Date: 12/19/2001 7:04:00 PM
From Authorid: 47930
I think you just need to tell that she needs to be Thankfull that she has such a good son, that you are at least not in trouble with the law or living off of her like your sister. Just be honest about your feelings and see what happens.....Hugs.....Midnight Momma  |
Date: 12/19/2001 7:59:00 PM
From Authorid: 42945
Can u talk to your mum and if so why not tell her exactly how u feel and how she is making u feel, sometimes mums seem to stick by the ones who need the most help and that seems to be your sister, try not to end your relationship but at the same time let her know that she is pulling u down with her attitude, u sound like a very responsible person who can do for yourself, so feel proud of yourself and hun dont be lonely theres so many lovely people here to talk to, so I hope u have a Merry Christmas and heres a big ((((((hug)))))) for u Cheers Zeplin42  |
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Date: 12/19/2001 8:02:00 PM
From Authorid: 47349
Sit her down and make her listen to how you feel then you do the same for her...Discuss the good things about your relationship and how you can build them up and dissect the bad to figure out where you may have went wrong...Most of all be honest-let her know you care and it hurts...Good Luck and Merry Christmas!! **EnglishPoet** |
Date: 12/19/2001 8:05:00 PM
From Authorid: 1631
Sounds like she's uncomfortable with your independence so she is trying to manipulate you into feeling like you need to live life by HER standards. Don't! Live your life the way YOU want to, or you will regret it. You might want to consider counseling to get help with these issues with mom, because once you are able to understand those issues, the better you will be able to cope with them...and her. This will help you become complete with yourself and you won't be as dependent on her and her unattainable approval anymore. It wish you luck!...  |
Date: 12/23/2001 2:37:00 AM
From Authorid: 6050
I agree with Ali..I myself have reached out to a counseler..I've tried reaching out to my mom..Sat her down..told her how i felt..not pointing any fingers..and the woman got offened because, she thought i was blaming her for everything..I never once said anything of that nature..She only hears what she wants to hear..I'm always getting critisized..my sister and brother are always being praised..you know why? because, i'm the only one who visits my parent's on a regular basis..so i get all the negative..i'm pretty much taken for granted...i run errands for my mother, i do many things for her..because, she doesn't like to go out of the house..yet, my sister can do nothing for her..and my mom kisses her royal behind!..the woman manipulates me all the darn time as well as others around her..She thinks the whole world needs counseling and that she is the only normal person in our family..she usualy get mad when we all laugh at that one..she doesn't get the joke! She's always angry..even when she thinks she's asking nicely..it's just her way. But, don't you dare ever talk to her in the same tone..or it's all over!..if you can't help her..help yourself that's my motto  |
Date: 12/24/2001 10:23:00 PM
From Authorid: 47162
Well she is tellin lies that aren't true. Do what ya do with all lies. Throw them away!
R1  |
