzy.... |
Date: 4/23/2002 9:53:00 AM
From Authorid: 42792
This is an insightful post but playing the devil's advocate, I would have to say that positive can not exist without negative and therefore it is essential in life to have both in order to attempt to achieve balance. IMHO.  |
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Date: 4/23/2002 9:55:00 AM
From Authorid: 15033
*pinches NKA* is that what you mean sis? *looks all innocent* |
Date: 4/23/2002 10:12:00 AM
From Authorid: 21923
Well said Agent Smith! I agree with you completely. I've noticed these things cropping up more and more since I first came here. I hope we can head them off. USM is such a fun and peaceful place where we can all get away and have a little fun, we don't need it ruined. Also I hope really aren't considering leaving, I've always considered you a pillar here at USM. Peace  |
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Date: 4/23/2002 10:15:00 AM
From Authorid: 42792
Yep sis...that would be a comparable analogy,LOL***pinches back a little harder,hehehe** |
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Date: 4/23/2002 10:35:00 AM
From Authorid: 15033
Ouch! *smiles* |
Date: 4/23/2002 12:02:00 PM
From Authorid: 51027
i agree i try to be a friend to evreyone hear at usm~matrix33  |
Date: 4/23/2002 12:22:00 PM
From Authorid: 25856
as sad as i (and others, i'm sure) would be to see you go...i highly doubt that usm's going to change. there's just too many people to keep things under control anymore. radman and ginger have done all that they can and more to help, but there are more than 50,000 people here. sorry to say, but there will always be people who feel that this needs to be another soap opera, and go to all lengths to make that happen.  |
Date: 4/23/2002 12:28:00 PM
From Authorid: 33573
Lol...well said! I haven't really noticed alot of rude or negative comments but I may not see them. I am sure there have been alot but hopefully people can get over it  |
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Date: 4/23/2002 12:49:00 PM
From Authorid: 50405
I agree Love,**Frony** |
Date: 4/23/2002 12:57:00 PM
From Authorid: 7341
I like that...checking the negative baggage at the door. This place is my haven as well...I deal with sad, depressing stuff all day long and coming to USM usually takes the edge off. Thanks for this Agent Smith  |
Date: 4/23/2002 1:03:00 PM
From Authorid: 8184
I can totally relate to this! Thanks for the great post!  |
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Date: 4/23/2002 1:18:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo SoulDrifter, Such true words my friend...and thank you for your inspiring reply Peace, |
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Date: 4/23/2002 1:20:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo Labyrinth, Yes...many may say "If you can't say anything nice, don't say it at all" - Though I kinda believe ya can say what ya want...but just find a way (or wording) to put it forth without any nastiness. Thanks for ya reply. Peace, |
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Date: 4/23/2002 1:21:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo Trekkie, Cheers for ya reply. Peace, |
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Date: 4/23/2002 1:22:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo Hugglies, Cheers for the reply - love that name by the way. Peace, |
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Date: 4/23/2002 1:23:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo Gorm, Hehehe...thanks bro. Spread dat positivity Peace, |
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Date: 4/23/2002 1:24:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo Kethria, Oh, I plan on it...why leave, when staying to balance out the negativity is a much better option. Thanks for ya reply. Peace, |
Date: 4/23/2002 1:25:00 PM
From Authorid: 11528
HI Agent Smith, I havent been on site very much of late, so I hadnt noticed the negativity You speak of. However when I came home this morning I read a couple stories and saw one whopper of a negative message left on someones posting. Like the bible says " Ye shall know them by thier actions" and I always get a kick out of it when christians drop thier charade and show thier true colours. Bye for now. Enki  |
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Date: 4/23/2002 1:26:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo Tac, So true...yes, I've also taken the gloves off a coupla times here - but yes, ya eventually chill down and get back to the business of fun Thanks for ya reply. Peace, |
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Date: 4/23/2002 1:27:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo NightmareGal, Yep...you keep shining your light too buddy Peace, |
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Date: 4/23/2002 1:29:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo CaptivatingBoi, Cheers for ya reply. Peace, |
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Date: 4/23/2002 1:29:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo Medusa, So true...USM is amazing...it lifts my moods so easily, gives a laugh so freely...thanks for ya reply. Peace, |
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Date: 4/23/2002 1:30:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo Otter2, Shine that light buddy Peace, |
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Date: 4/23/2002 1:31:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo PianoMan, For the negativity??? You SOOO naughty Peace, |
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Date: 4/23/2002 1:32:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo AngelF, I can totally understand...thanks for ya reply. Peace, |
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Date: 4/23/2002 1:32:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo FB, Riiiiiiight *raises eyebrow* If ya weren't such an honest person I wouldn't believe ya Peace, |
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Date: 4/23/2002 1:33:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo Milenko, Cheers...and I'm glad that your experience here at USM has been a pleasant one Peace, |
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Date: 4/23/2002 1:35:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Hi Ya Honey, Now...watch how ya hug Dizzy...she scratches *kiss kiss* |
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Date: 4/23/2002 1:37:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo NKA, Well...interesting way of viewing it, after all - in order to truly know one you have had to have had experience with the other. However, I can get all the experience I want with negativity in my own life Thanks for ya reply. Peace, |
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Date: 4/23/2002 1:39:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo Matrix, Good for you buddy. Thanks for ya reply. Peace, |
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Date: 4/23/2002 1:39:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo HeadlessHorseman, Thanks for those kind words...and yeah, I think these things come and go - but its good to have a regular reminder. Peace, |
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Date: 4/23/2002 1:40:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo SassyAnnie, Well...we can but try right? Thanks for ya reply. Peace, |
Date: 4/23/2002 1:49:00 PM
From Authorid: 51744
Thank you for the post and I hope that I have not offended anyone by what I have said. :0( I dont want anyone to be mad at me I am the Giggler!!! ~~TheGiggler21~~  |
Date: 4/23/2002 2:07:00 PM
From Authorid: 16114
Yo Smith dont leave.This negativity will stop right here!Yo dont.Ok Cya Smith!Peace Out Yall  |
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Date: 4/23/2002 2:08:00 PM
From Authorid: 16114
The last comment couldve been mizundastood.Dont leave I meant Cya as Im goin now Ok Cya! |
Date: 4/23/2002 2:27:00 PM
From Authorid: 30272
I totally agree with ya  I just dont understand why people just leave in thin hair just because they got there feelings hurt...cant they just ask somebody to get some advice or somethin?! Love and Hugs  |
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Date: 4/23/2002 2:36:00 PM
From Authorid: 9130
I would like to say one more thing here. With all due respect i do not see why USM needs to be a haven away from all negative things in your life. I know that I seem to be the only person here disagreeing with this post, and I am not doing that out of spite. I must say there HAVE been several posts recently about people wanting to leave USM, and to that i say if you want to leave, then leave-- why post a pity post about it? You may be thinking "well thats rude" but take a look at something posted by Mike yesterday, several people there said the SAME thing... negativity will ALWAYS be here. They (admins) thought they would rid USM of it by not allowing anonymous authors, and that didn't work. Now they've resorted to BANNING some of USM's most interesting authors. What's next? if somone disagrees about an issue are they gonna get in trouble? How far will it go? negativity will always be here, its everywhere, and no matter how much you want to "get away" from your everyday life, its impossible to avoid it. We all have a different view on what is negative and what is not. Even the negative experiences in life teach us something. Why shelter us from it? Please do not take this as a rude comment it is not meant to be that in any way, i just wanted to show the "other side"... |
Date: 4/23/2002 2:54:00 PM
From Authorid: 48525
Well said, Agent Smith.Like LSG, I, too have resembled that at times, and so have many others regarding religion.I am sorry if I have offended people, as offence was not my intention.No religion is better than an other, they're all just DIFFERENT, and there will always be differences of opinion.Thanks for calling us on our bad behavior! Bright Blessings!! ~Roaryblue  |
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Date: 4/23/2002 3:44:00 PM
From Authorid: 15070
*hang-dog look* O.k.....I'll give the batteries back. My hand stings from where Firstborn slapped it good. I also think Thuderhead popped me in the back of the head, when I wasn't looking. But I'll tell you what, I refuse to sing that Barney song ONE MORE TIME!!!!!That is too harsh a punishment. ~RoaryBlue, I am always so glad to see you, Blessed Be Sister!!!!! DizzyMe, I like the fact you can see both sides of the coin & are not afraid to debate either side, as you feel lead. Yes, the reality is we are all gonna fight & be nasty upon occasion. But most people here really do like each other.That is my opinion. |
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Date: 4/23/2002 3:47:00 PM
From Authorid: 277
I agree with Dizzy here. There will always be negativity and that shouldn't want to make you leave usm. There's negativity in the real world too. I would assume that doesn't make you want to stop living life, right? I haven't really seen any negativity around. (Maybe because I'm another negative one? WHo knows??? LOL!) That's why I left a comment above with some song lyrics...to point you in the direction of some light.It's a shame Dizzy has to feel like she'll get in trouble with the admins for expressing her opinions. (I'm assuming this because she started out with "With all due respect" and ended with "Please do not take this as a rude comment" I can remember a time when usm was free to speak their minds. You can have a difference of opinion and speak your mind while keeping it all g rated. What's the problem??? Clue me in...Exactly what type of "negativity" are we talking about here??? |
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Date: 4/23/2002 4:10:00 PM
From Authorid: 15033
I agree with Dizzy too, but some things just aren't acceptable behavior. I haven't seen the type of behavior you speak of here for quite sometime (since a few really uncooperative individuals were given the boot). I see most people getting over it and being adult enough to know negativity is out there everywhere. It's just that in the case of a website, it has to have boundaries or it would soon cease to exist, or worse yet be over ridden with intolerable personalities, because brutally honest persons attract more and more of the same, eventually increasing the number of those with a tendancy to hate. Positive people try to remain positive, and destructive thinking ones do the destructive thing, but the positive ones walk away, even in real life. It's the best way to let go and refresh good feelings again. Time does work things out around here. I personally find pleasure in private messaging those that feel I have insulted or hurt, and apologise. It helps to get it back on good terms asap. Others (extremely few number) I let time, along with good feelings and a sense of humor work out. I choose to leave the rest at the doorstep. :-) |
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Date: 4/23/2002 4:47:00 PM
From Authorid: 25856
i'm really surprised at the people that haven't noticed any negativity...every day i come here someone is angry at someone else because they did something, and on and on and on...like *you* said, you can try, but i wouldn't get your hopes up. this hasn't been the first post to try to help... |
Date: 4/23/2002 5:11:00 PM
From Authorid: 43214
YO Agent Smith! I'm really really glad that you want to put a stop to this and I respect you for standing up to this. Right on!! >>>  |
Date: 4/23/2002 5:20:00 PM
From Authorid: 46068
Hey Agent Smith, wonderful post... Great message, expressed perfectly... etc. etc. I havent encounterd much if any of the negativity that you are refering to but I have seen plenty of "iffy" comments.. I hope that this will help remind us all of the power of words and make us think before we write something that could be construed as negative. Take care and thank you for the post...  |
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Date: 4/23/2002 6:02:00 PM
From Authorid: 1631
It's not so bad. I'm starting to get used to my USM Sugar Fluff Lobotomy *drools* Pretty, pretty colors....like flowers and candy... |
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Date: 4/23/2002 6:50:00 PM
From Authorid: 15033
...licks ALI's face...before the medication and labotomy wares off... |
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Date: 4/23/2002 7:03:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo VolleyGirl, Good point...even the most ferocious storms eventually blow themselves out. Thanks for ya reply. Peace, |
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Date: 4/23/2002 7:04:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo Frony, Cheers for reading and replying. Peace, |
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Date: 4/23/2002 7:05:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo Corky, Yep...I hear that. I deal with madness all day. Literally - I working in Mental Health USM is such a breath of fresh air. Thanks for ya reply. Peace, |
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Date: 4/23/2002 7:06:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo HorseGirl, Hey thanks for ya reply HG. Peace, |
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Date: 4/23/2002 7:12:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo Enki, Dude, I read the paper this morning, and there was more on the Sexual Abuse allegations/proven cases within the Catholic Church. And that saddened and disgusted me...why? For a start those actions are deploreable in the extreme...but also because I was raised Catholic...and in a way, reading those news items hurts...for the actions of these priests have brought such disrepute upon that particular religion. However, I must ask myself...are these offenders pedophiles or priests first?? I would argue they are pedophiles first...and that they would be pedophiles regardless of if they wore a suit, a cloak or a pair of jeans. Their religion they ascribe to does not influence them to be who they have become/are...instead, that sickness was within them from the beginning. And thats how it is...often we see the actions of others and we judge the collective of which they 'belong' to as being 'guilty by association'...when perhaps it is wiser and more truthful to judge a person on their actions, and their actions alone...not because they are Christian, or Wiccan, or Black, or White, or Male, or female. Thanks for ya reply. Peace, |
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Date: 4/23/2002 7:14:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo Giggler, How can anyone be offended at giggling Giggles are all good. Thanks for ya reply. Peace, |
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Date: 4/23/2002 7:15:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo GhostTeller, Wassup Dawg! Hehehe...yeah, I hear ya...and thanks for ya reply. Peace, |
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Date: 4/23/2002 7:17:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo PurplePrincess, Yeah...it can be a shame...but ya see, we are all flesh and blood behind these words...and we do have feelings. Sure - many would argue that its more than a little wierd to become affected by words floating around in cyber-space...but thats the facts...we are all human. Thanks for ya reply. peace, |
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Date: 4/23/2002 7:27:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo DizzyMe, I am so glad to have your input. And don't worry Dizzy...I don't think you're being mean at all - in fact I know you are voicing what many others do not have the courage to say...and for that I thank, commend and respect you. Yes - negativity is part of humanity...but then we also have to consider that surely there is enough negativity out there in the real world already...if negativity is something we are in any way missing in our lives. And as Admin themselves have stated on many occasions, USM is about spreading a little positivity...so okay, while I agree that in real life we have to learn to take the good with the bad, roll with the punches, grow thinker skins etc etc...life itself may need to be the teacher of that. Some people maybe see USM as a 'First Aid Room' perhaps??? Where they kinda retreat to after 'taking a licking' out in the real world...and I really don't have a problem with that. The world teaches whats in the world regardless of how sheltered people may be or become...so I doubt the lesson shall not be learnt. Thanks again for you much valued reply. Peace, |
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Date: 4/23/2002 7:31:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo RoaryBlue, Thank you for your reply. Please don't feel I posted this as a subtle (or not so subtle) attack on anyone, I posted it for all USM to think about. Like I've said in some of these comments...I myself have been guilty of a few 'choice words' Thanks again. Peace, |
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Date: 4/23/2002 7:32:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo LSG, Thanks for handing back them batteries...I was just about to call our resident Police Officer, Racquie, to post an APB out for a mysterious Battery-Stealer. Peace, |
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Date: 4/23/2002 7:37:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo Hawk, Actually I do agree with Dizzy too. But I think we also have to be aware that while you, I and other adults may have thick skins and can handle ourselves in debate...because we have been through the ringer of life...USM is also very much attended by youth, who may not be as thick skinned as we...so while someone may post a reply that may not bother an older USMer - the opposite effect may be true if the same type of comment was posted towards a younger (and/or maybe more sensitive USMer) As for the negativity...well, there have certainly been more than a few negative slanted posts and comments re  eligion in particular as of late. Peace, |
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Date: 4/23/2002 7:39:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Hi Ya Honey, Too true...too true indeed. Thanks for ya wonderful input. *kiss kiss* |
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Date: 4/23/2002 7:41:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo SassyAnnie, Well...some people maybe have a lower tolerance to it, and so notice it more maybe, I don't know. And heres another saying "Nothing changes through doing nothing"...while it may have little effect, I suspect it has more effect than doing nothing Thanks for ya reply. Peace, |
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Date: 4/23/2002 7:43:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo PrincessAngel, Cheers for ya reply and ya kind words. Peace, |
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Date: 4/23/2002 7:46:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo EagleEye, Yes...being online can be such a difficult medium when ya want to get ya point across. For we don't see peoples facial expressions, or really even know them. We don't know if someone is just joking, if the mean to be rude as chances are they didn't mean to be...instead that was just how the comment came out. I myself have posted comments that I have meant as humorous, and have had people become quite offended by them, so yes, I'm aware that sometimes we may need to be extra careful/considerate...as we are missing all the other facets/factors of dialogue that help convey meaning. Thanks for ya reply. Peace, |
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Date: 4/23/2002 7:47:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo Ali, Oh oh...can I have some of that candy??? Hehehe...you naughty cat...thanks for ya reply. Peace, |
Date: 4/23/2002 7:56:00 PM
From Authorid: 36098
HEy YO, negative topics should be up to the author's decision because there is an admendment that give us freedom of speech (or words) to express our feelings towards any matter that one wishes to discuss or debate, and if it topic tends to be heated and negative, then boohoo too bad. Besides, if a particular post seem negative to you, that does not mean it is viewed the same to others. Maybe if you live in a society where your posted opinion must be within the guildlines that you set forth, or not bother posting it at all since negativity is poison in your own words....then that is a society i do not wish to live in. It's bull, plain and simple. It is not reality in a free society and if you think it is, then your only kidding yourself Yo. If you want to post and reply in a positive manner because you feel it is the right thing to do, then by all mean do so but please do not expect others to agree with you on this. Here is good advice for those who do not wish to read negative, heated postings -DON'T READ IT! ...instead of reading it then complaining about it. I enjoy this post because it expresses your view but i do not agree with it. take care, Yo Agent Smith  |
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Date: 4/23/2002 8:08:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo Oompa, Thank you for your heart-felt reply. And yes, I am aware of your countries Freedom of Speech. However...is this site America? Nope...this site, USM, is owned, funded and operated by the Admin. Different kettle of fish then. They themselves have set the rules...they themselves have stated they would like their site, which again I point out is NOT America and IS funded by their own pockets, to be a place of positivity. You state that if people don't like it they shouldn't read it. Yes, I agree. But I would also say that perhaps they shouldn't have to read it either. And...if positivity is not something people wish to promote then perhaps they need to consider what they are doing here on this site. If they can't accept the Site Creators rules/intentions of the site then should they even come here in the first place. Peace, |
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Date: 4/23/2002 8:51:00 PM
From Authorid: 36098
Well if positivity is enforced, then how would those who express negativity be dealt? If the admins wish to warn, or to a harsher extent, to those who express negativity and most likely heated views on this site, then it is their choice. I have not receive any such warning and my expressed views are not always positive. As long as no one get special treatment and that all members are treated equally in what is considered to be negative, as oppose to positive, in a fair and just manner, then i'm sure we all can find a balance along those lines. I am not here to cause trouble, i am here to express my views! And if that happens to be negative which the admins do not appreciate, then i shall leave. |
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Date: 4/23/2002 10:02:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo Oompa, Someone up there^^^ said something that actually makes ya think - that negativity has its purpose, for only through there being negativity can we recognise (and so appreciate) positivity. Sometimes we may say things that challenege someone...that can be negativity...but I think its all in how you say it. On the whole we all put our opinions (though they may conflict) in a way that allows the message to get through, without driving it through if ya know what I mean. If the am is not to hurt someone, but rather to get ones point across then that is totally possible to do without riding that point along with a bit of poison. Sometimes a little honey on the pill makes it easier to swallow. But yes...I am not the dictator of what is right or wrong...ultimately Admin is. Thanks for the reminder. Peace, |
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Date: 4/24/2002 12:12:00 AM
From Authorid: 15033
Hog wash...sorry honey, but I gotta say this...I made a post awhile back that said this: "Adversity is the trial of principle. Without it, a man hardly knows whether he is honest or not. - Henry Fielding" But the truth is I think it's one thing to have "LIFE" dole out adversity and another to have "PEOPLE" try to test you with it. We are here to learn how to love one another, not throw adversity at each other. Let life show us adverse surprises like a hurricane hit our house, or perhaps something happened from an unrelated incidence and somehow affected you...but people are responsible for adversity they make directly, because they have a choice not to. It feels good to say "I'm sorry" for a reason. Being adverse is the main reason we need to say it. |
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Date: 4/24/2002 4:21:00 AM
From Authorid: 11528
Good Morning Agent Smith. I agree with You. those perverts who molest kids were pedophiles first and foremost. They entered the priesthood because it gave them a good "above suspicion" cover and easy access to kids. I can remember speaking of this in comments and stories about a year ago and telling the Christians here to do something about it. Those sick individuals who hurt the kids have been doing it for decades if not centuries and the church has always turned a blind eye. Its about time something is done about it, although action should have been taken decades ago. Bye for now. Enki |
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Date: 4/24/2002 5:09:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Hi Ya Honey, Don't be sorry...speak away *kiss kiss* |
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Date: 4/24/2002 5:10:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo Enki, I'm not too sure if my point has been made...thanks for ya reply. Peace, |
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Date: 4/24/2002 5:26:00 AM
From Authorid: 27414
Hey Diz. I thought I was FIRST! LOL! I said that I come here FOR the negativity. Did everyone think I was kidding? Well, maybe so but I do look somewhat forward to reading responses of that nature simply because it certainly lets you know WHO you're dealing with and how that person can handle the adversity. I get a better handle on whom I'm dealing with by their responses to certain words or phrases. I guess this is evident in that one post. LOL! Even our younger viewers and participants can appreciate and learn from this. You have to experience the bad to be able to appreciate the good. |
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Date: 4/24/2002 5:29:00 AM
From Authorid: 27414
Heck, if nothing else, it can teach restraint. I can't come through this computer to rip someone's head off. LOLOLOL!!!! |
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Date: 4/24/2002 3:02:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo PianoMan, "You have to experience the bad to be able to appreciate the good" Well yes, I can see that, but surely there is enough 'bad' out in the real world to teach you that lesson without having more of it here as well. Thanks for ya reply. Peace, |
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Date: 4/27/2002 2:08:00 AM
From Authorid: 51004
Good post Smith, Ive definately seen some people get a little hostile, this site drew me here because its my way to show my opinions, and take in others. Im up for debate once in a while, when its gotta point, which isnt for very long, but I enjoy the flurry of opinions and emotion sometimes, it reminds me how unseriously I take things I guess. Lets me know I got it good not letting some persons post ruin my day, or waste my time trying to prove a point. I truly enjoy this site, and would hate to see you leave, your one of the few that will leave a well thought comment about something on a post, I like that, I strive for that myself... thanks for sharing your post, and hope to talk sometime,,Stropharia |
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Date: 4/27/2002 2:58:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo Stropharia, Thanks for ya reply. And yes, USM can be a great, warm place to hang out. Peace, |
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Date: 7/2/2002 10:53:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21867
Yo Glitterbabe, Cheers for reading and replying Peace, |
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