Date: 2/1/2002 5:16:00 PM
From Authorid: 5252
...first off...don't be mad at your friends...i know you may think they betrayed you..but in the long run they helped you! second...maybe before they didn't realise how much damage you were doing to yourself...now maybe they do know and they want to help you...they didnt mean to hurt you. third...you are different from the other people that they know who do this because you are their FRIEND...think about that word...they obivously care about you enough to try and help you out in this situation...no matter how much you think this is hurting you more...it is helping you in the long run...don't be mad at your friends...they meant GOOD...if you took it in the wrong way talk to them about it...  |
Date: 2/1/2002 5:17:00 PM
From Authorid: 30229
Sorry sweety, in my opinion your friends were being TRUE friends and trying to help you... They dont want anything to happen to you and you cant ask for better friends than that... I hope you stop cutting yourself and stop being suicidal. That is so sad. If you go to the RIGHT counselor they WILL help you. Maybe the other one you went to wasnt the right one for you... try again, please... Hugggggs....  |
Date: 2/1/2002 5:18:00 PM
From Authorid: 42714
Don't be mad at your friends. Whats the point of earning your trust only so you will die and then it won't matter? Anywho, talk to your friends instead about what's bugging you. It may take you a while, but you should be able to trust them again! Good luck and lots of hugs!  |
Date: 2/1/2002 5:25:00 PM
From Authorid: 37843
what they did shouldnt have "betrayed" your trust in them, it should have made it stronger for you to know how much your friends care about you, they were doing GOOD. If I would have known about my friend and if i could have stopped him, i definatly would have, but noone knew, so now he's gone. Its NOT "kool" when some one tries or succedes in killing themselves, no matter what your friends think, its not. Not to sound like im tryin to be mean or somethin like that, but i think its good that you have your wrists checked everyday, and i think its good that you told your friends and that they told someone else, cause I know what its like to lose a friend like that, and im sure other pple that read this do too. Your friends did the right thing. ~=~ WhytePenguin  |
Date: 2/1/2002 5:28:00 PM
From Authorid: 45866
They are only trying to help you stop from doing it. They probably thought of how serious cutting is, and decided to do something about it. Don't be mad at them, you should thank them, they are doing what they think will end up with you having more of a chance to live. ~TasteOfDeath~  |
Date: 2/1/2002 5:34:00 PM
From Authorid: 20069
well i can see why you are mad at them.. i would be to. they probably were trying to help you but to me that would cause me to do it more.......its just something you gotta stop cuz no matter what you do it won't be "right" in anyone's eyes so i guess the only way is to stop..  |
Date: 2/1/2002 6:15:00 PM
From Authorid: 46515
Well maybe you're right. Maybe your so called friends should have let you harm yourself, after all isn't that what a good friend would do? Now lets talk real here. Do you really believe these friends tried to help you because they want to hurt you? If they wanted to hurt you they would have turned thier heads while you were whittling away on your arms. You need to get to the botton of this need you have to hurt and punish yourself. You must be getting SOMETHING out of it. Please talk to someone. It's obvious you have a problem thats too big for you. Take care and God bless. I will be praying for you. LYNDY AKA  |
Date: 2/1/2002 6:45:00 PM
From Authorid: 40145
Well then dont cut yourself. second of all, they are your TRUE friends, they were trying to help you. You shouldn't hurt yourself. its not good for you. You should be happy they care about you hon.  |
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