Date: 1/25/2002 8:33:00 PM
From Authorid: 46424
all i can say is ice cream and a treadmil or just low fat ice cream.  |
Date: 1/25/2002 8:37:00 PM
From Authorid: 35160
go to her, tell her its ok, she needs 2 let it out, it will make it worse 2 hold everything in, if she doesnt want 2 talk 2 u , then tell her 2 write it down, but just dont hold it in. and definitly hug her,alot, hugs r the best, just be there 4 her, thats what my mom did 4 me, and sometimes still does,  |
Date: 1/25/2002 8:38:00 PM
From Authorid: 49101
Well, if you know this much, it sounds like she did come to you... she is just not ready to cry yet. Give her some time, chances are (if she is like every teenage girl in America) she will burst in to tears any minute. I know that is not what we want "per sey", but it is the normal thing. You sound like a good mom, and I am sure she will come to you when it really sinks in. MissC.  |
Date: 1/25/2002 8:44:00 PM
From Authorid: 47297
just talk to her. tell her she can come to you with anything. tell her about your first broken heart. how much it hurt. and how much better you feel after talking about it.  |
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Date: 1/25/2002 8:47:00 PM
From Authorid: 48995
Tell her to not be afraid to cry and let it out...Hope all goes well... But you know when my highschool sweetheart of 4 years broke up, it was actually like a BIG relief for me. I realized that I had given up all of my friends for him and so I just had to regain all of my friends and I was ok... |
Date: 1/25/2002 8:58:00 PM
From Authorid: 18870
Time, it takes a lot of time and there is no real cure, but eventually your heart will heal and you will be able to move on. It's diffrent for diffrent people, and the onlu thing I an say is, don't deny your feelings, but stand up and meet them face on, you will get over it a lot faster if you do.  I wish you the best of luck and if you need someone to talk to or just an ear to listen or a shoulder to lean on, im here *huggles n love*  |
Date: 1/25/2002 10:22:00 PM
From Authorid: 31900
thats is sooooo loving of you!! but i think she just may not care, she may have been feeling the same and just needed closer. my 1st love i cried for one night, ALL NIGHT, the next afternoon i found another. she may already have somone in mind or somone she's talking to. i wouldnt worry too much.  |
Date: 1/25/2002 10:54:00 PM
From Authorid: 16705
just be there for her, right now she thinks she is madly in love but you know she isn't. you can try and talk to her but you know she's not going to talk to you until she is ready, plus he is giving her the brush off but he isn't grown enough or mature enough to know how so the best thing she can do is kick him to the curb. Hamb918  |
Date: 1/26/2002 5:57:00 AM
From Authorid: 48577
Just do not give her the same old boring lines, like, there are more fish in the sea. That line always made me mad. Other than that just give her time and let her know if she needs anyone to talk to that your door is always open.  |
Date: 1/26/2002 8:13:00 AM
From Authorid: 35705
maybe she talks about it with a friend. but let her know ur here. Much love,  |
Date: 1/26/2002 9:10:00 AM
From Authorid: 47218
I know that when I've just been dumped, I really don't want to talk about it for a while, because it's too painful. Just give her some time. Anyhow, in the meantime, maybe you could arrange to do something with her to help take her mind off of it. Something, that she usually enjoys-- like maybe a dinner at a restaurant that she likes, or a shopping excursion.  |
Date: 1/26/2002 1:45:00 PM
From Authorid: 15997
well everyone deals differently with a broken heart. maybe it just hasnt hit her yet or she could be in denial. i'm sure it'll take her some time to heal and get over it but she'll come around. dont try to make her talk to you just do what you've been doing...u can let her know that ur there if she does need to talk. a first love is always the hardest to get over because we are so naive to think that it can never end. let her be angry, sad, or whatever she wants to be. it seems that he really hurt her so i know that soon she'll realize that he's not right for her and she deserves better. the healing process of a borken heart can take a long time so just be patient with her. first love is not always the truest love. *HUGS*  |
Date: 1/27/2002 6:47:00 AM
From Authorid: 46515
OMG, I feel your pain as a mother. I don't know maybe gently ask, then back off until she's ready. GOOD Luck. LYNDY  |
Date: 1/27/2002 7:03:00 PM
From Authorid: 43502
have a mother daughter bonding nite with everyones good friends ben n jerry! lol tell her everythings going to be ok and she was too good for him anyway.lots of love  |
47508 Category:(General Advice) Created:(1/25/2002 8:30:00 PM)