Date: 6/14/2001 6:26:00 PM
From Authorid: 18364
Oh man, I am in a situation like that now. I love him so much, but there is nothing I can do about it. He just seems like he does not care. And while I feel he is the one, he thinks I am not |
Date: 6/14/2001 6:27:00 PM
From Authorid: 20296
it means the person really wasn't the one...in this lifetime anyways. sometimes we feel a connection, however due to...whatever, the feeling is just not mutual or "happening for the two of you. that shouldnt mean that you cant be friends, it means that she is not the one...or he does THIS make sense???? |
Date: 6/14/2001 6:32:00 PM
From Authorid: 25828
it means you do without them - unless you can't tell who is the one - i've always known who was the one for me ..also might mean you will get a chance in the future with that one..just have to be patient. |
Date: 6/14/2001 6:32:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 36487
18364 - I here ya, hang in there tho!! Cblossom, yeah, it makes sense. I am just not sure if I agree with it or not. Thanks for the thoughts!! --Mr DJ |
Date: 6/14/2001 6:36:00 PM
From Authorid: 20296
MR DJ...I have read what you have previously written about your situation. I am sorry for you. I am the other person in my own story. I have a guy...and yes, we are spiritualy connected (in both our minds) however he wants more then friendship. I just don't feel it I feel bad, but isnt it worse to pretend. the sad thing is...he says he cant handle just being my friend it is sad |
Date: 6/14/2001 6:41:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 36487
cblossom, Yes it is sooooo much worse to pretend or lie to "save" the other persons feelings. You did the right thing by telling him the truth. And i think its his lose for not being "able" to have you as a freind. Thats not the way to go -- Mr DJ |
Date: 6/14/2001 6:43:00 PM
From Authorid: 20296
thanks dj *huGz* I was really sad that we couldn't still be friends I liked him...but just not the way he liked me..... |
Date: 6/14/2001 7:00:00 PM
From Authorid: 30786
Hmm, I think there is more than one lid for every pot, so if one doesn't work out, then there's still someone out there who would make you happy. Also, if a relationship was meant to happen, it will happen, so I wouldn't worry about it |