Date: 2/27/2002 6:37:00 PM
From Authorid: 12103
that is awful..well i belive everything happends for a reason.....  |
Date: 2/27/2002 6:39:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 48585
yes it IS awful *!%*~>lonely gurl<~*%!*  |
Date: 2/27/2002 6:43:00 PM
From Authorid: 39043
I have never been in this situation..but I know some who have. I have 3 friends who are having babies. One is 18 she was 17 when she got pregnant and the other is the same and she is having twin girls. and then there is this guy friend whos girlfriend is pregnant and she is like 15. I don't think she should be pregnant becuz she is on drugs really bad..but i dunno maybe she will get smart and not do them while pregnant. but this thing..Pregnancy at a young age is everywhere. Its not gonna get better unless children stop having sex at young ages..or even using protection!  |
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Date: 2/27/2002 6:46:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 48585
thats sad dolphin and yes i agree with you about having sex at a young age *!%*~>lonely gurl<~*%!* |
Date: 2/27/2002 6:59:00 PM
From Authorid: 41067
Well, not personally, but I have had friends who have gotten pregnant at young ages, and kept thier kids. Most of them seem to be doing ok, we're always there if they need us.  |
Date: 2/27/2002 7:00:00 PM
From Authorid: 25481
God no! OMG!! If I ever...*gasps* I totally understand how you feel. That is terrible and it is terrble to be called names cause of crap like that. But everything comes back 3 fold. They'll get theirs...  |
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Date: 2/27/2002 7:03:00 PM
From Authorid: 25481
Being pregnant is whats keeping me from having sex..I dont want to take the chance to get pregnant. I have my life planned. And children arent for about another 15 years!! I want to do cheerleading, and go to college, and have fun..ya know..And I feel sorry for girls that get pregant so young, cause I can't imagine not getting to do a bunch of the things they wont get to do cause of having children. I also think the parents should not have to take care of her kid. Unless she is paying them. She decided she was old enough to have sex, she obviuosly thought she was old enough to accept the consequences. |
Date: 2/27/2002 7:07:00 PM
From Authorid: 39957
I wanna have kids but not that young. I have never been in a situation like this but my couzin was raped and she was lucky she didn't get pregant but we are close.  |
Date: 2/27/2002 7:38:00 PM
From Authorid: 45906
its sad at times yet i keep my head high i know more teen parents and well ist all not that bad my son is welcome to games and stuff and im 17 i dont worry no ridicule yet in that class i would of said something im sorry that is not right what they said  |
Date: 2/27/2002 8:53:00 PM
From Authorid: 24003
Im a teen mom..and I have never had anyone be rude to me about it. Im proud of my son, hes my everything. I would have to beat someone down if they were to say something rude to me about being a young mom. lol  |
Date: 2/27/2002 10:05:00 PM
From Authorid: 16069
I dont feel bad for this "poor girl" She is very lucky. Someday when your a mom you'll understand.  |
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Date: 2/27/2002 10:12:00 PM
From Authorid: 16069
CheerChik, Just because you have kids does not mean your life comes to an end. You can still have oter activities in your life. And your comment about the parents shouldnt have to be taking care of her kid....They took the baby to see her mom play a game for Gods sakes! After all they ARE the grandparents, and grandparents do enjoy time with their grandkids, it doesnt mean they are raising the baby for her. Whenever you eventually have a kid, will you ever let your parents spend time with your kid? |
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Date: 2/28/2002 5:42:00 PM
From Authorid: 45906
hey cheer chick it dosent wreck your life totally neddles to say i feel better now happier that i have someone to love i know loves me..i did not want kids eather but here is a tip for anyone when at a party never leve your drink unattended i was druged but still i love my son to no end < para |
Date: 3/10/2002 8:16:00 AM
From Authorid: 47218
Love One Another-- there is a BIG difference between being a grandparent that gets to watch over and spend time with the their grandchildren occasionally and being a grandparent that has to take full responsibility for supporting and raising a child because their children are too young and incapable of doing so themselves. Sure children can be wonderful and all, but they are also a huge responsibility and financial burden and people don't always welcome an endless supply of them. The grandparents may not be in the financial position to raise another child (they are very expensive to support) especially since it was completely unanticipated, or perhaps, late in life with their children almost raised and out of the house, they were ready to move onto a new stage in life-- which they now have to put off to raise their daughter's child. It is horribly irresponsible to bring a child into the world that you are not in the position to support. Now, I realize that these girls are very young, and liable to make mistakes and God knows I made some dumb decisions myself when I was teenager, so I don't condemn them. Most Moms love their children and don't regret having them, but that doesn't change the fact that young girls are better off putting of parenthood until they are older and better prepared. These girls are too young to be having a children. They're still children themselves. Having a child at this age doesn't just entail a little inconvenience at having to give up some activities-- it puts their entire future in jeopardy. Especially at 13, when you still have 5 years to go before you get your high school diploma. The girl on the volleyball tema is fortunate since her parents are very supportive, and it is likely that she will succeed in getting her diploma and probably even going to college. Many girls don't make it. They drop out and raise their children in impovershed conditions, who then, oftentimes, end up also dropping out and having children at a young age. It *is* unfortunate. Children deserve to be raised in the best environment possible, and teenage girls deserve to lead fuller lives rather than struggling to support a child.  |
Date: 3/10/2002 8:43:00 AM
From Authorid: 16442
Jessica/Cheer Chic, I am very proud of you. You are an extremely intelligent young lady and I am glad that if I have taught you nothing, that I have taught you that children should come after you finish school. You will make a wonderful mom when the time comes and I am so glad you realize that you will have more to offer once you can fully support a child. I love you baby girl.  |
