What should I do guys? HELP!

OK! This is killing me, OK I had this boyfriend I really really liked. A lot, and most of my friends tell me that I was in love, but really I wasn't bc im too young to be in love. Well we dated for like 3 months and now we have been broken up for about that long, it took a while to get over him, but now I am. But everyday I find out something new, like things he has lied to me about. For one thing, he liked someone else while we were going out, "just a little bit at one point". Yeah I can't blame him, we didn't have the best relationship. Like in a way it was, bc I have never had n e thing really that serious(not serious like that! gah..lol), but it was also the worst relationship. And apparently he had told someone else he liked her while we were going out. I heard this from her, and this girl liked him a lot. This was oooh, about 2weeks ago. I sat there and thought for a while what she could gain by telling me that, but really she would lose everything, like this guys friendship. She told me that he told her he liked her while we were going out and then after 5 months of leading her on he finally told her sister he didn't like her that way n e more. Well I talked to him about it and he said he did say he didnt like her that way, but never said anymore bc he never did in the first place. I told him he was just the type of person to say "well I can't see me dating you right now." He said," Well what am I supposed to do?" I told him, " tell them you dont like them!" Then he said that that was just mean, but really if you dont like someone, you should tell them rather than lead them on. Then a few nights later I told him not to call me until he was willing to tell me the truth about EVERYTHING bc I don't think a friendship is based on lies. Then he told me that our friendship means a lot to him and that he isnt lieing. So I made him tell me everything he kept from me, which there wasn't really n e thing. SO for a while there I thought I had everything figured out, that he never said he didn't like her, and when she found out for sure, she got so mad, and told me this to get back at him. Well I found out the other day, that everything was true, and also that he told her after he dumped me that he liked her a lot but didn't want to date anyone right now. When he was telling me that he was having so much trouble getting over me. Also that he did tell this girl he liked her while we were going out. Then he goes and likes the other girl he "liked a little bit at one point in our relationship". Which doesn't help much. And I thought he was my best friend, so Im really haveing trouble what to believe, if he wasn't such a huge christian, or so he says, they I would believe him in a hearbeat. But I have have done a lot of thinking, and I know who to believe, not him. If you don't agree with me, then I guess you just have to be in the situation. I'm over him, but it just hurts a lot bc I never liked n e one as much as him. And I just feel like a big piece of me is gone bc he was a big part of my life and now I don't want anything to do with him, when he trys to call me I'm just gonna tell him not to call over here n e more. He has lied to me so much, and even if he didn't lie about this thing, he didn't tell the whole truth. But he has lied about other things too. Oh, and he got this girl a Christmas present after Christmas bc he felt obligated just bc she got him one, and he gave it to her last week and told her he got it way be4 Christmas but hasn't had a chance to give it to her. He is just a crowd pleaser. Anyway, I'm trying to bring myself to forgive him bc at Sunday school they had this whole lesson on friendship and forgiving, but right now, i just can't. It hurts too much, if only he knew how much he hurt me. If he tries to talk to me about it, im not going to bc i guess its pointless to bring up these things 3 months after we broke up, and plus im tired of hearing him lie to me to stick up for himself. I kills me bc I thought he was this big christian,never had the heart to hurt n e 1, but he is like every other guy, or person for that matter, accepts Jesus with his mouth, and walks out the door and contridicts Him with his actions. Am I doing the right thing guys?

Thanx for listening!

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