Date: 12/19/2001 6:43:00 PM
From Authorid: 47930
AS you get older men do start to look at whats inside not the outside because most of them are over weight and bald. But be happy with yourself it does not talk a man to make you happy. If they want to go after girls that look like that then so be it, they just don't know what they are missing out on.....Hugs....Midnight Momma |
Date: 12/19/2001 6:48:00 PM
From Authorid: 30747
I understnad perfectly what you're saying. I wrote a poem with this theme...http://www.unsolvedmysteries.com/usm186509.html Check it out if you get the chance. And there will be a guy just for you soon...wait and see. *hugs and smiles* |
Date: 12/19/2001 6:48:00 PM
From Authorid: 33978
The guys you describe are just jerks and I bet they get turned down a lot by girls. I know it's hard but you'll see that a guy that's worth it will like and love you for everything you are. I also think you're being a little hard on yourself...I bet you are a very pretty girl, please don't judge yourself on a jerk's opinion. Please remember this, the guys that are worth it will be turned on by class and intelligence before looks. Hugs, SeaPrincess |
Date: 12/19/2001 6:49:00 PM
From Authorid: 45619
i know exactly what your talking about! but i have the problem of being a little rounder than most girls, and guys don't like that either. i hate shallow people, and i agree that they should look on the inside, bc that's what really counts. ~Fire Angel |
Date: 12/19/2001 8:06:00 PM
From Authorid: 15033
You should have asked that guy online if he was HOT himself. Bet he wasn't either. HOT looking girls want HOT looking guys, so he would likey be out of luck...why do they even bother fantasizing about things they won't ever get? ...you are probably Hot looking to a lot more guys than you think, they just don't tell you. Maybe thats the real problem...:-) |
Date: 12/19/2001 8:07:00 PM
From Authorid: 47349
First of all, I can totally relate...I had exactly the same feelings...I have only had two boyfriends and I am not about to change my look for anyone either...there's someone out there for you I truly believe...be yourself, keep positive and maintain an air of confidence that will have everyone wondering...Don't get discouraged, beauty lies within and you sound like a really awesome person to know...Good Luck, God bless, and Merry Christmas! **EnglishPoet** |
Date: 12/19/2001 8:10:00 PM
From Authorid: 22852
I was not one of the "hot" girls growing up and let me tell you something. Today I am married with two boys, dogs, a cat, a wonderful home and my "hot" friends.. well one is divorced and the other on the verge of divorce. As men age they change the way they think. Your prince will come in time. Meanwhile do the best for yourself and have self confidence and before you know it you will have men all around you. |
Date: 12/19/2001 8:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 1631
You don't have to look like Barbie to carry yourself with confidence and invest a little time and effort into your appearance. If you feel good about yourself, that will show and people (men included) will sense that and be drawn to you. Then they will have the opportunity to get to know the REAL you... |
Date: 12/20/2001 11:33:00 AM
From Authorid: 18155
Mostly because of the way they were reared by their parent or parentsis is where they get the models for their behavior with others. Don't blame the peers. Their dysfunctional behavior was already set in place years ago. They're just acting in ways that are comfortable to them regardless of how their behavior effects others, as long as their happy and can come out on top. With friends like them , you don't need any enemies. |
Date: 12/20/2001 11:53:00 AM
From Authorid: 45611
Don't change your look. People are stupip, just wait |