Date: 1/11/2002 5:10:00 PM
From Authorid: 46530
He is playing you both for a fool. Leave him alone, tell him to leave you and your friend alone and get rid of him from your life. You don't need players like him to get into your life.
*Farleys*  |
Date: 1/11/2002 5:10:00 PM
From Authorid: 16845
move on seriously you don't need this loser. tell an adult that he is threatening his own life. but really. if you stick with him how are things going to get better? he'll keep playing his games and you'll be miserable......good luck.  |
Date: 1/11/2002 5:12:00 PM
From Authorid: 12006
Don't go back with him, whatever you do!! It is not right that he is threatening to kill himself without you!  |
Date: 1/11/2002 5:14:00 PM
From Authorid: 47297
i understand that you may love him. but, honestly, he doesn't love you. he wants you and your friend to both want him. as far as "ending his life if you leave him"...that is his way of scaring you into staying with him. let him know that your friend tells you exactally what he says to her. and if he did love you, he wouldn't be doing that. also, if she is truely your friend, she wouldn't want anything to do with your guy. i hope everything works out for you. ~~Princess Amber~~  |
Date: 1/11/2002 5:14:00 PM
From Authorid: 47699
I'm a guy and I'm old enough to tell you that this guy is nothing but a loser. Please believe me when I tell you that the old, "If you leave me, I'm going to kill myself," trick is just that...a trick. He's a small, insecure person who doesn't know how to love and all he is out for is himself. As long as he can get what he wants, that's all he cares about. You come first, dear, and you deserve to be happy. I promise you, a guy will come along who will care about you and will treat you much better than that. To sum it all up, FORGET HIM! Best wishes and may God bless you.  |
Date: 1/11/2002 5:21:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 48662
Well...see this is the weird part I forgot to mention..he knows we tell eachother everything he says and we keep telling him to tell us the truth because we know thats hes insecure and likes the idea of us fighting over him..but thats just the thing..we aren't fighting...neither of us are like that and he knows it..I've already told him to admit everything and our friendship will remain intact...its not like he hasn't helped me because he has..hes my best friend..hes never tried anything physical on me or anything and I just don't know why after all this, that he would stab me and my friend in the back and then refuse to admit it no matter how much evidence we have...we both tell him to pick and he changes his mind like every 5 minutes, and he knows that my friend will just use him..she even told him she was just looking for a fling, but he keeps running back.  |
Date: 1/11/2002 5:21:00 PM
From Authorid: 48758
Don't you dare go back with him!! This guy at my school played me and a girl. He asked me to go out with him I said no he called another girl asked her she said no. And when I confronted him about it he said thats not true!! Then he told that he thought that she was ugly even when he was going out with her I told the girl what he said. She got so mad,well I found the next day the two were going out can you believe that???  |
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Date: 1/11/2002 5:23:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 48662
He seriously is suicidal...he slit his wrists yesterday at school..then proceeded to super glue the cuts in art class..he really does mutilate himself, but I think its just for attention... |
Date: 1/11/2002 6:44:00 PM
From Authorid: 49080
Aww, LOVE LIFE! It is unforgetable, heartbreaking, and something you cannot reasonably live without! Yes, it does suck. Just about the exact same thing happened to me. Well, many times. It is not your fault. My advice is that you should leave that REAL LOSER alone. There are many guys out there that will treat you like you should be treated. He did play you both. That is why you are better than him. If you really want him pretty bad. Give it another chance but pretend that you could care less. Don't return his messages, if he calls and you answer make an excuse to get off of the phone quick without telling him to call you back, and ignore him at school. He'll come back eventually. When the time is right, tell him off in person w/o his friends being around and see what he does next! Good Luck!  |
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Date: 1/11/2002 6:48:00 PM
From Authorid: 48444
Oh, move on. He is lying to you!! Heed the warning. I have been there, and believe me -- it isn't worth your heart being broke. Angletear |
Date: 1/11/2002 7:07:00 PM
From Authorid: 46515
He is such a selfish guy. First he runs around on you, with your best friend, then he goes back and forth telling each of you how much he loves you. When you cannot take his betrayal and you want to move on, he holds on to you with emotional blackmail. Lose him. He's too selfish to kill himself. Lyndy  |
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Date: 1/11/2002 8:54:00 PM
From Authorid: 47699
What do you mean, he's your best friend? That is no friend at all! Please listen to what all of us are telling you! He is selfish, insecure and immature. He is only trying to get attention and make you feel sorry for him. I have known people and have even seen a movie about people who cut themselves with razor blades and things of that nature and it's just because they are sick. Please, please listen to what all of us are trying to get through your head. Please get away from him and stay away. Listen, I'm a 39 year old man and I've lived long enough to know what I'm talking about here. I certainly do hope that you listen to me. Think about it...you can't be right about this while all of the rest of us are wrong. Keep in mind all that we've said here and try to get some perspective. |
