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I feel like I'm ALWAYS being used!!!!!! ~YourDestiny

  Author:  27845  Category:(General Advice) Created:(9/8/2001 11:46:00 PM)
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I get told all the time that I'm "A really nice person" and I think sometimes I get used by people because of this. Like whenever someone has a problem they always come to me about it and I try to make a big effort to be there for them if they need me. but whenever I have a problem nobody is available to listen and I get really depressed because of it! I don't have a lot of problems but it would be nice if I had someone to talk to when I do. I'm starting to feel really isolated and alone.. :(

Any advice?

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Date: 9/8/2001 11:51:00 PM  From Authorid: 26452    destiny*hugs* i no exactly how u feel,i dunno if im much help but if u EVER need 2 talk im always here u can msg me any time ya want  
Date: 9/8/2001 11:53:00 PM  From Authorid: 26452    oops,sorry about that,darn computer!  
Date: 9/8/2001 11:53:00 PM  From Authorid: 26452    destiny*hugs* i no exactly how u feel,i dunno if im much help but if u EVER need 2 talk im always here u can msg me any time ya want  
Date: 9/9/2001 12:19:00 AM  From Authorid: 28336    i have this same exact problem....everyone is always coming to me with their problems but when i have one.....they totally ignore me....they have something else to do or they just "have to go" i have finally stopped listening to the ones who have done that to me......none of which are on this site these are friends i have known for years.....now i have none....except for the ones i have meet on here....what i did was just quit being there for them.....it is kind of lonely at times.....but at least i am not being used anymore.....and if you need someone to listen to you and talk to....i am here......willingly.....it would be my pleasure to be able to help someone with their problems.....someone on here anyways......love to you and be strong.......  
Date: 9/9/2001 1:36:00 AM  From Authorid: 30229    I dont mind being there for people... but, like you say, it SHOULD be a two-way street!!! You can talk to me anytime you want... i am your MUM... Love,  
Date: 9/9/2001 1:41:00 AM  From Authorid: 27051    you can always talk to me!   
Date: 9/9/2001 5:31:00 AM  From Authorid: 27608    Me, too. I feel I am very nice. Sometimes people think
I am so nice I will do anything for them. But, you have
to have limits on being nice to people. Like, if they are
rude to me, I will not do anything.If they are mean to me after
I do something nice for them. I will not do anything at all for that person.
Because they don't care to take consideration for what I do. You are not alone. Be strong
and say how you feel. That is the one of the ways people will know that you don't like being pushed around.
Don't be mad when you say it but, sound serious and be firm. Stick up for you, if you won't who will?
  
Date: 9/9/2001 8:06:00 AM  From Authorid: 35705    me three. I always feel alone too. People tell me the same stuff. they are like ur a reallly kewl person, i would never hurt u or anything,..ur too nice. blah blah blah. I take it to the heart, but its like when i say how i feel and whats bothering its like the story gets out soo fast and it causes even more problems because i feel like the worlds watching me. U get that way too?? come and talk to me if u need someone to ask advice to. Maybe u can write poetry to let out ur problems as well. Keep smiling tho!   
Date: 9/9/2001 2:43:00 PM  From Authorid: 42602    I have the same problem. What I've learned to do is think of how other people have it a lot worse than I do. It helps me to get back on my feet without needing to talk to someone. Just so you know, the reason other people aren't there for you is because they think you're strong. Another thing to try is to let someone see the weaker side of you. This way, they know you're human too. Good Luck!!!  
Date: 9/10/2001 3:38:00 PM  From Authorid: 42747    You should probably join a cult
Date: 9/10/2001 4:02:00 PM  From Authorid: 35185    I used to feel exactly the same way when I was in high school. If you ever need to talk with anyone, were all right here for you.  
Date: 9/11/2001 5:29:00 PM  From Authorid: 31410    Maybe these people are using you. but more than likely they just aren't good at giving advice and they don't want to mess things up worse. next time they come to you ask them about it. i love giving advice so if you EVER need any msg me netime. crazygirl  

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