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Date: 12/19/2001 4:43:00 AM
From Authorid: 33925
Ok, here is where I am going to tell you that you CAN help it honey...I know right now everything seems messed up and it sounds like your Mom is still dealing with the divorce as are you..If you dont feel you can go to your Mom with this stuff...try your Dad, your school councellor...a relative..a friend..a friends parent..ANYONE THAT MIGHT LISTEN!! I know EXACTLY how you are feeling right now...I may be older now but I was your age once and went through some things as well..when it all boils down to it YOU are the creator of your own destiny and only YOU can decide where you want your life to head. YOU have to take that first step and tell someone that you NEED help here...Im so sorry that you have had to deal with so much at such a young life..you know sometimes life isnt fair and when there is a divorce the kids seem to get the raw deal here..But its time for you to take the bull by the horns and MAKE things change for you...I know I am probably already telling you things you have already heard, but you need to hear it again hon...I am here if you ever feel the need to just vent ok? xoxo  |
Date: 12/19/2001 10:22:00 AM
From Authorid: 42104
i completely adree with lady luck.. honey i don't know what your doing as in *wrong* but whatever it is you can beat it. I swear I used to do some *wrong* things to and I finally decided if I keep this up I'm not going to do anything with my life and I wanted to do something. I am hear if you want to talk to me too and remember you are NEVER alone.  |
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Date: 12/19/2001 10:29:00 AM
From Authorid: 42104
hey sweetie. I finally figured out the cut and paste thing just for you... under advice title for TIM DA MAN |
Date: 12/20/2001 6:09:00 AM
From Authorid: 27845
Tim, honestly there is no EASY way to get over something like this. But at least you've said you need help, thats a really good sign. It shows that you want to get your life back on track. Lady Luck has explained it really well and I agree with everything she has said. Maybe you could talk to your Mom? Maybe you could tell her that you don't like the way your relationship with her is going.. perhaps she feels the same way only she hasn't said it yet. You can change the way your life is going if you REALLY want to. You can't sit back and expect someone else to come along and help you if you can't help yourself. The next time someone tries to help you and you get the erge to yell at them or whatever just try to remember that they are trying to help you because they obviously care about you and want to see you happy!! I know it may not mean much to you but if you ever want to talk there are literally hundreds of people on this site who would be willing to listen, including me. **hugs** Your not alone so don't EVER convince yourself that you are. Good luck Tim.  |
Date: 12/20/2001 12:08:00 PM
From Authorid: 39671
I agree with the previous post as well. Just take charge. You a very intelligent kid because you know right from wrong you know the right crowd from the wrong crowd. I am 22 years old and I can tell you from experience. The way you live your child hood has a great impact on you adult hood life. TAKE CHARGE! Let your mom know how you feel tell her that she acts as if she dosent care. Tell her that she is a grown woman an even though the divorce may be hard on her that you are her son and you need her support. Take over the problem dont let it take over you. Your to young to go down. I feel that you see the consequences of doing wrong so there is no need in me to explain them to you. If you need daily advice message me and i will be glad to help you.  |
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