Date: 9/24/2001 6:17:00 PM
From Authorid: 37706
I'm sorry sis. In my opinion i would dump those so called friends and find some peeps who r nicer than that. If it makes u feel any better i hate my sisters, LOL .-ScoobyFreak  |
Date: 9/24/2001 6:19:00 PM
From Authorid: 39258
if you need any favors done, ill do 'em lol and i dont laugh or get mad...usually i laugh at myself LOL but hmmm....maybe you need to spend some time by yourself and do things that make you feel good or that you enjoy doing...you can make new friends that way... friends that wont take advantage of you -telsha  |
Date: 9/24/2001 6:21:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 35720
The thing is, they are really great friends. They are so fun to be with and stuff, but I think they fool me into thinking that they are really loyal when in reality they don't do crap for me! And they do listen to my problems and I think they care about me.. it's just that I'm so sick of always being the "nice guy". I wish people would realize I am a person too and stop stepping all over me.  |
Date: 9/24/2001 6:22:00 PM
From Authorid: 18516
Your more than welcome to have my life..I'd trade it any day. I sit in the house all day long all cooped up. I haven't even been on USM this weekend except for 5 mins. to check my msges. Which isn't normal b/c I'm constantly on here. I'd have a talk with your friends and tell'em how u feel.  |
Date: 9/24/2001 6:23:00 PM
From Authorid: 37706
Yeah that sux too.-ScoobyFreak  |
Date: 9/24/2001 6:24:00 PM
From Authorid: 32070
I understand your wanting to get away for awhile. But, I don't want you to go! *Frown* *hugs*  |
Date: 9/24/2001 6:25:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 35720
I talked to them, especially this one particular friend. She says that she'll "pay me back in some way" EVERY TIME I do a favor for her cause she knows there's nothing she could do for me! I'm between a rock and a hard place and I hate it.  |
Date: 9/24/2001 6:26:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 35720
Thanks for the hugs, Private Lady! *hugs back* I love USM and I love everyone on here (well mostly everyone) but I just need like a week to get everything figured out.  |
Date: 9/24/2001 6:34:00 PM
From Authorid: 31255
Hey Rika... this just happens all the time. I think your friends just need to grow up a lil... you sound premature and you probably just see past what they are doing whereas they might not recognize it as a problem especially since they are benefiting from it... you just gotta start saying now and be strong about it and not let them walk all over you. *hugs* take care,  |
Date: 9/24/2001 6:36:00 PM
From Authorid: 18870
awwww it's wrong when people take advantadge of you just because you are nice. Have you told your firneds this, maybe you need to tell them how it is making you feel. and try to not be soo nice all the time. *hugs* good luck..  |
Date: 9/24/2001 6:43:00 PM
From Authorid: 18887
im sorry that you might have a end of some friendships but we're here for you  |
Date: 9/24/2001 7:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 7152
You should learn when to say no. I am sure you are an open and giving person and your friends take advantage of that instead of cherishing it. Just learn to say no when something does not seem right to you.  |