Date: 9/12/2001 4:35:00 AM
From Authorid: 41067
Well, if she's not your type, and you really don't want to go out with her, then say so, but be gentle. If you're not sure though, give her a chance. She may be really good for you. And yes, things have changed. Although it is still more common for boys to ask the girl out, girls often take the lead now too. Tandris  |
Date: 9/12/2001 6:14:00 AM
From Authorid: 35185
I think it is perfectly fine for a girl to ask a guy out. If you don't want to hurt her feelings just let her know you are already seeing someone and it is kind of exclusive, but you appreciate the invite.  |
Date: 9/12/2001 8:43:00 AM
From Authorid: 42563
you've already got a girl right well tell her that you and your girl has plans friday night and for a long time to come....Nakoma  |
Date: 9/12/2001 10:20:00 AM
From Authorid: 17051
There is nothin wrong wid girls askin guyz out, but because u have a girl, she shouldn't have done that. Just tell her that u and your girl already have plans. She will relize that u are already taken even if it takes a while for it to sink in. Good Luck. Luv  |
Date: 9/12/2001 2:45:00 PM
From Authorid: 31410
Just let her know that you are already involved with somebody and that you are happy with them. If she keeps persuing you then you can always be mean. sometimes being nice doesn't get the point across. good luck. crazygirl  |
Date: 9/12/2001 4:47:00 PM
From Authorid: 30786
I think the main problem here is that there is a meddling girl that is trying to steal you away from your girl and that is not cool. It's not a big deal to ask out a guy, it is when you are conniving. Tell her straight out that you have a girlfriend and you're not interested  |
Date: 9/12/2001 9:53:00 PM
From Authorid: 12103
tell her you have a g/f and you are not interested anywase...she is not quite your type..hey! you wouldnt be lying...lol  |
Date: 9/13/2001 3:17:00 AM
From Authorid: 27051
tough one! I've never been in that position sadly...   |
Date: 9/13/2001 8:57:00 PM
From Authorid: 36098
tell her that her shining knight is not you.  |
Date: 9/13/2001 11:50:00 PM
From Authorid: 18516
I say that girl's got guts! She asked a guy out, I could never do that. I give her major props for that. But since your taken u might oughta let her down easy. Tell her that you have a g/f already and that you really love her..then say it was nice to be asked out..(cuz really it is a bit flattering right? hehe) but u never know she could make a great friend..u just need to get to know her better.  |
Date: 9/14/2001 1:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 40530
Hey hey hey, what's wrong with bookworms? I am a complete bookworm! Just cos she is a bookworm dosn't mean that she dosn't have a nice personaltly! ~poke_angel_gal~  |
36540 Category:(General Advice) Created:(9/12/2001 3:41:00 AM)