Date: 5/6/2001 12:10:00 AM
From Authorid: 29526
well try 2 convince her that she is making a big mistake(w/out telling he that)but if she wont understand then i guess she might be a little mad.moon angel  |
Date: 5/6/2001 12:26:00 AM
From Authorid: 277
You should go because you are her friend and this is a big step she's taking in her life whether you approve of the guy or not. I would let her know how you feel, but do this carefully without calling the guy names. Just let her know your concerns.  |
Date: 5/6/2001 12:59:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 5656
I tried letting her know, but I'm not the only one who feels the same way  |
Date: 5/6/2001 3:11:00 AM
From Authorid: 23207
All you can do is be there for her. By not showing up, you allow him to control you. Tell her how it is and keep telling her. Even if she doesn't listen, just being there in case she figures it out for herself would be a good idea.   |
Date: 5/6/2001 3:16:00 AM
From Authorid: 14780
i agree with troubleintx...even if you dont approve..be there for her...she may need you in the future to help her through troubled times. Lots of love  |
Date: 5/6/2001 3:26:00 AM
From Authorid: 24924
Lovingly remind her of just how blind WE ALL ARE when it comes to loving someone, and a very important thing to remember, PAY ATTENTION to, is:
If there are problems, NOW.....they DO NOT GET BETTER AFTER MARRIAGE! They get WORSE! This is the truth. She is overlooking his faults: Drinking and putting her down, and perhaps thinking she can change him in time, or after the marriage, but it never works that way. Hope you can change her mind, but if not, tell her you'll be there for her no matter what. I sure have been there too, with some friends of mine. I have been a bridesmaid, walking down the isle, KNOWING that the marriage would not last....and it DIDN'T!
*sigh* blindly loving someone stinks. *sigh*  |
Date: 5/6/2001 5:07:00 AM
From Authorid: 21376
All you can do is be there for her.Always thats what friends are for.Go to the weding,if you don't she may never speak to you again, and if it doesn't last,she will still have you.Friends are forever I always say.Be there for her, and listen always...It does sound like she's makeing a mistake, but its hers.Its tough I know, but when you (think) your in love sometimes, People tend to let nothing stop them.Good Luck... Diana  |
Date: 5/6/2001 5:22:00 AM
From Authorid: 2420
I think you should go ghostbuster, your there to support her not him. If you don't go even though you think she's making a mistake, you'll regret not going later down the road. If she's making a mistake, I'm sure she'll wake up a little later on and you'll be there to dry her tears  |
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Date: 5/6/2001 6:52:00 AM
From Authorid: 26717
I would go for the simple fact that HE would not keep me away from my friend at any time. Be there for her even if you don't agree with what she is doing. She may need you later on, just support her now. We have to accept our friends through the good and the bad, thats what friends are for. CORA |
