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Date: 6/13/2001 9:39:00 PM
From Authorid: 16845
honey please talk to your doctor, this is depression. I don't think your sister would want you to leave this earth before you really had to. I'm sure she watches over you constantly. Talk to your doctor. ((((Hugs))))  |
Date: 6/13/2001 9:40:00 PM
From Authorid: 25627
I would never be so foolish as to offer advice with a situation as serious as this. You need to seek professional help. There are some great doctors out there that can and will help you get through this no matter how long it may last. I can, and will, offer you prayers and a shoulder if you need to vent. Love and peace  |
Date: 6/13/2001 10:38:00 PM
From Authorid: 8941
See a doctor as soon as possible, and maybe find a support group. God Bless.  |
Date: 6/13/2001 10:55:00 PM
From Authorid: 20956
You poor thing! I have never been in such a situation so i cant dream of helping you, but PLEASE find someone who can. Trust there are people out there that can help you. I dont think that its your time to die, despite what you might want. Do you really think that your sister would want for you to end your life? I doubt it. Try to enjoy and appreciate life for what it is....because time will fly by and you will be with her before you know it. Please love after yourself and think of the people that NEED you on this earth. Best of luck, luv  |
Date: 6/13/2001 11:01:00 PM
From Authorid: 17789
Midyte, I know how you feel. I have a sister too, she's the only sibling I have, though we don't talk much, have fights a lot, have argument a lot over small things like material possession, and of course pride, but deep down inside I know that I love her, because she is the only sister I have, and she's part of me, and I would be equally devastated if I were to lose her, what's more say you, sweetie? Death is not the ending, like most people have said, and I believe in life after death. Our engery can't be put in a end, it will only evolve into another form of energy, if we pay too much attention to our sorrow or other negative feelings in the form of engery, we will not be able to feel the spirit. If too much fear, worries, sorrow, saddness, helplessness were accumulated inside our heart, it will transform into negative engery, and it will wear you out, break you down. So dance it out, cry it out, shout it out, sing it out from your inner-self, till you have no frustrations and other negative engery left in you. Life is very precious, it's a gift from our creator- God. Everyone dies, you, me, friends, lovers, family. If not the lifespan that matters, sweetie, it's how you leave a mark behind. Life is very precious, it's the only life that we have, it's very vunerable, and our lights may flicker out anytime. You have many people who love you, Midyte, and I can tell that your husband loves you very much, he will be devastated to see you in this state of being, torturing yourself physically and mentally. Life I said, humans don''t really die, dying is a natural process, it is a transformation. What's dying is only the physical body, but NEVER the spirit. If you allow to much sadness and negative engery to engulf over you, you will not be able feel the spirit of life around you, SEE instead of LOOK, FEEL instead of TOUCH! Look at your hubby, look into his eyes, and that's where you can find love. You should not be empty! Life just goes on like that, do not allow a 'natural process' to hinder the wonders of life! Life is a precious opportunity given to us, to live life to our own will, to love life, to discover life, to be our own scriptwriters. Life is a stage, with exits and entrance, men and women merely players, but one has many roles to play. But again!! We're the scriptwriters of our life! I have read a book, which teaches us how to find the strength to get over the death of our love one, and from there gain a sight beyond mortals. I don't know if it works for you, but trust me, give a try. Take a sit with your hubby, cradle him in your arms. Take out a pen and a papar, write a letter to your sister, don't stop till you're empty. Write anything, the things you had shared with your sister, how you both quarrel over small stuff, fights, arguments, the dialodge you both had, the memories, how you both grew up. Did she love you? Touch you? Know you? Inspire you? Did she have time for you? Take care of you? Treat you with respect and love? Talk to your hubby about it, don't stop till you're empty. Revive the memories, rake it up, tell your husband about it, Cry together, laugh together. Till you're empty, stop. Burn the letter. I know you're going a tough time, but remember death is not the ending, live your life up to the fullest, enjoy life with the one you love. This is what I can give to you, the rest you it, it's all on you. Remember pray to God, pray whole heartedly, don't allow the tears to drain you down. Life is very precious, you have a whole lot more to go in life, and a whole lot more to discover, sweetie. God will help those who knock on him sincerely. With all of my love,  |
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Date: 6/14/2001 6:25:00 AM
From Authorid: 31077
I didnt know what to say as I hear your pain and wish I was able to help yet this is bigger then me and well I looked at your profile and other posts and see you have a post where you said you was going for 6 months to get help...what became of that? I sure hope you dont put your family threw a loss such as this ..I mean if you feel so bad living with how hard it is knowing your sister died as she did how do you think your family will feel knowing you chose to end your own life ? Its sad I know that life ended for someone you love so strong and well please dont let life or love end there..You said you have a husband well picture what he must be going threw knowing he cant make you enjoy your life with him and kids if you have any as much as your sisters death has you searching for death..Thats got to be so hard for him to be going threw knowing he must love you alot to stand by you ...Please look into a different person for help if you didnt like the place you was going to attend or did attend??? I just hate to think of you giving up on what some would die to have and you got it!!! Im here should you need someone to talk to but please dont give up family is important I know it hurts but dont make others think of your death when they think of your sister ..I mean memories is all we can leave behind and they play a role in others choices sometimes so please think of how this could effect others around you ok....Your hurting but you need help in how to handle all these feelings..I refuse to say bye I will close with take care ..please ~Family Matters~  |
Date: 6/14/2001 9:23:00 AM
From Authorid: 35705
Try and remember the good things about her and not how she died or whatever. She must have been an awesome person, thats why ur feeling so low. Dont Remind urself that she has done all that god has asked her to do and her job is over. U need to finish urs and when time comes u will go where ur sister is. *livingdeadgirl*  |
Date: 6/14/2001 6:53:00 PM
From Authorid: 30786
GO TO THERAPY, OR A HOSPITAL NOW!!! you sound like you are in serious trouble but you don't need to be. Get help, don't be afraid of asking for it. It's alot better than killing yourself  |
Date: 6/15/2001 9:37:00 AM
From Authorid: 15976
Like the others before me have said, YOU REALLY NEED TO SEEK PROFESSIONAL HELP!!! Killing your self is not going to make it nebetter, your such a sweet person, and its so sad to hear that you are hurting yourself, We Care here at USM and we Do love you!!! Take Care God Bless and Love Alwayz,  |
Date: 7/12/2001 2:30:00 AM
From Authorid: 30229
Yes, MidnyteLove, we DO care!!! Your sister would want you to hang on, and get help. That is the BEST thing for you to do is get professional help like the others before me said... I cant add anything to that, I can only offer you my support, and let you know that if you need someone to talk to, message me... Good Luck, and God Bless you!!!! *huggggsssss*...  |
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Date: 7/12/2001 2:31:00 AM
From Authorid: 30229
How come the other comments here on this page is much older than my new one?? hmmmmmmmm...... |
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