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Date: 7/26/2001 1:43:00 AM
From Authorid: 10754
It's called " integrity ". It means climbing the hill your heart tells you to climb, regardless of who goes with you or not.  |
Date: 7/26/2001 1:47:00 AM
From Authorid: 23610
Diogenes give very good advice and food for thought. Also...if you think you feel bad now...I can promise you that years from now you will look back on this and realize that you didn't take a stand and you will feel worse. It will stay in your memory years later. I think you know in your heart the right thing to do. It is good that you have a conscience enough to feel the way you do now...stand up and be strong. If you lose friends....well, these people were never really your friend anyway.  |
Date: 7/26/2001 1:57:00 AM
From Authorid: 21203
Like Lady Nyx said, but think of how this girl feels? If you feel this way, how do you think the "victim" feels? Think how she must feel before and after this class, she must see YOU. Just something more tho think about, besides yourself. illumi  |
Date: 7/26/2001 2:13:00 AM
From Authorid: 36352
Remember: the harm you do to others comes back to you three folds. It's karma my dear. You think you feel bad now. What if she killed herself from all the stress in her life or came to school and started spraying bullets. Not that what you and your friends do give her the right to, but kids kill others and themselves for these reasons all the time? I was picked on in school. The preps use to throw pencils and stuff at me. I came to school to get away from a very abusive home life only to be abused by my peers. I was very stressed and very suicidal and all i needed was a friend just one friend and it would have all been okay. Your life will never mean as much as it does when you make a difference in the life of another. Your a big girl who is responsible for you and you alone. Grow up! Your so called friends who act this way will most likely turn on you eventually anyway, it may as well be for a good cause. Chances are if you take a stand others will follow, lifes kinda funny that way. And even if they don't who needs them anyway. Besides you might find a true good hearted friend in this girl if you only put forth the effort. Love, AngelBelle  |
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Date: 7/26/2001 2:17:00 AM
From Authorid: 36352
P.S when your tortured by others you never forget. I ended up dropping out of school from all the hell i went through. And to this day i remember the names and faces of those who teased me most. AngelBelle |
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Date: 7/26/2001 2:19:00 AM
From Authorid: 36352
also did you know it is against the law to treat someone this way? She can press charges on you and your friends. She could even sue you for emotional damages in most states. A.B |
Date: 7/26/2001 2:21:00 AM
From Authorid: 30229
I cannot believe that you would even WANT friends that are so cruel and abusive!!! I feel the same way that everyone in this post does... This is a SAD situation and I totally feel for this girl... I have NO compassion for ABUSERS!!! And that is what you all are doing... you are abusing this girl and virtually ruining her life. Stand strong, HELP this poor young lady, and you will NEVER regret... the test of TRUE popularity is doing the RIGHT thing... and it is also integrity like the Author above said... Let us know the outcome of this... please...  |
Date: 7/26/2001 2:23:00 AM
From Authorid: 23129
a few words of advice: they're not really your friends if they don't like you for who you are. do what you know is right. you just might set up a group of the right friends that make you even more popular than you already are. trust me, i've been there. good luck!!!!!!  |
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Date: 7/26/2001 2:47:00 AM
From Authorid: 36352
Gails right about true popularity. My little sister is very popular and one of the things her friends like so much is how strong minded she is. Stop whining and STAND STRONG as a LEADER! Quit being a weak little follower. Also as i said earlier i was bullied. I got to tired of it one day and i picked the biggest one of the bunch and stomped the crap out of her. She was made fun of till her black eye went away, but she never bothered me again. Gee, i sure hope you don't get your arse kicked. AngelBelle |
Date: 7/26/2001 3:02:00 AM
From Authorid: 24404
you and your friends will get yours eventually...after all...you get what you put in life and people get what they deserve...even the little *popular* ones, aren't above what goes around comes around...so, you tell us...should you stop or slow down!   |
Date: 7/26/2001 3:19:00 AM
From Authorid: 8374
I just hate and despise people who do this to other people..i think your friends are not real friends....they should really realize how the victim is feeling...i just hope that one day in this whole world the "popular" people and the "losers" or whatever..switch shoes so the losers can make the popular people realize that this does hurt..and i just hate it because all of this does lead into depression at some cases..and at other cases it might lead into another columbine..which i just hate seeing..i just hate it when people pick at me at school just because i don't talk as much or that i'm not popular which i'm not and i don't want to be because popular people who pick on peeps who aren't popular aren't real people..they're monsters..in my point of view...in your case I think you should lose the friends...you can always get new friends..and maybe these new friends won't be like your old friends  |
Date: 7/26/2001 3:50:00 AM
From Authorid: 36766
I think you should feel bad .. how would you feel if the tables were turned? how would you like it if bottles were being thrown at your head? wouldnt like it very much would ya? nope prolly not .. oh big deal, your friends would turn on you .. if they do that then they're not real friends are they? do you even know the girl? or is she just someone you "think" is annoying? I'm sure if you got to know her, like sit down and have a conversation w/ her, she is prolly some really nice person!!!!!  |
Date: 7/26/2001 4:02:00 AM
From Authorid: 177
Is she pretty?  |
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Date: 7/26/2001 4:04:00 AM
From Authorid: 177
...but seriously...remember Karma. This is the law of cause and effect: as you do unto others, so others shall do unto you. Remember, always, THE GOLDEN RULE. |
Date: 7/26/2001 4:15:00 AM
From Authorid: 12709
YOU do what's right. Don't worry about what your friends think. If they don't want to stop, then that is THEIR problem, not yours. They don't sound like decent people, and I really don't think you should be mean to this girl just because they are. Remember that she has feelings too, and this is why "popular" girls are often disliked. You sound like a good person, please don't let your friends influence you. Good luck. =)  |
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Date: 7/26/2001 4:21:00 AM
From Authorid: 12709
And also remember that no one is higher or lower than other people. She has every right to be on this earth as you and your friends. If you don't like her, that's fine, but that's no excuse to bully her. Let me tell YOU something honey, if I was mean to everyone that I didn't like, you'd see a lot of people with dents in their heads from bottles. But no, everyone deserves respect. Treat all people the way YOU would like to be treated. As I said before, you sound like a pretty good person, so listen to your conscience. =) |
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Date: 7/26/2001 6:08:00 AM
From Authorid: 37994
Stop you do what you want to do don't let your friends make that decision.  |
Date: 7/26/2001 6:31:00 AM
From Authorid: 31837
Obviously these people aren't your friends. What are you more conserned about? Being popular? Or having a TRUE friend around... Friendship is QUALITY! Not QUANTITY! You'd be better off befriending the 'loser girl'.... if you wanna ask me, she's not the loser in THIS situation... ~t_dub~  |
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Date: 7/26/2001 6:41:00 AM
From Authorid: 31837
WOW! About 15 out of 17 people agree... your friends are the losers! Not that poor girl! I had a lot of friends in high school. Let me tell you this, though. I stood up to every one. Yes, there were a few people that we picked on..i.e the smokers, but all we did was cough when they walked by, NOT throw BOTTLES AT THEIR HEADS! Anyway, you know how many of those people are in contact with me, now? NONE!!!!! Those loser friends of yours aren't going to be there forever. I have a friend of 14 yrs. She is a true friend. She was even there for me when I was 2000 miles away... can you say the same about your loser friends? You are WAY better off without them! Stand up to them, girl!!~t_dub~ |
Date: 7/26/2001 9:43:00 AM
From Authorid: 31673
I highly doubt that girl is the "biggest loser this world has ever seen." That's a pretty harsh statement. I think the "losers" are the ones who are so insecure that they have to degrade, humiliate, abuse and injure others to make themselves feel important - why would you want to associate with people like that? When you grow up, you learn that there's no such thing as "popular". That's just a high school fantasy world created out of fear and insecurity. We all have strengths and weaknesses and we all struggle and triumph; and through it all we develop character. Believe me, being a person of high moral character is an invaluable asset that will bring you success and happiness in your life! Learn now the importance of good character; learn to be a friend to everyone. I agree with what has already been said. What goes around comes around. Be strong, stand up, and be a leader. That will win you far more love, respect and acceptance than being a bully ever will!  |
Date: 7/26/2001 10:01:00 AM
From Authorid: 1432
Oh yeah.. makes me wish I was in school NOT.. I hate bullies and people to do that to other kids grrrr.. I'd ditch my friends thats for sure.. I'd rather be a loner than do that crud..  |
Date: 7/26/2001 4:08:00 PM
From Authorid: 38406
Don't be there friends. If you feel bad which you do and you wish your friends would stop than they are not the type for you. Why do people care about being popular? I am still trying to get that. Yeah she might be annonying every school has one of those I have a bunch but who cares. That is why we have all these shooting in our school because bullies pick on the kids who are nice, who can be annonying, who leaves kids alone sometimes. I am not saying you are a bully but it would be nice to stop picking on her. Yes, she will be annonying but maybe if you get to know her she will try out to be more your type. You never know. Be a friend! YankeesGirl17  |
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Date: 7/26/2001 10:38:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 35447
ok they are like the nicest friends i could ask 4 to me and i am NOT leaving them , and i stood up for her today and I was dissed!!!! totally unfair!!! , i thought being nice 2 her would pay off not make me feel bad  |
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Date: 7/26/2001 11:00:00 PM
From Authorid: 23610
It's hard to stand up against the crowd for what is right. They will not understand or accept what you are saying right away. It just doesn't work that way. But...hey...at least you took a first step....don't back away now. Noone said it would be easy. Doing the right thing quite often is not the easy way....but in the end you will be the better person for it. |
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Date: 7/27/2001 4:49:00 AM
From Authorid: 12709
Well, yeah, they are nice to YOU. But in general, they are NOT nice. And no, it's NOT fair that you were "dissed" by them when you stood up for this girl. But think about how this girl felt... she was probably HAPPY that you cared enough. PLEASE, PLEASE stop worrying about what they think. This poor girl DOES NOT DESERVE IT!! LEAVE HER ALONE!!!! PLEASE!!! I know what it's like to be teased. I was teased in first grade, and 10 years later I'm still scarred from it. PLEASE, PLEASE leave this poor girl ALONE!! |
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Date: 7/27/2001 4:52:00 AM
From Authorid: 12709
Ever hear the saying: "What is popular is not always right, and what is right is not always popular" ? Anyways, you are a good person for doing the right thing. Please don't let your "friends" stop you. Maybe you should talk to them. If they are TRUE FRIENDS, they will accept your decision. Stop being like a sheep and doing everything they do. Everyone is unique, and if they can't accept you for who you are, then they don't really care about you. |
Date: 7/27/2001 5:50:00 AM
From Authorid: 24924
I'm sorry but it is YOU and your so called "friends" who are the LOSERS here. You have no integrity, NO spine, and you all are in for one big rude awakening some day, when you are no longer "popular", and your old and alone, or when YOU need someone, and your so called "friends" are no where to be found. Happens all the time, kiddo. Stop being so shallow! GROW UP! IF you were my kid, and I found out you were doing those nasty things to another, YOU wouldn't be able to to go anywhere, do anything UNTIL you learned a good lesson or two! You'd be GROUNDED for a year! Stop it!  |
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Date: 7/27/2001 2:09:00 PM
From Authorid: 13324
im very ashamed that ANYONE would treat another human being this way.THIS BREAKS MY HEART!! No friends are worth this.I dont think much of people like this.They ARE NOT POPULAR IN MY EYES!! I wouldnt even want your type around me.I would much rather be with the girl who is being made fun of.SHAME ON YOU! Ill probably get in trouble for writing this but i have never been SO ANGRY LIKE THIS EVER!!!SORRY ADMIN.You can delete this if you have to but i think [icking on others just for the way they look or the way they act is horrifying and it makes me veRY VERY ANGRY! namnik  |
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Date: 7/27/2001 2:10:00 PM
From Authorid: 13324
It should be getting you down!namnik |
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Date: 7/27/2001 2:18:00 PM
From Authorid: 13324
IF YOU WERE MY CHILD I WOULD TAKE YOU TO EACH OF THESE GILRS HOMES AND TELL THEIR PARENTS.I WOULD THEN TAKE YOU TO THIS GILRS HOUSE AND TELL HER PARENTS WHAT YOU DID,APOLIGISE TO HER THEN YOU WOULD GO HOME AND NOT ONLY BE GROUNDED YOU WOULD GET THE SPANKING OF YOUR LIFE.WHAT A STUPID QUESTION TO ASK.tHATS WHATS THE TROUBLE WITH THIS WORLD TODAY. TREAT OTHERS AS YOU WOULD WANT THEM TO TREAT YOU IS THIS HOW YOU WOULD WANT TO BE TREATED!NO WONDER CHILDREN ARE SHOOTING EACHOTHER AT SCHOOL.YOU BETTER WATCH OUT AND HOPE SHE DOESNT TAKE REVENGE.NAMNIK |
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Date: 7/27/2001 2:34:00 PM
From Authorid: 13324
OK ive calmed down now.The reason i feel this way is because i had a freind that was treated this way.He ended up commiting suicide.he felt like he was nothing because thats the way people made him feel.I got in a fist fight with a guy who was picking on him.im 5'3 and 125lbs but i cant stand for people to pick on thers.I wish i had my friend back.namnik |
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Date: 7/27/2001 3:59:00 PM
From Authorid: 24924
NO, author, YOU should get a CLUE! You do know what a clue IS? There's lots of them here, sweetie. Appears that YOU have a very short attention span. |
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Date: 7/27/2001 6:57:00 PM
From Authorid: 12709
Just please tell me you won't hurt this girl anymore. If you don't like her, just ignore her at least, or be polite to her if you HAVE to talk to her. But please don't be mean to her. She really doesn't deserve it. Who knows? Maybe you would like her if you tried getting to know her? Just a suggestion. =\ =) |
Date: 9/20/2001 8:23:00 AM
From Authorid: 29928
Um let's see ur one of the "popular girls"" Huh? Well I can tell you for a fact that all the so called popular girls that I went o school with are now the ones that are divorced 5 or 6 times, do drugs, etc. They are they now the big time losers....is it worth it? And what you are doing to this girl will destroy her for life, can you live with that the rest of your life???? Trust me it will come back to haunt you in a MAJOR way! You need to figure out what is really important in life..your so called popularity or a human being's life before it is too late...I do NOT want to be reading about you in the news paper..you better heed these words that you have been given!!!  |
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