Date: 9/8/2001 9:08:00 PM
From Authorid: 11348
Aw I'm sorry he has to be like that. I guess he just doesn't want to get involved.   |
Date: 9/8/2001 9:09:00 PM
From Authorid: 40462
sounds like he just can`t accept the things that have happened to you,just give him some time,he may be more supportive later,he should go with you to therapy though it could help him understand how you feel,that will help him understand more ,after a little time has passed see if he`ll go to the threrapy then,he really should,he just can`t understand ,but then again he is a man lol,men r silly,if he want`s you to heal and move forward with you`lls life he will go if not,maybe 16 years together should be 16 more apart,if you ever need to talk i`m here,havanna  |
Date: 9/8/2001 9:11:00 PM
From Authorid: 23101
Well, Chrissy... I am sorry about this, my brother and my stepmom don't get along well and my brother and I heard some thing that she said we shouldn't have and I can't believe we did anyway that's why I try and try to be nice and have fun with her.. I don't want to take the fun and happiness out of my dads life write now, and not ever.. So I think your husbands son is just being obviously trying to be that way and he is a rude mean sack of moldy lunch.. So he doesn't really need to be in the picture, anyways I think that if you love him love him then beg, but if he is not worth it leave him alone! Love,  |
Date: 9/8/2001 9:11:00 PM
From Authorid: 23101
And that he can't except you for you!  Love, |
Date: 9/8/2001 9:12:00 PM
From Authorid: 18870
Awwwww , I am soo sorry. *hugs*. Some people are like that and I hope everything works out.  |
Date: 9/8/2001 9:23:00 PM
From Authorid: 40199
maybe you should rape him and see how he likes it!!!!!  |
Date: 9/8/2001 9:34:00 PM
From Authorid: 26303
I'm so sorry for you. Of course you have issues, and counselling will help. He has issues to, but being a man, probably thinks he can work thru them himself. I truly hope that someone can help him to understand, and that you both pull thru this terrible time. Take care.  |
Date: 9/9/2001 8:16:00 AM
From Authorid: 35705
Maybe he does have issues, and cant stand the way people do things, or the way they represent themselves. Just try and be more willing to do some stuff for him, take some stuff into consideration. Maybe if u change first he will change too. Now i was born one year after u got married, but just last year, i told this guy i liked him and he said im sorry but i dont like u like that that! it was more like i really loved him..its like when i look at it i would have given anything to be with him for the rest of my life. Seriously, but things have changed and i dont care anymore. SInce i rarely see him i dont think about him. but the stupid *** is in one of my classes now and i know my mind is gonna think about him again! but this year isnt like last year! I hate him!!!!!! after all the stuff hes made me believe and then i found out it isnt even true. The stupid loser can eat his own dirt now!! Take care. Love,  |
Date: 9/9/2001 11:19:00 AM
From Authorid: 34758
Oh no... well I don't get it... he can't accept you, but still wants to stay married? that just does not make any sense to me! i can't imagine what you must be thinking.. like you need this! you've been through enough. i'm sorry. if i were you, just try to get through it alone and show him how strong you are. hang in there. **hugz**  |
|
Date: 9/10/2001 3:34:00 PM
From Authorid: 42747
You may have to understand that HE FEELS JUST AS VIOLATED AS YOU DO. Its difficult for most of us to relate to Your pain when it hits so close to home. Take time. Heal, and realize that Your the only one who cannot forgive him. Be fearless |
5484 Category:(General Advice) Created:(9/8/2001 9:04:00 PM)