what is this?!?!?!?

hey guys, i have a question you cool people may be able to help me with. ... to me, i find its a form of empathy, but i may be wrong. say if i'm riding in my car, and like ya know, everyone looks out the window, just staring. well when i look out the window and i look at someone, like by a bus stop or just on side the road, and they're looking back at me,... if i try hard enough its like, i can see them looking at me. ... like if i was looking at myself through their eyes. its a cool thing and i was wondering if it had to do with anything. and another thing, like the way you guys have described empathy, if one of my friends are going through something, it will make me so upset and so depressed, its like i cry cuz i feel their pain. i fell how much it hurts them. like when my friend thia and madden broke up, i felt how thia felt, i cried myself to sleep...broken hearted. but like it is said, it's not sympathy, its definately something where i can feel how they are feeling. really, even if it never happens to me. along with that, i get like, vibes whenever someone is mad, or hurt, or something bothering them, even if they dont show it. i just can read them so to speak. well, if anyone got any ideas, i surely would be apreciative =D the ~MorBiDFanTaCy~