Date: 5/11/2001 6:17:00 PM
From Authorid: 30081
haha you go girl ! but 40 buck s thats a bit too much!! 20 would have been good .i dont blame ya you just need to find a different kind of man ~ki††ee~  |
Date: 5/11/2001 6:17:00 PM
From Authorid: 13969
Di, don't give up so easily. I know you've just had a few bad times with guys, but when you find the perfect one it won't matter. You'll know. You'll be so happy. Just wait for Jesus to send you the right one and don't let it be your main focus in life. Remember, a mate is all about sharing life with. There's a man out there for you, and you'll find him when the time is right. Hope I made you feel better!
Love, Sandghost  |
Date: 5/11/2001 6:18:00 PM
From Authorid: 21867
Yo Diana,
I really think you did the right thing here...in fact, if I was there I'd stand and applaud you as you tore this guy up! Well done for you! What a complete L-O-S-E-R that guy was...I do hope you have more luck with guys in the future though. I guess the benefit of meeting guys like this is you start to recognise them a bit quicker so have a better chance of developing a 'Loser Radar' and can hopefully spot them in the distance and avoid their flightpath. Good luck. Peace,  |
Date: 5/11/2001 6:22:00 PM
From Authorid: 28633
Hi this is sweetgirl15 friend. I am in my 20's. I know how you feel about this. A guy did this to me. But anyways, I don't think you were being mean. You were just telling him how you feel. I mean you have listen to him talk about it for an hour. I think you would get sick and tired of that. I would think he would shut up. But he didn't. I did the same thing that you did, but I listen to the guy for 2 hours. That was not fun. I don't know what else I would have done. I think there is nothing else us girls could do, but say that. I would not get up in leave because he I think they could keep coming abck to us and they would not get the hint. So I would just told him before I left. Well, I hope this help a little. Take care and I hope a guy that you can have a fun time with. Peace. ~*~*~*~Sweetgirl15~*~*~*~  |
Date: 5/11/2001 6:25:00 PM
From Authorid: 30566
Your story is great. I would find someone else  |
Date: 5/11/2001 6:25:00 PM
From Authorid: 23610
LMAO! Diana....how did you even last an hour? There are lots of good men out there...but you certainly don't need a whiney one. I think you did the right thing....he'll probably think twice before whining so much on a date again. (If he has one.) I believe everything happens for a reason...so maybe you were there to help teach this guy that he needs to reevaluate his social skills and how he treats others. Don't give up yet....you'll find a good one eventually. -Lady Nyx  |
Date: 5/11/2001 6:31:00 PM
From Authorid: 32806
Applauds, you go there girl, there are better men than him around, hope your luck changes.  Sagi 10  |
Date: 5/11/2001 6:31:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21376
LOL thanks guys I think my loser radar is now working.$40. was to much to give and the jerk probably kept the change but I could have lost it worse! Good thing I met him there and had my own car. All I kept thinking was (how am I going to get out of this one.) Honestly I have desided to take a break totally from men.3 out of 3 aren't good odds, and they say 3 is a charm! NOT!!! I am giveing up until this loser magnet thing goes away! LOL now I can laugh about it... Diana  |
Date: 5/11/2001 6:41:00 PM
From Authorid: 23685
You go girl. You did the right thing. Sorry you had a lousy time. There will be someone better around the corner, don't give up.  |
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Date: 5/11/2001 6:42:00 PM
From Authorid: 23610
P.S. Diana....I think he should have pay YOU for the therapy session. LOL -Lady Nyx |
Date: 5/11/2001 6:46:00 PM
From Authorid: 35304
Oyy...even though I'm 16, I've like had a total meltdown year when it comes to guys. My first actually normal high school crush...(Most of them before that where the younger teachers...heheh. ^.^; Turned out to be a total and utter jerk. I mean...this guy was crude and should be back in preschool. So put it this way...my loser radar was full blast. So now, I just sit back stay being myself, and if someone comes along the way...hey...it might work. So go with the flow, and see what good guys come your way. ^___^ |
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Date: 5/11/2001 6:48:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21376
Thanks everyone, my anger is now laughter!You all made me feel so much better. I get the winners thats for sure.But I do give up. For now... Diana |
Date: 5/11/2001 6:52:00 PM
From Authorid: 33925
lmao..Diana you are a girl after my own heart!! I applaud you for lasting as long as you did..I think I would have walked out within the first 15 mins..I dont have much patience for whiners..grrr..Way to go gf!! dont give up though..It took me a while after my first marriage ended to find the right guy for me, and a guy that accepted a single mom with 3 kids..The right guy is out there waiting, just give it time...xoxo Ladyluck  |
Date: 5/11/2001 7:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 13283
What a cheapo ! He needs to find him an old lady with money . Oh gosh ,the forty dollars you paid to leave that dude was worth it . What a lame dude ! Raz aka  |
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Date: 5/11/2001 7:24:00 PM
From Authorid: 32789
i think we have to be mean sometimes. but he may have been trying to get you to feel sooooo sorry for him that you'd take him in and take care of him like a lost puppy! you already have enough to care for these types are everywhere. there are great guys out here...just a little harder to find. don't give up yet...but keep that radar up for these kinds! meru |
Date: 5/11/2001 7:26:00 PM
From Authorid: 8224
LOL have to hand it to you - others' will probably disagree but I do like your style but $40? Wow, what a tip and you know he kept the change. Give it another try - not all men are that bad - there really are some very nice one's out there. Don't give up on them just yet. Take care.  |
Date: 5/11/2001 11:45:00 PM
From Authorid: 27678
Bravo, Diana. Your prince is coming, soon! Keep the faith, oh and say your PRAYERS. I had to wait until I was 30 for mine and kissed many frogs in the meantime. Free Girl  |
Date: 5/12/2001 5:10:00 AM
From Authorid: 34159
Go girl - I wish I had the guts to do something like that. He sounded really rude to be going on about stuff like that - he wasn't worth the hassle. But there are really nice guys out there so don't give up on them all yet.  |
Date: 5/12/2001 6:39:00 AM
From Authorid: 30747
LMAO. I'm not laughing at you Diana. I think we dated the same guy. He must move from town to town to get free meals. I can't get into the "man" subject because I always manage to get myself in trouble. *hugs* Aunt Be  |
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Date: 5/12/2001 11:35:00 AM
You definately did the right thing. My pastor taught me that when it comes to dealing with men you can never be "too mean" in getting your point across. You were simply taking care of you and that is great. Too many times women get stepped on & treated disrespectfully because we don't do what you did. Stand up and say something. Glad you put him in his place before he tried to move in or something. |
Date: 5/12/2001 11:46:00 AM
From Authorid: 29928
BRAVO DIANA...BRAVO....YOU GO GIRL!!! I would have liked to have had the nerve to do that, but I am generally a coward...Huggs, Pammie  |
Date: 5/15/2001 3:54:00 PM
From Authorid: 12103
LOL..im sorry but that guy is real funny....i guess he really isnt from around where you live...i think it was wrong for him to wine so much...well he just naturally is a winer..i suppose that dont make him a bad person, just a quality in a man, you cant stand..i dont blame you either..lol nah i dont think you were wrong or being mean....i probley wouldnt of done that though, im real shy....i would probley excuse myself to the bathroom and never come back or something..lol but dont give up on men...i know there is some good ones out there!  |
