Date: 1/18/2002 2:30:00 PM
From Authorid: 277
Maybe she's just jealous because you have a whole new group of friends. She might not feel like she fits in. SHe could have been talking bad about them just because she was mad or hurt. Give her awhile to cool off, then try talking to her. If you've been friends for a long time, it's worth the talk.  |
Date: 1/18/2002 2:31:00 PM
From Authorid: 25756
Oh that's really annoying! Maybe you should sit down a have a nice talk with her about it and tell her all that you said here, but just don't act really mad about it so you don't start a fight.   |
Date: 1/18/2002 2:37:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21499
she won't talk to me she blocked me and if I call her she won't talk to me either. And I posted this so that SHE WOULD see it, she is a fellow USMer.  |
Date: 1/18/2002 3:02:00 PM
From Authorid: 47538
Well this is a very interesting predicament, I think maybe your friend “Girl” is either insecure about your other friends that you hang out with, Maybe she is jealous, you never know. All I can tell you is that you should be yourself, tell her how you feel about the way she talks about your other friends, Tell her that you don’t like it, since you work your butt of to make people don’t talk about her. I think she should try to get to know your other friends instead of trashing talking them. ~~~TORI  |
Date: 1/18/2002 3:22:00 PM
From Authorid: 19482
Ok, let's look at this from her point of view: maybe she feels that you're other friend's actions speak louder than their words. Have you seen them react to eachother in the halls? (I'm asuming you all go to the same school) maybe she has had bad past experiances with them, and feels they are still the same. Also, did you ever thing about maybe YOUR friends might be trashing HER friends?? She might feel the need to stick up for them even if they haven't said much about her (around you anyway). Best of luck to you *hugs* Forever Xenia,  |
Date: 1/19/2002 12:10:00 PM
From Authorid: 19345
I think its human nature to defend yourself if you feel your being attacked. She is most likely hurt by the fact these people don't like her and it causes problems for you and her. Maybe if you sit them all down and hash it out they will discovery the things about her that you like and like her to visa versa  |
