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Date: 6/13/2001 8:10:00 PM
From Authorid: 30786
I don't think you "choose" who you'll love...it just happens naturally and you can't force it  |
Date: 6/13/2001 8:11:00 PM
From Authorid: 10442
no i don't think it works that way. It just happens..My boyfriend and I are extremely close now and at the beginnign of the year we wanted NOTHING to do with eachother. It just happens I guess. Roger is my complete opposite but we bring out the bet in eachother. GREAT QUESTION AND IT WASN'T THAT HARD...REALLY!!  |
Date: 6/13/2001 8:12:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 7152
You choose who to like and who not too, you choose who to date and who not too. Or do you?  |
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Date: 6/13/2001 8:13:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 7152
10442, I understand that. |
Date: 6/13/2001 8:14:00 PM
From Authorid: 36487
You can choose to or not to like someone, but you cant choose to love someone. loving someone comes from the heart, likeing someone comes from your heart. And anyone who has been in love knows that it doesnt come from the head its something you feel from the heart. You cant choose to love someone, it just happens-- Mr DJ  |
Date: 6/13/2001 8:15:00 PM
From Authorid: 28633
Ummm I you don't choose who you want to go out with or who you like. It just happens. ~*~*~*~Sweetgirl15~*~*~*~  |
Date: 6/13/2001 8:16:00 PM
From Authorid: 1574
I personally belive we are all pre destined. When we are born, there is already someone whom you're going to share the rest of your life with. The datin process is just a way to learn to deal with what is in store for you. That's why we always hear stories about love at first site. "The what if" factor comes into play. For some, they'll look at someone and know that, that one individual is the person they want to spend the rest of their life with, for others, like myself, we wait for that moment when we accidently meet that special someone. 90% of the time this happens to people who are busy or are in situations beyond their control...lol...that's my opinion anyways...lol some wait a lifetime and never meet that person, because they're just too affraid to look beyond their own surroundings. Anyway...that's what I belive anyways...lol  |
Date: 6/13/2001 8:17:00 PM
From Authorid: 11348
Hmm good question. I don't think you do choose who to fall in love with. I think it's fate, meant to happen.  |
Date: 6/13/2001 8:18:00 PM
From Authorid: 16612
Of course you choose who you love.No one can choose but you.  |
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Date: 6/13/2001 8:20:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 7152
16612, wisdom speaks! lol |
Date: 6/13/2001 8:35:00 PM
From Authorid: 20296
well currently...there is this guy I really like as a friend. he likes me for more and it is impossible (sadly) to be his friend and not his "love"...I don't know. I can't choose to feel something that is NOT there....can i???? and do I want to???  |
Date: 6/13/2001 8:36:00 PM
From Authorid: 12823
Oh goodness I wish you could! That way no one would ever get hurt.  |
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Date: 6/13/2001 8:42:00 PM
From Authorid: 36487
Winner of the debate,, MR DJ!!! yeah!!! hehehe j/k -- Mr DJ |
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Date: 6/13/2001 8:45:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 7152
hmm mr.dj don't count your cookies till your done baking them! (didnt your mommy every tell you that?) |
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Date: 6/13/2001 8:52:00 PM
From Authorid: 36487
Girl, my cookies are counted and put in the jar already!! haha -- Mr DJ |
Date: 6/13/2001 8:55:00 PM
From Authorid: 20956
Nope, i dont think that you can. You fall for who you fall for, if that makes any sense. It explains why i always for the complete @rseh*les but brush off the sweeties! *sigh* Maybe one day i'll learn   |
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Date: 6/13/2001 9:03:00 PM
From Authorid: 36487
seeeee, even sun angel agrees with me!!! hehe-- Mr DJ |
Date: 6/13/2001 9:44:00 PM
From Authorid: 3648
I don't believe you can really pick who to fall in love with....it comes from the heart, my hubby said the moment he looked into my eyes he fell deep in love with me....he knew from that second I was the one.....it took me a while but once I did, I realized I had no real control of it, it came from deep within my heart...I do think there's a soulmate for each of us, sometimes it just takes us a while to find them.  |
Date: 6/13/2001 11:49:00 PM
From Authorid: 8374
i think that you can't pick who you fall in love with..everybody is destined to be with somebody and i know that they will meet one day if they are destined to be together forever and i just think that fate can bring me to the person who i will spend the rest of my life with and i won't let my brain choose who my partner will be...fate will   |
Date: 6/14/2001 12:11:00 AM
From Authorid: 18406
Hmmmmm.... Thats a really good question. I'd have to say though that we don't choose. Simply because there is one particular guy who is my best freind and it's like that song "He's everything you want, he's everything you need, he's everything inside of you that you wish you could be. He says all the right things at exactly the right times, but he means nothing to you and you don't know why." I know I could love him but it's like he means nothing to me in that respect. He's just my best freind. Understand?  |
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Date: 6/14/2001 12:12:00 AM
From Authorid: 18406
Plus I beleive God has a plan for all of us. And there is that perfect someone for us. So I think he chooses for us. |
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Date: 6/14/2001 9:36:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 7152
lol, this debate has no end! |
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Date: 6/14/2001 12:57:00 PM
From Authorid: 30996
not me, I dont choose to fall in love, I choose who I date, and if love happens in my heart, than it happens. good question. Speed  |
Date: 6/14/2001 5:26:00 PM
From Authorid: 27118
Not liking the person isn't something you choose, it just is. You can't help it if you don't like someone. Just like you can't help it if you do. So no you can not choose who you fall in love with. SPEEDRACER  |
Date: 6/14/2001 6:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 11091
I believe we "fall in love" to easily. I believe you don't choose who you "fall in love" with, but I believe we completley choose who we love. "Falling in love" is animal instinct and magnetism. Love is cherished feelings from the heart that grow with time and are forever enduring. With out working and choosing to love someone you won't you may desire them, but not love them.  |
Date: 6/14/2001 10:38:00 PM
From Authorid: 31783
No, I don't think you choose who you love/like. There is one person I know who I really wish I didn't love. I do though, can't help it. I tried to love someone else and just couldn't. I can choose to avoid the person I love, and choose to stay with the person I don't love. But- as of yet, I haven't been able to choose which one to love and it work. If you know how, just share the secret. ~Jetamio~  |
Date: 3/24/2002 3:48:00 PM
From Authorid: 16376
i believe you just end up with who you are destined to be with...but then i wonder why all these people are getting divorced LOL  |
Date: 4/20/2002 5:54:00 PM
From Authorid: 21435
Hello Blue Girl. I think that falling in love is easy. Getting love in return is where I always ran into problems. Good thought-provoking question..Write on....  |
Date: 12/8/2004 2:27:00 AM
From Authorid: 35160
no, i dont think you can choose who you fall in love with.  |
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