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Date: 1/25/2002 7:51:00 PM
From Authorid: 47297
all you can do is tell him you were joking. some people do take things very seriously. just be very heart felt when you appologize. tell him you never thought he would take that seriously. i hope everything works out  |
Date: 1/26/2002 6:03:00 AM
From Authorid: 48577
It's sounds like to me that he is playing a head game with you. I know I don't know the whole story, but it is something the guys do in my in laws family. It's kinda like a control game. They act like you hurt their feelings, so then it makes you mad at yourself, then they quit talking to you, except to say something like It's over. They wait for you to come crawling back to them, and put stipulations on it. So if you really like this guy, explain to him what you where feeling, say sorry. But if he tries to put stipulations on it for you to get back to gether. Another words saying something like, when I'm at your house you can't be on the computer talking to your freinds. Tell him you have a life of your own. I really do feel bad for you, but I don't want you to get involved with a control freek, and by what little I heard of your story, that is what he sounds like. I may be wrong though.  |
Date: 1/26/2002 8:52:00 AM
From Authorid: 47218
I agree with tigerlilly-- he was obviously hitting you because he wanted you to pay attention to him instead of your friend and when you refused to, he had a tantrum like a big old baby and went home and now he's holding out because he wants you to come crawling to him to promise that you will always pay attention to him whenever he demands it. He's gotta understand that you need to spend time with your friends as well as him. Don't give into him-- this isn't right what he's asking you to do and it's going to lead your relationship down the wrong track. You apologized and explained the situation to him, and if he still doesn't understand then he has a problem.  |
Date: 1/26/2002 8:57:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 36928
thank you guys so much  |
Date: 1/26/2002 6:05:00 PM
From Authorid: 13199
all you can do is beg..its sad and all..but its pretty much it..ask him over to your house..sit him down and tell him that it was a joke and tell him just how much your friendship does mean to him..and i know this is sad but try to get tears in your eyes if you can't just do it bc your upset..tears get them..and anways if it was me i would be bawling my eyes out.lol but just explain to him how much he means toyou..thats all you can do..and look him straight in the eye when you say it..don't look away look him straight in the eye..guys are weird about stuff like this.i have one friend who greeted me with a 'hello sexy" and i said 'hey dork" and he hasn't talked to me since..you just have to learn how to get around them..and getting sappy workds wonders.lol~~love~~Abyss~~  |
Date: 1/27/2002 6:55:00 AM
From Authorid: 46515
I just don't know about this guy. He seems, spoiled or I just don't know what.I'ts hard to read him without knowing him. On the other hand were you often hurting him? I find it hard to comment without knowing his feelings. Sorry. LYNDY  |
Date: 1/27/2002 9:33:00 PM
From Authorid: 49080
Sounds like he is a little immature! - Sweet September  |
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Date: 1/28/2002 1:44:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 36928
thank you all |
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