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Date: 6/13/2001 6:31:00 PM
From Authorid: 31048
Oh my gosh, that is terrible. I know how you feel, I've never been cheated on but I know lots of guys who truly care about their girlfriends, but totally lose their heads when they're drunk. I'm sure he cares about you a lot and you shouldn't feel stupid for wanting him back. My advice is, if you really care about this guy tell him, don't let him get away or you'll regret it for the rest of your life! *~blondie~*  |
Date: 6/13/2001 6:39:00 PM
From Authorid: 28848
Run and don't look back. He drinks until he is out of control, not a good thing. And what makes you think that he won't get drunk again and do the same thing? If he is telling you that he's no good, then take his advice, you can do better.  |
Date: 6/13/2001 6:48:00 PM
From Authorid: 33925
I grew up hearing a saying.."what you do when you are drunk is what you really want to do when you are sober, but havent got the nerve" This is something that I truly believe..Hon I know that as much as you care for him..to go back to him will only make things worse for you in the long run..#1 he will lose respect for you for taking him back, knowing that there is a possiblity of it happening again. #2 You will also lose respect for yourself..you will be following your heart instead of your head and will be setting yourself up for further heartbreak..trust me..I have been there. I know right now everything looks so bleek but it will get easier I promise, and you can live with self respect....good luck hon! xoxo Ladyluck  |
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Date: 6/13/2001 6:48:00 PM
From Authorid: 28633
Awwwww, I am really sorry to hear this. I know what you are going through. This happen to me a few months ago and I did the same thing that you are right now. Here is what I did ~ My ex dump me for some other girl. Then I went out with my best guy friend. Everything was going so good. Until one night when we both went out to a party. There he got drunk and I did not drink that night. So his mind shut down. He cheated on me with one of his best girl friend. I mean she was alright. So we just said to each other that it was over. A couple days last everyone was coming up to me and saying that we should be together. I go well she is all over him still. They go I know but you can get him a lot faster then what she can. Well, I couple weeks later. I told my self that I had to tell him how much I like him and care for him before he left. I go it his house. He was so happy to see me there. I go well it was a mistake but still I don't think it will happen again. I told him to his face how much I like him. He just busted out crying. He goes well I love you a lot and I want to know if we can try this again. I said sure. Now here we are. We have been together for 3 months now. Everthing is going like it was before all that happen. So I think you should talk to him and I am sure you guys will go back out after you talk to him. I hope this help you out a lil. If you want to know more what happen. Just im me then or whatever! Well, hope everything goes good. Good luck! Take care. Peace! ~*~*~*~Sweetgirl15~*~*~*~  |
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Date: 6/13/2001 7:00:00 PM
From Authorid: 26261
HI I BEIEVE WHAT THE LADYLUCK WROTE BEFORE ME PLEASE DUMP THAT ZERO AND FIND A HERO SWEETY .YOU DIDNT SAY HOW OLD YOU ARE.I AM 40 AND I FINALLY FOUND MY TRUE LOVE HE TREATS ME REAL GOOD WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER 2 YRS AND HE IS STILL GREAT.I HAVE SOME STORY IN HERE PLEASE CHECK EM OUT OK THEY TELL YOU ALOT ABOUT ME ,GOOD LUCK AT WHAT EVER YOU DECIDE ...GINA |
Date: 6/13/2001 7:24:00 PM
From Authorid: 34775
Real love is the most comfortable feeling ever. Real love is never having to worry about any of this kind of crap. Real love is never having to worry, period. Real love is never having a doubt.. This is not worth the struggle although you may think so right now. I say move on. Being drunk is NEVER an excuse for anything. People "lose their head" and drive when they are drunk..they hit people and kill people and hurt people.It is not excusable just because they are drunk, and neither is sleeping with someone and hurting you in the process. I have been married for almost two years now and went with my husband for 4 before we got married. There is someone out there for everyone..this guy is not him for you. Move on and hold your head up.~shebasunshine  |
| Date: 6/13/2001 8:21:00 PM From Authorid: 32705 Dude, you are so much better than this Steph chick. Justin may be hot, have a hot car, and have treated you well, but he's a spoiled little rich boy and everyone knows it. He's nothing if he doesn't have you, and he is going to regret doing this big time when he realizes you're the best thing he ever had. Love ya babe |
Date: 6/13/2001 9:49:00 PM
From Authorid: 16877
goknock at his door on the day when he is about to move house. Take a walk with him and tell him everything!! i can still see he is much in love with you, give him a chance!!!  Luv,  |
Date: 6/14/2001 9:34:00 PM
From Authorid: 30312
No matter how much we convince ourselves we can forgive someone for cheating, we cant. It stays deep down inside and makes everything worse. I would write a letter, then burn it. Forgive him in the letter, tell him exactly what you are feeling. Then take it outside and burn it. It will almost be like you mailed it or gave it to him. Then I would get on with my life. Any man who cannot appreciate you and keep his thing in his pants because he loves you, dont deserve you. I am sorry this happened to you. But there is one true soulmate out there for everyone. You may feel it is him but it probably isnt. Someone who truly loves you-no matter what they do to alter their state of mind-would not do that to you. Good luck and I hope you are strong about this and get on with your life. ~DaisyDolly~  |
Date: 6/17/2001 12:31:00 AM
From Authorid: 23367
Well, sometimes lines like im no good for you, or not good enough for you are to get you feeling sorry for them. I mean, he was intoxicated, but that really doesnt give him the right to do that. it was his fault in all honesty that he even endured that much alcohol. and say that ya'll do end up gettin back with eachother, what will happen everytime that he has a little too much to drink. is he gonna sleep with the first woman that happens to offer something? hon, you are not his babysitter. you should be with a guy that you dont have to babysit. you would babysit him everytime ya'll went out for a drink or something. and in the end you would still feel insecure about this whole situation. this happened for a reason and all will fall into place. they say to go with your heart instead of your head, but in this case, use a little of both. GOD BLess  |
| Date: 6/18/2001 1:40:00 PM From Authorid: 34332 Well,being drunk really isn't an excuse for cheating,alcohol does lower your inhibition's,but you still know,what your doing,and he knew he was sleeping with the wrong person. Don't let him use the alcohol as an excuse. Now he is moving an hour away,and are you really going to be able to trust him then? Try to get over this guy,I don't feel that he is worth it. I have the feeling you are pretty young,and this feel's like the end of the world,but it's not!!Trust me on this,okay? |
| Date: 6/19/2001 10:55:00 AM From Authorid: 35039 if i were you i wouldn't even give this guy a second chance that would never cross my mind...he did what he did cause he wanted to drinking is no excuse...you deserve much better than that and he obviously wasn't thinking with the right organ Q! |
| Date: 6/19/2001 10:55:00 AM From Authorid: 35039 if i were you i wouldn't even give this guy a second chance that would never cross my mind...he did what he did cause he wanted to drinking is no excuse...you deserve much better than that and he obviously wasn't thinking with the right organ ! |
| Date: 6/20/2001 12:38:00 AM From Authorid: 37041 tell him what u said here... he wont think ur desperate... i bet hell understand... people make mistakes although this wasnt much of a mistake since he was drunk... maybe that girl set him up or somethin... just go with ur heart... good luck |
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Date: 6/24/2002 8:30:00 PM
From Authorid: 55789
I think you should let him know how you feel! ((huggs)) Amanda  |
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