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Social Dilema. PLEASE HELP!

  Author:  14272  Category:(Discussion) Created:(5/10/2001 5:44:00 AM)
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I don't know what to do here. The neighbor girl won't leave me alone!!! I know she's just trying to be friendly but... Ok, I met her last summer. Even then I could tell, umm, *trying to be PC* she ain't real quick on the uptake if you catch my drift. She's not very bright and it's uncomfortable trying to carry on a conversation w/ her because she doesn't know when I'm joking. Well, I being the polite, kind person that I am, invited her, her husband, and their baby over for a cookout. Her husband insulted my lawn, my husband's motorcycle, the size of my TV screen, and my home. He told my husband (who has a wonderful, well paying job w/ benefits) to quit and come mow lawns for him. He even has a "fluent Spanish-speaking Mexican" working for him. How insulting and offensive is that? I thought I could just not return her calls or Christmas card and she'd get the hint. No. She's still calling. I'm running out of excuses. How do I drop these ppl without looking like a complete ignoramous?

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Date: 5/10/2001 5:53:00 AM  From Authorid: 22868    People like that is hard to get the message but there comes a time when you need to speak up. Yes this will not be easy and in their case with the husband making insulting comments would be a way for you and your family to step out with grace. Next time any questionable comments are made put your foot down and terminate the relationship, do not play games with it, END IT....Jerry8688  
Date: 5/10/2001 5:55:00 AM  From Authorid: 31707    oooh, dont know what to tell you, but say the truth.  
Date: 5/10/2001 6:07:00 AM  From Authorid: 14182    insult the husband...since they insulted you insult them back...no dont do that...i was kidding...tell them the truth...and she will then understand  
Date: 5/10/2001 6:26:00 AM  From Authorid: 24963    Well my motto is always tell the truth, no matter what it costs. Tell this woman the truth. If she can't handle it, well I guess that is her problem. Sometimes the truth hurts, and most people know that. forget dropping hints and making excuses. Next time she calls, just tell her the truth.   
Date: 5/10/2001 7:01:00 AM  From Authorid: 28228    The truth is the only way out of this. I was in a similar situation a couple of years ago and nothing worked until I finally told her we had nothing in common and there was no room for any relationship with her in my life. She still called occasionally and I was always too busy to talk. Finally I wrote her a letter stating exactly what I had told her in person. Have not seen nor heard from her since. Give it a try. Good luck. ~platters~
Date: 5/10/2001 7:33:00 AM  From Authorid: 17340    Get caller ID and keep ignoring then.  
Date: 5/10/2001 7:34:00 AM  From Authorid: 17340    Opps, I meant them  
Date: 5/10/2001 7:34:00 AM  From Authorid: 15388    They must be the ignorant ones for not knowing how to behave socially at someone elses house.You need to have them over again. This way you have the upper hand by being in your own home. Tell them how offended you were by their comments. Get it all out in the open. It's never easy but it needs to be done. Good luck. ROCK-ON! SAMIAM  
Date: 5/10/2001 10:32:00 AM  From Authorid: 33979    Oh geez! I'm sure she's real nice...you should give her a chance and hang out with her more.
NO! I'm TOTALLY KIDDING!! Seriously, that's a hard one, cause most of us don't want to intentionally hurt anyones feelings. If she sincerely means well and you don't want to hurt her feelings, yet you feel she's driving you to complete madness and you fear you may kill her soon, I'd just avoid her the best way possible, and when you do see her, be real short and hurried with her like you have to go. Eventually....Hopefully...she'll get the hint. Good luck!! Let us know how things go!

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