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Date: 4/17/2002 5:40:00 PM
From Authorid: 16845
oh wow it's so sad to see babies having babies  get her to take a home pregnancy test before anyone flips out....if that's positive she needs to go to the dr. if it's negative have her wait a week or two and take another home test.....  |
Date: 4/17/2002 5:40:00 PM
From Authorid: 45630
Geez grade 8 and having sex already. She should take a test. The doctors are sworn to confidentiality. If she is pregnant she will have to tell her parents. I think she is ruining her life thought by growing up too fast.  |
Date: 4/17/2002 5:41:00 PM
From Authorid: 45948
Well first things first, your friend should definatly find out if she is pregnant. Afterward if she is, she should talk to a dr. or councelor or trusted adult someone who can help her out. If she's not, maybe this will be the wakeup call she needs! I'm sorry I can't help you anymore but I've never been in that situation before. Hope I did help some. Love,  |
Date: 4/17/2002 5:41:00 PM
From Authorid: 24003
Geez! and I thought I was a young mom. That is so sad...it seems like she has a real problem with herself.  |
Date: 4/17/2002 5:42:00 PM
From Authorid: 14780
do what becky said...Try to be her friend because many will not...and by all means its not YOUR fault...I hope things work out for the best..*hugz*  |
Date: 4/17/2002 5:43:00 PM
From Authorid: 47983
I'm sorry to hear that. Why don't you tell your friend to get a pregnancy test...~*Jeset*~  |
| Date: 4/17/2002 5:43:00 PM ( From Author ) From Authorid: 52092 Her parents are soo overprotective that any time she has to go out means sex to her.It's so sad. |
Date: 4/17/2002 5:45:00 PM
From Authorid: 19586
She should get a test. If she is afraid of buying a home pregnancy test, see if there is a planned parenthood in your area. They will do a pregnancy test at a really low cost. Let us know how things turn out! ~icunurse  |
Date: 4/17/2002 5:46:00 PM
From Authorid: 39324
Hello. You are right about NOT having sex until marriage but it is to late for her. All you can do is be a friend & if she is pregnant she needs to tell her parents. The longer that she waits the worse it will be. She made a mistake but she can still take resposibility for it. Tell her that their is adoption if she doesn't want to keep the baby. Don't let her have an abortion , that would only be making a bigger mistake. Watch her if she has hurt herself before she could try it again. The thing to do is to find out. GO to a free clinic for a test or go to a store & by one. You can get cheap tests. Please email me if I can help more. Hugs, ~M~  |
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Date: 4/17/2002 5:47:00 PM
From Authorid: 16845
also tell her to quit stressing, stress will throw a period off BIG time....especially when your young and the reason I say take a second test IF it comes out negative the first time is it's HCG that the embryo gives off that signifies that a woman is pregnant....if she JUST missed her period, it could be it's not secreting enough for it to be detected in a urine dip.... |
Date: 4/17/2002 5:47:00 PM
From Authorid: 23101
Oh my. This keeps happening.. I think that there should be a law! I think what she needs is you to be a good friend to her and comfort her! She might get mad, but you still need to be there for her!! xo xo xo,  |
| Date: 4/17/2002 5:47:00 PM ( From Author ) From Authorid: 52092 Thankxx for your comments guys, you have been very helpful. I really hope this would be only a wakeup call as you said Angel Eyez. |
Date: 4/17/2002 5:50:00 PM
From Authorid: 27924
Get a pregnancy test to make sure if she's pregnant..She might just be late..if ya'll are only in the eighth grade her periods amight not really be "regular" yet. If she is or isn't pregnant just be there for her...she's made a big mistake..6 times..but if your there for her she will really apreciate it! My friend had sex last summer(We are in 8th also) and she was afraid she was pregnant because she was late on her period but then about maybe a week later she ran up to me and goes I'M ON MY PERIOD!! I tried to be there for her even though i was mad at her for having sex in the first place...Good Luck and DO NOT take it out on yourself k? if you need to talk message me anytime! i'll be happy to help *hugs* ~Lotta Luv~  |
| Date: 4/17/2002 5:51:00 PM From Authorid: 50405 OMG!!! That is bad!! Having sex with guys you dont even know is bad!! She is in the 8th grade!!! She should know better. She should take a paternety test (if she is pregnent) and see who the father is. I hope everything turns out ok! Love,**Frony** |
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Date: 4/17/2002 5:52:00 PM
From Authorid: 23101
I agree with Angel Eyes. Maybe you should try birth control if she is!! xo xo xo, |
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Date: 4/17/2002 5:55:00 PM
From Authorid: 23101
Birth control isn't 100% AT ALL. Any way of birth control there is no 100% way. I am sorry to say that!! And it can't block you from getting diseases!! I am very sorry.. But don't tell her that all at once, tell it to her slowly if you are gonna tell her that!! xo xo xo, |
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Date: 4/17/2002 5:56:00 PM
From Authorid: 23101
And having sex with SIX men you don't even know, I think that isn't the best choice.. just PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE be a good friend to her!! xo xo xo, |
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Date: 4/17/2002 5:56:00 PM
From Authorid: 16845
best form of birth control is an asprine bottle between the knees.... |
| Date: 4/17/2002 5:56:00 PM ( From Author ) From Authorid: 52092 I am going to have a serious talk about it with her so we would know already if she is pregnant or not.And so we would know what to do depending in the results.And as all of you said...BE A GOOD FRIEND TO HER AS I HAVE ALWAYS BEEN .Really special thankxx for each of you and for your advice. |
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Date: 4/17/2002 5:58:00 PM
From Authorid: 51191
Does she know for sure?In our town you can go to the county health center and get a free pregnancy test but they will ask you for your phone number tell them that your phone got cut off and you don't know when it will be turned back on or say that you had to have your number changed and you don't know what it is. But go with her to get a pregnancy test and you can think about it when you find out she might just be late I have been a couple of times.Message me when something new pops up. *Musical_butterfly*  |
| Date: 4/17/2002 5:58:00 PM From Authorid: 50405 And plus.....she might be an only mother.....and its not by divorce. I dont know why people have sex with people they arent with....or even worse....dont know them. She would have known better....And she has to deal with it. She has to take a pregnency test. She has to tell her parents. Its not like she is going to hold out on them forever and then when she is 18....and the kid is most likley to be 5 or 6....she is not going to say Oh yeah....I was meaning to tell you....I had a baby. Then they will know something is wrong. I feel it is wrong that the poor girl is scared....she needs to take a test! she cant just wait 9 months and then say....Oh im ready to deliver my baby. She needs a support group. Love,**Frony** |
Date: 4/17/2002 5:59:00 PM
From Authorid: 16023
well when i was in 8th grade i had alot of problems like that. she might just be late because her body is getting regulated. but if she's not pregnant she needs to get down on her knees and thank God. and maybe this will teach her a lesson and maybe she will wait or use some form of protection.  |
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Date: 4/17/2002 5:59:00 PM
From Authorid: 23101
Classic Chik, you are doing exactly what you should do. Thats a great friend!! xo xo xo, |
| Date: 4/17/2002 6:00:00 PM From Authorid: 50405 And she needs to tell her parents what happened. And she really needs to because she might be pregnent! Love,**Frony** |
| Date: 4/17/2002 6:01:00 PM From Authorid: 51174 Why wasent she aware of protection? |
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Date: 4/17/2002 6:03:00 PM
From Authorid: 23101
I agree with Frony, if you do NOT have her tell her parents, then she will be in more trouble! If she uses birth control, who is she gonna get to buy the birth congrtol pills and things? xo xo xo, |
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Date: 4/17/2002 6:08:00 PM
From Authorid: 23101
She should have known that with no pretection from it.. This could happen!! xo xo xo, |
Date: 4/17/2002 6:10:00 PM
From Authorid: 33925
Oh WOW!! That is THIRTEEN!!! That just boggles my mind since I have a child who will be 13 in two months and another one that is almost 15!! That is just TOOOO young!! When you say MEN..do you mean grown men?? Honey she needs to find out for sure if she is or not, and she NEEDS to tell her parents...if she is cutting herself there is more to this story than we know...I seriously think there are other issues here...She needs to get help and as her friend maybe she will listen to you..Good luck and I will be praying for your friend...xoxo  |
| Date: 4/17/2002 6:10:00 PM From Authorid: 51174 What was she doing having sex at 15 anyways??? Do u guys really value your lives? why are you so afraid for her, she can go to abort herself.. |
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Date: 4/17/2002 6:11:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 52092
First: she dind't use any kind of protection. Second:One of the guys she had sex with was with her own cousin(belive it or not) Third:Remember,she dosen't know that i know that she had sex. And for last:She loves one of this guys but he isin't at all just wanted her for the sex and he told all of his friends that he had sex with her.REAL SAD!!!! |
Date: 4/17/2002 6:11:00 PM
From Authorid: 24845
Wow! In eighth grade? Sex? OMG!! First of all it isn't just her problem anymore, especially when so many friends already know. First of all, this secret shouldn't be kept. Period. It's not just your life and your friends life at stake here. It's the child that God has blessed her with. I know that it doesn't feel like that right now, especially to her. The thing is there are so many diffrent options out there for her, after you tell her that you know, you should mention adoption. I'm a big advicate of adoption, I'm adopted. I know that there are families out there that can't have children yet there are children out there having children and aren't able to keep them. I understand the fear that's involved here, whether your in the eighth grade or your eighteen. I've been there I know that fear. Well. Like I said, a friend would help her NOT keep the secret. It's important to save her life and someone elses. THis very well could be a blessing for someone else. I'm very glad that you've got some other responses on here and I know that we as USM are routing you on, you'll do the right thing. You know what that is. I really do wish the best for you and your friend. I'm praying for you and she.  |
| Date: 4/17/2002 6:15:00 PM From Authorid: 51174 loving someone doesnt mean you dont wear protection..you never know if he would have HIV or something worse. |
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Date: 4/17/2002 6:20:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 52092
Lady Luck:When i say men i mean MEN!!! She looks like she is 17 years old!!! And is too hard for her to tell her parents i think that's the last thing she would do but maybe the first she has to do.Her fear is that if she is not pregnant and she told already her parents she had sex... Also yes,there are many issues behind this and no respect for herself. |
Date: 4/17/2002 6:21:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 52092
P.S. Thankxx for your prayers USM family  |
Date: 4/17/2002 6:25:00 PM
From Authorid: 50249
First: she needs to do a pregnancy test. The ones that sell at the drugstore are very accurate. Second: if the pregnancy test is positive, she should definetely talk about it with her parents. Third: if she agrees with her parents and decide to keep the baby, she should get medical attention. Fourth: she needs to see a conselor or a psychologist, I see that she is having psychological problems. Fifth: she needs your friendship, and your unconditional love and support more than ever. Sixth: she needs Jesus in her life. I hope it all works out. I will be praying for her.  |
| Date: 4/17/2002 7:24:00 PM From Authorid: 51960 get a pregnancy test and get her to take it. best of luck. i hope she isnt pregnant. its sad to see babies having babies. |
Date: 4/17/2002 7:32:00 PM
From Authorid: 49513
i have no idea what yall r going through so i have no replie...sorry no help...Lil Tiger eyes  |
Date: 4/17/2002 7:56:00 PM
From Authorid: 36967
I know I am a male, so I know I cannot help, if I can it can be very little. But here is what I would say to you. First of all If it is true that your friend would get kick out for being pregnant, I would condemed the school for that. As a Christian, I would help her(if I were a female). By your comments in the replies. If you are absolutely sure that she is pregnant, you need to confront her about it. I know it would look mean, but that is what a friend would do. I am glad that you are going to talk to her. I'll be praying. |
Date: 4/17/2002 7:59:00 PM
From Authorid: 277
If she isn't pregnant she could be late because she is stressing out worrying. I'm not so sure a Catholic school would kick her out. I went to a Catholic H.S. where a lot of the girls were pregnant in sophomore-senior year. The only rule they had was that you were not allowed to participate in the graduation ceremony if you were pregnant. However, if you had your baby prior to the ceremony they allowed you to participate. I hope she's alright..  |
Date: 4/18/2002 10:50:00 AM
From Authorid: 26227
get her tested. Then if she is pregnant then you will have to tell her parents. Sure they will be very mad at first but its better to tell them now then wait till she has it  |
| Date: 4/19/2002 4:34:00 PM ( From Author ) From Authorid: 52092 Hawk in the school rules,reglaments or whathever you call it clearly says that if someone is prgnant she and the guy will have to leave the school because that's not what they are triyng to teach to us "catholic studants".Belive me! |
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Date: 7/26/2002 9:51:00 AM
From Authorid: 20579
Wow ummm I'm really sorry the only thing I can think of is go to a clinic they do pregnacy test free for underage kids and its confidental. Down wit the clown Milenko  |
Date: 9/13/2005 8:39:00 PM
From Authorid: 7574
Dang..8th grade is early.  |
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