Date: 4/4/2002 2:02:00 PM
From Authorid: 31837
Sorry that this is happening to you, sweetie. Boys do tend to care an aweful lot what their friends think more than girls do. This just shows that you are the mature one, here, and if he decides not to date you because of this, then it is YOU who is too good for HIM. You deserve better. *smiles* Good luck!  |
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Date: 4/4/2002 2:03:00 PM
From Authorid: 45999
I had a boyfriend in highschool who broke up with me for the exact same reason, we didnt have the same set of friends, his were all the ones that lived in 2 story houses and mine were the one in the trailers.......anyway, we broke up! But yes, that is really low and shallow of anyone to do that! Rayndancer |
Date: 4/4/2002 2:06:00 PM
From Authorid: 52155
You are 13, don't let some dorky guy run your life. -eddo
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Date: 4/4/2002 2:11:00 PM
From Authorid: 28848
Don't like what other people say get in the way of your relationship. Just ask him how he really feels about everything...  |
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Date: 4/4/2002 2:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 28848
Sorry! Typo..thats supposed to be "let" not like.. |
Date: 4/4/2002 2:14:00 PM
From Authorid: 47734
Your 13.. don't worry about it.. Ten years from now you are gonna look back and laugh and say.. Why did I even care? Just some advice from a little older.. but not much wiser guy.. LOL  |
Date: 4/4/2002 2:17:00 PM
From Authorid: 47865
You seem to get alot of info about this guy from second hand sources, why not just ask him how he feels about the whole situation? His friends do sound like jerks, but if he doesn't have the strength to not live his life to please them, then is he worth it? Best wishes, Ash  |
Date: 4/4/2002 2:30:00 PM
From Authorid: 8941
Sounds like he has some jealous, immature friends. It is his call now whether or not he will stand up for what he wants, or what they want. He'll quickly realize it is what makes him happy that counts, not them, and he may have to learn the hard way, depending on which way he goes with it. It sounds like just the two of you need to sit down and have a serious chat. My husband and I dated throughout high school, and he had a couple of friends like this. They learned to deal, he'd made his choice, and if they still wanted to be his friend, then they would get over it. We all get along fine now, so with maturity, they'll grow out of it, or learn to shut it. Do any of them have girlfriends? That may be part of their problem. Jealousy.  |
Date: 4/4/2002 3:57:00 PM
From Authorid: 38751
People have this problem everywhere , they define "cool" as the complete opposite of what it really is.
I wont repeat what the other comments say coz i agree with them , just be urself gurl , and i'm 14 and i know 13-14 are difficult , when u get older guys will realise what they are doing , trust me.  |
Date: 4/4/2002 8:44:00 PM
From Authorid: 35160
well hun, im sorry, but if he breaks up with u because his friends dont like u, then HE ISNT WORTH UR TIME. huggs shay  |
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