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Should I?

  Author: 45975  Category:(Discussion) Created:(11/14/2001 6:13:00 PM)
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OK, Jeff and I were friends for 3 years, but we were both interested in each other the only problem was that I was a minor and he is more than 5 years older than me, so our relationship consisted mainly of talking on the phone to each other almost everyday for more than 2 hours a day for 3 years. It's hard to describe the bond that forms durring an intense relationship like that. Many times I have convinced myself that I'm no longer in love with him, but the truth is, I still think I'm in love with him. It has now been 3 years since Jeff and I last talked, and I do miss him. He always said when I turned 18 that we'd actually go out on a date together, as long as he was still single. Well, I found out today that he is still single. My question is should I write him and tell him that in the past 3 years my feelings for him haven't changed, in fact I think they've gotten stronger. Should I tell him that I think I still love him? The last time we talked he was crying when we said goodbye because he new that we wouldn't be able to go on like we had been (it was tourture on the heart not being able to be together), so it was goodbye. He still lives a few hours away,but I really don't think that bothers me all that much, I'm used to long drives now, I think I could handle it. Any advice on what I should do would be really helpfull. Thanks!

~PenguinPrincess~

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Date: 11/14/2001 6:21:00 PM  From Authorid: 42461    Even if you think you are ready for a long distance relationship, it will be hard. I know first hand. You have to be able to trust him and he has to be able to trust you or it wont stand a chance. If you can take being a part or like me just dealing with it, then I would say go for it. The odds for long distance relationships are very slim, but if you really love him you will look past it. Just remember when the days seem to never end and the days seem to pass so slowly since you last saw him that the more days that past the less days you have left before you are back together. But believe me the time together will seem very short, but for me the time together always made up for any time apart. I hope everything works out. BethieMoo  
Date: 11/14/2001 6:22:00 PM  From Authorid: 17051    It sounds like you already know what to do. Follow your heart. To me it sounds like you should write or call him up. Tell him that your feelings for him are still there. But don't rush things. I mean it has been three years since u last talked. Good luck, Luv  
Date: 11/14/2001 6:24:00 PM  From Authorid: 33925    Well since you are now over 18 and legally able to have a relationship with him, I think you need to let him know how you feel...You may be surprised to find out that he feels the same...you will never know unless you try right?? the worst that can happen is he could tell you that it is over...but at least YOU will know..Good luck! xoxo  
Date: 11/14/2001 6:25:00 PM  From Authorid: 35853    Good friends make better lovers! Ask "Dangsgirl!" Have a nice day!  
Date: 11/14/2001 6:26:00 PM  From Authorid: 46068    I say go for it if you all are both single and had this great relationship which was only a problem due to age, which isnt a problem any more, then I would deffinately stop in and say hi... good luck, Eagleeye  
Date: 11/14/2001 6:28:00 PM  From Authorid: 45095    Now that age isn't an issue, yes go for it! LOTSALUV! "Dangsgirl!"
Date: 11/14/2001 6:28:00 PM  From Authorid: 39258    at least tell him how you feel. maybe he feels the same way. by telling him, you have NOTHING to lose!  
Date: 11/14/2001 6:30:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 45975    Thanks everyone, I guess I needed some reassurance that I'm doing the right thing, now all I need to do is figure out what i'm going to say!
Date: 11/14/2001 6:38:00 PM  From Authorid: 43760    Yes, i think you should tell him. I bet it'll turn out to something good! lol Tell us what happens. *KittyQueen*
Date: 11/15/2001 6:13:00 AM  From Authorid: 40149    I think you should follow your heart. Love, as strong as yours sounds, should not be kept a secret. If you don't tell him how you feel then you'll just end up living with thoughts of What could of, should of , would of happen. So I'd say go for it! Good Luck in what ever choice you make!!! *HUGS*  

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