Date: 10/28/2001 8:19:00 PM
From Authorid: 16845
No go to him and tell him that you know and HE needs to tell his wife! keep pressuring him until he finally does even threaten to tell her if he doesn't but let HIM do it.....  |
Date: 10/28/2001 8:20:00 PM
From Authorid: 19482
She deserves to know what is going on. I think that I would send the pics annoymusly (sp?) and then be there for her to lean on. Good Luck *hugs* Forever Xenia,  |
Date: 10/28/2001 8:22:00 PM
From Authorid: 12341
I agree with Becky, Don't do it if you want to keep your friend. She will "know" or find out but telling him you know may be the best way to handle this.  |
Date: 10/28/2001 8:22:00 PM
From Authorid: 609
ohh gese that would hurt...if it were me I would go to him and tell him I know and that he has to tell her or you will. Its such a mean thing to do, cheat on your wife after a baby. I wouldnt want to do something like pics, it would be crushing.  |
Date: 10/28/2001 8:26:00 PM
From Authorid: 6358
I agree with Becky, go to the source of the problem and hopefully he will be a man and step up to the plate and be honest with her. I feel for her, it's not fun being cheated on.  |
Date: 10/28/2001 8:33:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 34758
oh god, i really HATE being in the middle of this... i'll go to him though and say "look, i know you're cheating.. if you don't either get away from her...gracefully or stop what you're doing, i'll tell her." honestly, i think he'll devorce her before he stops. this is going to be absolutly horrible and will tear her apart so much, but i guess it has to happen huh...  |
Date: 10/28/2001 8:34:00 PM
From Authorid: 40881
Yep..I'm with becky too..She need to know thow..so if he wont tell..you need to Sorry but can you imagine how that would feel...walking aroung all happy..and hes making you look like a fool? OMG! I would die!! Ask yourself this....would you want her to tell you???  |
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Date: 10/28/2001 8:34:00 PM
From Authorid: 6358
Be careful for your safety too, if you go to tell him what you know, make sure someone waits outside for you or knows where you are because sometimes if a guy is threatened he will threaten or lash out. |
Date: 10/28/2001 8:39:00 PM
From Authorid: 37340
Get some pictures of the guy cheating invite them both over for dinner and show the pictures to both of them at the same time then watch the back pedaling begin it's the least that guy deserves  |
Date: 10/28/2001 8:51:00 PM
From Authorid: 19173
Hi LoveKisses, I'm just wondering how did you find out he was cheating? Did you see him with his girlfriend? It's a tough spot to be in, I'm not sure if you should confront him or her first. If you go to him and let him know you are on to him, it may give him time to think up more lies and maybe weasel out of it somehow. Personally I would tell the wife and let her deal with him. By you confronting him it will just give him time to cover his tracks. Good Luck!  |
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Date: 10/28/2001 8:58:00 PM
From Authorid: 37340
Just burn the guy and be done with it think about the wife who loves him. |
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Date: 10/28/2001 8:59:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 34758
basically this story is very long... but to make it short..i know that he's attempted to cheat on her with other family members and one of my friends saw him with another girl on several occasions being more then friendly at a bar... he doesn't know she saw him... this has all actually been going on for a while. |
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Date: 10/28/2001 9:07:00 PM
From Authorid: 19173
He attempted to cheat with other family members, oh boy this guy is a real loser. She deserves so much better, hopefully she will see the light and kick him out on his butt. |
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Date: 10/28/2001 9:12:00 PM
From Authorid: 37340
This sounds like a good Jerry Springer show to me. |
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Date: 10/28/2001 9:18:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 34758
yeah it's worse then it sounds... i dont' wanna go into detail unless someone happens to get my user id and find my stories or something! that would be a bad way to find out!! |
Date: 10/29/2001 5:41:00 AM
From Authorid: 31531
If you tell her your friendship could end.It is best to confront him on what you know.Then it will be up to him to end this relationship with this woman.This is a sad thing and you knowing this much way heavy on your heart.I pray that you find a way to help. HUGS<<<<  |
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Date: 10/29/2001 8:26:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 34758
she's not even my friend so i'm not worried about losing her.. she's my sister. |
Date: 10/29/2001 8:30:00 AM
From Authorid: 14197
Do not talk to him angry, talk to him like a friend looking out for another friend. Tell him that you know what he's doing and how it's going to affect the lives of his family. Inform him that whats he's doing is not as big a secret as he might think it is and it's in his best interest to stop. I don't think it will help the situation any if you threaten him. You have to get him thinking, not angry.  |
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Date: 10/29/2001 8:35:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 34758
you guys are giving me so many ideas!! i still don't know what to do, but i do know it has to be something! |
Date: 10/29/2001 10:24:00 PM
From Authorid: 45551
well if she is your sister, if i was you i would have someone taking all kinds of pictures so when there is a divorce she will be able to rake him through the coals.MASTER OF FATE  |
Date: 10/29/2001 10:34:00 PM
From Authorid: 1631
No way. Unless you have absolute, undeniable, hard evidence, do not get involved. What if it's not true? Don't risk destroying your family member's entire life based on a potentially true rumor. Unless you have seen the proof with your own eyes, butt out...  |
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Date: 10/30/2001 10:14:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 34758
yeah i know! i'm going to get some pictures!! i wanna make sure all bases are covered! |
Date: 7/4/2005 1:48:00 PM
From Authorid: 16376
well, hopefully it turned out he wasn't cheating..  |
