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Date: 4/5/2002 8:35:00 PM From Authorid: 49459 Maybe she is a compulsive liar. Ask her that. She will probably say no, Lol! RlaurenC |
Date: 4/5/2002 8:35:00 PM From Authorid: 22852 I would get a new friend. I never understood why people do this and I myself try to stay as far away from them as I can. |
Date: 4/5/2002 8:38:00 PM From Authorid: 32763 LMAO you cracked me up!! about the weighing 60 pounds!! LOL sorry but i don't know what to tell you. i have a friend that lies all the time too! the thing i do it just flat out tell her i know she is lying. and every time she does i point it out to her. grrrrrrrr don't you just hate people that lie all the time. and what's even worse is they actually believe their own lies!!!! omg!! |
Date: 4/5/2002 8:38:00 PM From Authorid: 45948 OMG, that is soo freaky cuz my best friend is like that...I was just telling my husband about it today. Please let me know what you do about your friend!!!!!! |
Date: 4/5/2002 8:39:00 PM From Authorid: 51684 I have a friend who does the EXACT same thing. Unfortunately, the only thind that you can really do is catch her on it. The next time she says something that you are SURE is a lie, call it out. Question her about it. She will most likely be so upset that you figured it out, she will be afraid to lie in the future. Of course, it is easy to say that you will confront her, but when the time comes, it is much harder than you would think. Best of luck to you in whatever you decide to do. ~Charisma K.~ |
Date: 4/5/2002 8:39:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 31048
Well, we're not really that great of friends..I try not to be around her too much because I can't stand all her lying! LOL Rlauren, yeah she probably would say that knowing her, lol. |
Date: 4/5/2002 8:41:00 PM From Authorid: 19273 There is a medical disease where people chronically lie. Or, she may be doing it to be more popular. |
Date: 4/5/2002 8:41:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 31048
LOL thanks for all your comments guys, OMG babiebec, she DOES believe her own lies!! She's just a big weirdo.. |
Date: 4/5/2002 8:42:00 PM From Authorid: 19273 And just be sure that she doesn't have the medical condition, because if she does, calling her a "weirdo" isn't going to be the most tactful of things... |
Date: 4/5/2002 8:42:00 PM
From Authorid: 42519
and your friends with this girl?? Thats nice of you and all, but thats funny. |
Date: 4/5/2002 8:43:00 PM From Authorid: 32763 lol i bet she swears up and down that she never eats while holding a hamburger in her hand!! |
Date: 4/5/2002 8:44:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 31048
The only time I've really called her on a lie was that time when she said she only weighed 60 pounds.. she said she was so skinny because she had hyperthyroidism (yeah right!) well..I have hyperthyroidism, so I know all about it and I know they give you medicine for it, and she was saying all this stupid stuff about it that wasn't true..and I think she knew I knew she was lying cause she changed the subject really fast. Hehehe.. |
Date: 4/5/2002 8:45:00 PM From Authorid: 19273 Have some sympathy at least...or just ignore her. |
Date: 4/5/2002 8:48:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 31048
LOL Babiebec, lol..nope, she hasn't said that yet but she did tell me her mom was trying to kill her with cheese! Long story. Muas, I've thought about that before.. so I asked my aunt about it (she's a psychologist) and she said that people used to think chronic lying was a medical condition, but actually it's not.. she said it usually was just a way some people come up with to cope with low self-esteem. But I don't how anyone could have a self-esteem THAT low! That's just weird..I think it's safe to say she's just a weirdo! |
Date: 4/5/2002 8:57:00 PM From Authorid: 35629 Well i know a guy now that sounds so similiar hehe it drives me nuts sometimes i get into a lie fest and see if i can out lie him.hehe Mostly i get sick of it and avoid it. |
Date: 4/5/2002 8:59:00 PM From Authorid: 32763 LMAO!!!! trying to kill her with cheese??!!! LOL look out you all...there is a mad slice of cheese on the loose!! omg!! |
Date: 4/5/2002 9:00:00 PM From Authorid: 32763 lol nightmare gal---i hadn't thought of doing that!! hummmm i think i will try it! |
Date: 4/5/2002 9:11:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 31048
Hehehe, me and my friend were gonna do that nightmare gal!! Cause she lies to my friend Andrea too and we both get so sick of it..and we were gonna tell her all this dumb stuff like that we went to a big party and I drove home drunk and hit a dancing circus deer and bla bla bla..LMAO Babiebec!! Yeah she's really that weird..I wouldn't be surprised if she did say something like that! "That vicious slice of cheese is out to kill me, and my mom is helping it!!!" Actually the story she told me was that her mom knew she would die if she ate a certain type of cheese and she kept packing it in her lunch! LOL..no one dies from cheese!! LOL. She couldn't even tell me what type of cheese it was! I think if I was deathly allergic to a certain type of cheese I would atleast know what type it was so I wouldn't accidentally eat it... |
Date: 4/5/2002 9:11:00 PM From Authorid: 600 OMG! I had to click into your profile to see if we are from the same State because your friend sounds EXACTLY like my little cousin! Wow, I didn't know there were others this bad. The absolutely most ridiculous one that she told me was that her friend went to bed one night 8 1/2 mos. pregnant, and woke up not pregnant. She then went on to say that her body had absorbed the pregnancy! Like that is even possible in a fully developed gestational fetus that had been perfectly normal as well as average in size! Yep, I called her on that as well as all of the others. People like that make me nuts! |
Date: 4/5/2002 9:13:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 31048
OMG Tac, I had no idea there were more people like this out there either!! Why the heck do people say stuff like that??? Aaargh! |
Date: 4/5/2002 9:21:00 PM
From Authorid: 51871
Blame it on rap and crud pop music! eehheh Sir_Vince |
Date: 4/5/2002 10:41:00 PM From Authorid: 35629 lmao do not forget ya got out of trouble because you have royal blood in your family and when in a sticky sitiuation that it always helps to have ties to them and the mafia.hehehe |
Date: 4/5/2002 11:08:00 PM From Authorid: 52363 believe me.i know a girl like that.man does it get annoying.she days she has 5 boyfriends.we all know its not true.i keep giving her that look.the look where you stare at them for a while and roll your eyes in disgrace.i normally just keep saying"really now?" or "right" sarcasticlly.i helps me.you could just put loads of tape on her mouth and say shut-up.i did that once.it was hilarious.other than that you could talk to her about it.people brag somethimes cuz they may not have a good life so bragging and lieing get them self esteam.i really would use the tape though.it will do the job.lol. |
Date: 4/5/2002 11:38:00 PM From Authorid: 51393 Dearest,I know people like that I believe they just want to feel better about themselves it is like a feeling of lonesome.sometimes being misunderstood underestimate their ability prove their quality as a individuality.I believe you should just be a good listener and she will think about her mistakes eventually.MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALWAYS |
Date: 4/6/2002 12:41:00 AM From Authorid: 49345 OMG I have that same exact problem! And my friend has told those same exact lies... thats strange.... |
Date: 4/6/2002 4:29:00 AM From Authorid: 48577 It sounds like she needs help. There are people out there like that. They have real problems. I can't remember the name for it, but the one that we all know is conpulsive liars. Maybe talk to the counselar and explain what is going on, so they can maybe talk to her parents and get her some real help. But for you, just point out her lies to her and maybe when she sees that you are not going to listen to her lies she'll stop dropping them on you. |
Date: 4/6/2002 10:10:00 AM From Authorid: 29262 Maybe you should tell her how you feel |
Date: 4/6/2002 11:56:00 AM From Authorid: 47983 I had friends like that before.. What kind of friendship is it with out honesty? You have to have a talk to her and tell her that you guys can never be close if you keep on lying!...~*Jeset*~ |
Date: 4/6/2002 12:07:00 PM From Authorid: 28767 Seems she just needs attention. Tell her she doesn't lie to have to make friends. Sometimes ya gotta lay the smackdown on them for them to wake up! peace out.. |
Date: 4/6/2002 12:34:00 PM From Authorid: 49498 i had two friends like that. Needless to say i couldn't take the lies and i stopped being their friend. I dont like compulsive liars. -MAX |
Date: 4/6/2002 6:04:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 31048
LOL Nightmaregal..If she keeps this up I'm afraid I'll have to get Prince William on her tail! She better watch out! LOL. Well, it's nice to know that I'm not the only person with this problem.. I feel sorry for everyone who has a friend like this! Thanks for your advice everyone |
Date: 4/9/2002 9:29:00 AM
From Authorid: 52247
i have a friend that does this all the time. i think her ex boyfriend brainwashed her or something. she always tells everone that "rob" her ex was on the titanic when he was 3 and he died and was reincarnated. how stupid. she still does it and we just ignore her. and if she keeps on saying it. tell her to quit lying or your not going to be friends with her anymore and see if that works.my friends and i just let it go in one ear and out the other. i hope i have helped you a little. amber22 |
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