Date: 4/17/2002 11:20:00 PM
From Authorid: 50435
Forget it. You can do so much better than that. This guy is leaving his g/f for you so what do you think he'll do to you eventually? Right now, he is using his g/f. Who knows how long ago he decided to leave her? Maybe until he secured something else, to avoid being single for any amount of time. He's also abandoning his child. Is this the kind of man you want? You didn't mention it, but have you had any successful relationships in the other than him since you met him? I think you deserve better. Get yourself a b/f that makes you feel so much better than this guy. There's lots of 'em out there. Take care and I hope I helped a bit...Gallytuck.  |
Date: 4/17/2002 11:32:00 PM
From Authorid: 48858
Uh, common sense would tell you to stay away...but sometimes it's better to go with a more stronger feeling (say, you heart). Life's full of chances. You risk or you don't. ~*~Lievout~*~  |
Date: 4/18/2002 1:11:00 AM
From Authorid: 51671
If I were you.. I'd stop it there and then. Painful, its true.. but consider this: He has a girlfriend and a two year old kid. Believe me, you won't want to be labelled anything for wrecking a relationship. And 2) If he is so ready to leave his girl and kid for you.. what makes you think that he won't do the same to you? This is a very serious thing. Think this over carefully. Do you really need all this trouble just for a man's love? so what if you've loved him nine yrs. think of your future.. put yourself in the girl's shoes for a minute.. and really think it over..
Big hugs! Mystic Rose  |
Date: 4/18/2002 4:55:00 AM
From Authorid: 18527
Run... don't walk... away from this guy... if he is doing this to his girlfriend who is to say that you won't be in the same position 3 years from now?  |
Date: 4/18/2002 5:20:00 AM
From Authorid: 19586
If you are questioning it, deep down inside you know something is wrong. I hope this helps a little. Take care! ~icunurse  |
Date: 4/18/2002 5:28:00 AM
From Authorid: 48577
Something to think about. If he is cheating on his girlfriend, the mother of his child, then what would hold him back from cheating on you.  |
Date: 4/18/2002 6:24:00 AM
From Authorid: 48993
yep i was gonna say the same as they ^ did! if he is sneaking around on his present g/f , who he has a child with....what makes you think he wont do the same to you??? besides you may still have feeling for him but can you honestly say his feelings match yours????? i'd move on in this situation as hard as it would be ...i'd cut my losses! hope all works out for ya!~~~~~~daniedarlin  |
Date: 4/18/2002 12:22:00 PM
From Authorid: 19345
I don't mean to sound rude this isn't my intent but if you did this and know that he is sneaking around and being a cheat because you would be doing it to, what would stop him from doing it to you later on? Why would you want someone who is capable of such deciet and so willing to drag you into his lies? He wants you then do it the right way, after he leaves gets his child support going and takes care of his lose ends.  |
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Date: 4/18/2002 1:16:00 PM
From Authorid: 42447
Thats a toughy. I know you love him but the fact is that he is in a realationship and has a child. Not to mention is just using the other girl untill he gets out of school. Or he might just be playin both of you. You can't be so sure with the way this is goin. Maybe its time for you to find someone who is single and won't mess with your feelings, which is what it seems this dude is doin. I think it may be time to find someone new and deserving. Good Luck! God Bless! SoulSinger4ever |
Date: 4/18/2002 2:12:00 PM
From Authorid: 30786
You two may belong together, but if you really did and he felt the same way, I feel that he would have left her by now. I think that he is playing around with you. He seems to be using mind games with everyone. I doubt that he is actually going to break up with her. That is one of the oldest lines in the book. I would pull away from him completely until he does the right thing and sticks with it  |
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Date: 4/19/2002 12:22:00 PM
From Authorid: 42940
Ever heard the saying "if he does it for you (cheat) he'll do it to you (cheat)"? You sound young and naive. If I were you I'd keep my options open and see other people. |
29775 Category:(General Advice) Created:(4/17/2002 10:59:00 PM)