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PLEASE PEOPLE GET OVER IT ALREADY!!! ~~~SAP~~~

  Author:  16128  Category:(Discussion) Created:(5/4/2001 11:01:00 PM)
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I am not going to mention names here, as I know people will know whom I am talking about.

I know this whole thing between people on here is none of my business, but as a USMer that comes on here everday and reads these things that is going on it has become my business.

Here goes, To those of you that leave rude comments on other peoples posts b/c someone has commented on that post that you don't like for personal reasons is just rediculous. Just b/c something bad happend between ya'll doesn't mean that you need to go behind them and just out right attack that person.

If you have had a realtionship with someone on here, and it goes bad, so what is there any need to make everyone else suffer over it. Like I have said before that is a chance you are taking when you get into an internet realationship. As adults, I figured people would know this. If it didn't work out, then it just wasn't ment to be, get over it, and get on with your lives. There is no need to follow this person all over the site, and make their life miserable. If your life is miserable, then I suggest you get help so that it won't be.

I have problems from time to time in my marriage, and you don't see me making it public.

I know people say it is none of our business, but when it is made public, it becomes everyones business. If you make a public rude comment, and don't like it when someone stands up for that person, then I suggest leave them alone. I am so sick of coming on here, and there is nothing but a few select people just out right being attacked. I know if it were me that was being attacked like that I would get to where I wouldn't even want to reply, and that is just wrong. If you are wanting all of us to hate the other, well obviously that isn't going to work, it hasn't yet, and it probably never will. So please just stop all of this attacking others b/c you were hurt.

I know everyone knows who I am talking about, and I hope I didn't hurt anyone, but like I said I am sick of this, it is old, and needs to stop. USM is supossed to be a fun place, not a place where we hurt others, and bring the site down.

ONCE MORE I SAY JUST GET OVER IT ALREADY!!! AND GET ON WITH YOUR LIVES, AND LEAVE OTHERS ALONE!!!!!!!!!

I am sorry for the length, and Thanks to all that read this.

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Date: 5/4/2001 10:14:00 AM  From Authorid: 22852    Very well said.. I bite my lip every time I see a rude remark make. Words hurt people and what goes around indeed comes around.  
Date: 5/4/2001 10:14:00 AM  From Authorid: 30747    Very well said Sap. I applaud you. Aunt Be  
Date: 5/4/2001 10:16:00 AM  From Authorid: 3538    I don't know who is doing that,but I hope they get to read this and maybe they will realize that what they are doing is a bit childish.I do agree when you said that if there was an internet relationship and it went bad,then to move on and don't look back.But,there is no reason why they have to go and try to make the other person look bad.  
Date: 5/4/2001 10:17:00 AM  From Authorid: 27046    Very well said Sap!!!....  
Date: 5/4/2001 10:17:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 16128    Thank you, Stormchaser, I know it is real hard to do, that is why I posted this story. The situation I am talking about has really gotten out of hand.  
Date: 5/4/2001 10:18:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 16128    Aunt Be, Thank you I am glad you understand this whole thing.  
Date: 5/4/2001 10:20:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 16128    Justice Griffin, Thank you. I hope others are as understanding as ya'll have been. AZAIRYIA, Thank you too, I really appreciate the comments.  
Date: 5/4/2001 10:21:00 AM  From Authorid: 13079    Hiya Sap *hugs* I completely agree with you on this one. I know that it is hard for some on here to understand the whole situation, but when I feel attacked day after day, I will defend myself. I have tried to ignor, I have asked to be left alone, but unfortunately these tactics did not work. I, for one, from this day forth refused to be sucked into a free-for-all, in-your-face all out brawl. I will not play this game anymore. Thanks for this post.....*hugs*  
Date: 5/4/2001 10:24:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 16128    (((BIG HUGZ))) To you Pixie, I hope this post will help some, and I don't blame you. In this situation the bigger person is the one who walks away, so good for you. I hope others will do the same.  
Date: 5/4/2001 10:24:00 AM  From Authorid: 24555    I agree. People post rude remarks for no reason at times. They can be so immature. I think everyone including anonymous authors, you should read this. Genina  
Date: 5/4/2001 10:40:00 AM  From Authorid: 28336    SAP...you said it with tact. I do not know anyone on here enough to know who you are talking about, the only one i know really is Skyafawn, and she has not been around....but people do need to grow up and learn to let stuff go. peace love and harmony to all....~~bluemoon~~  
Date: 5/4/2001 10:44:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 16128    Bluemoon, I don't want to mention any names, but I am sure if you stick around long enough you will figure it out. Thank you for the wonderful reply.  
Date: 5/4/2001 10:44:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 16128    Thank you Moonpriestess, I agree I hope it works too. It has gone on too long.  
Date: 5/4/2001 10:57:00 AM  From Authorid: 30986    I don't know who your talking about, I haven't been on much the past couple of days. but I hope it gets better and here is a big hug for the ones getting hurt and harrassed. (((((hugs)))))) *~kysta~* Ps. I haven't hurt anyone with out meaning to have I? If so I am sorry. I say this because usually when you don't know who someone is talking about it's usually you..lol.  
Date: 5/4/2001 11:15:00 AM  ( Admin-2 )   Thank you Sap. I have to agree with you. I guess we need a sign hung over the front door.... " Wanna duke it out ... take it OUTSIDE".... LOL
Date: 5/4/2001 11:28:00 AM  From Authorid: 34347    sometimes I get rude comments and they hurt me real bad
Date: 5/4/2001 11:56:00 AM  From Authorid: 11948    I don't know which one is more nauseating,Reading it personally,Or hearing about it all the time.Sap you do a great job on your stories and comments,So don't fall in this crap stay with what you do best,That's put a smile on every ones face.I know every soul on USM has lost it one time or another,But never to the point to cause confussion and seperation to some of the closes friends that were here together.That's what happenes to those that need a clique instead of a friendship.Me personally,I came alone and I've stood alone and when I choose to leave I'll do it alone.I see some here that when the admins. posted about deleteing post that were non-interesting the same that are in this were some of the top replies to agree that they were tired of seeing things that these young kids were posting about there boyfriends and girlfriends,Or even the chocolate verses vanilla,Pepsi or coke.Now look,I would rather read those post any day of the week,Then to have to look at this sick crap from people that should know better,If you find yourself haveing to defened,Then let it be for something worth your time.Not this childish crap that happens on the play ground in kindergarden.Sorry Sap for taking up so much space on your post,And you can delete this if you like.It won't bother me one bit.Have a great day Sap.~~~~~~~~~~~~~  
Date: 5/4/2001 4:23:00 PM  From Authorid: 7341    Good post Sap...glad someone posted this!! I hope people get the message   
Date: 5/4/2001 4:24:00 PM  From Authorid: 5940    Shangri-La, Eutopia, Peace. This can be attained at USM, by following the FAQ. Or more simply put, use common sense. Sometimes all a person needs to be free from strife and aggrevation, is to accept things and let it go. Your'e not going to add anything to your life that will benefit you, by hanging on and dragging the matter out. Grab a lounge chair, relax, and enjoy the things that life truly has to offer.  
Date: 5/4/2001 5:50:00 PM  From Authorid: 8224    There are times when I come onto this site and wonder who the "adults" are and who the "kids" are - maybe we ought to start handing out "score cards." I'm tired of it as well and do thank you for bringing up this point and underscorning it - your right, it's time to move on and put the past behind us. Take care.  
Date: 5/4/2001 9:22:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 16128    KYSTA, hon, this is not to you at all. Thank you for the wonderful reply.  
Date: 5/4/2001 9:23:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 16128    ADMIN-2 Thank you so much for backing me on this one. I wish it would all stop.  
Date: 5/4/2001 9:27:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 16128    Day Walker, I wouldn't delete your reply Thank you so much for the compliment, and I usually don't do these kind of posts, I am just so tired of all the stories I read this is happening if a certain few are on that post replying. I totally understand what you are saying, and I am trying not to fall in this same way. You are right I love to bring a smile to peoples faces. That is what makes me feel good, so that is why I don't understand all of this. Thank you so much for replying, and a great reply it was.  
Date: 5/4/2001 9:28:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 16128    Corky, I hope they do to Thanks for replying.  
Date: 5/4/2001 9:29:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 16128    HEY LARRY, Thank you, and you are so right, I just hope others can realize the same thing.   
Date: 5/4/2001 9:30:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 16128    Antona, Thank you for the great reply. Of course I agree 100% with you  
Date: 5/4/2001 11:07:00 PM  From Authorid: 23207    I understand what you are saying..I come here as often as I can, I do not leave rude comments, and I never would. If you feel that you disagree with someone there are more adult ways to deal with it than to be hateful. I know not all of us here are adults, but those of us that are and aren't behaving as such should grow up! I love the posts here and have always thought this place to be non judgemental. Let's keep it this way! Very good post!   
Date: 5/4/2001 11:22:00 PM  From Authorid: 15033    I will not dignify this post by commenting on it!!! hehehe! jus kiddin...I agree, this is our fun place to be with ones we love almost as much as real family. Maybe even as much. Okay...just as much...Love,  
Date: 5/4/2001 11:23:00 PM  From Authorid: 28336    SAP...i do plan on sticking around, i have come to really like this site. I have not gotten many rude replies to my poems some of them would have been better off if they said nothing at all, but i just delete them and figure that they probably have nothing better to do than to attempt to tear someone else apart, they are the weak ones in this world and i don't allow myself the time for them. Most i have found on here to be very pleasant and very polite, which is how i choose to be. If you can't say nothing nice...don't say nothing at all...and always say it with a smile. It is nice to meet you...not many people have a heart in this world anymore. peace love and harmony ~~bluemoon~~  
Date: 5/4/2001 11:24:00 PM  From Authorid: 20497    you are right...  
Date: 5/4/2001 11:25:00 PM  From Authorid: 28071    Ya, I agree 100 percent. I recently made a similar post about anonymous rude replies which are even more vile and gutless. Dave  
Date: 5/4/2001 11:40:00 PM  From Authorid: 177    You mean...this actually happens!?  
Date: 5/5/2001 12:11:00 AM  From Authorid: 28946    I agree totally! penny44  
Date: 5/5/2001 1:14:00 AM  From Authorid: 19384    Good post SAP. I don't get into that either. Oh by the way. Cool taggie!!!  
Date: 5/5/2001 4:08:00 AM  From Authorid: 21867    Yo SAP,
Okay...we hear ya. But - can't I just, like, just really quickly tap someone while no one is looking? I promise I'll be real subtle about it and make out they tripped and fell over and for some unknown reason became unconscious...hehehe. Seriously - I hear ya loud and clear "WAR...haa...Good God y'all...what is it good for...absolutely nothing...sing it again...WAR..." Peace, AGENT SMITH
  
Date: 5/5/2001 5:22:00 AM  From Authorid: 21376    I agree,Its so sad when you write a post and half way down on the replies, you see two going at it on and on over something you have no idea about.On your own post! And one rude reply can ruin someones whold day.If you don't like someones reply,state your own reasons but don't attack.Or just move on.Great Post... Diana  
Date: 5/5/2001 5:51:00 AM  From Authorid: 29112    I agree with you... this should stop..
--((Trentman))--
  
Date: 5/5/2001 6:17:00 AM  From Authorid: 7415    yes im getting tired of all the rude comments too  
Date: 5/5/2001 7:56:00 AM  From Authorid: 8374    thank you for posting this because some people just need to realize that words do hurt very well said :-D  
Date: 5/5/2001 8:28:00 AM  From Authorid: 30549    Its so true... let bye gone"s .... be bye gone"s.
get over it and on with your life... doing this
will only make you more bitter... why add more fule to the fire.
Author 16128 it does become every one business
when you air your dirty laundry.
Thanks for speaking out great post.
Mystical
  
Date: 5/5/2001 10:06:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 16128    Introubleintx, I am glad you are not one of the people that do this. Thanks for the wonderful reply.  
Date: 5/5/2001 10:07:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 16128    LOL@Thunderhead, I am glad you decided to comment  
Date: 5/5/2001 10:08:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 16128    Bluemoon, I am glad you are not leaving any time soon. Nice to meet you too  
Date: 5/5/2001 10:09:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 16128    Bwearsie Thanks for the short sweet comment   
Date: 5/5/2001 10:09:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 16128    TC, sad but true this does happen  
Date: 5/5/2001 10:10:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 16128    Yardy, thanks for the comment on my story, and my Tag. I hope this is helping a little.  
Date: 5/5/2001 10:13:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 16128    LMAO@Agent Smith I tell you what I see nothing or hear nothing ~~EVIL GRIN~~, just make sure no one gets badly hurt Thanks for the lovely song  
Date: 5/5/2001 10:15:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 16128    To anyone that I have missed. Thank ya'll so much for backing me on this, and understanding. I am so tired of seeing peoples feelings getting hurt over this, and people are starting to feel like they are stuck in the middle of this ugly thing b/c of it being so public. Thank you everyone  
Date: 5/5/2001 11:06:00 AM  From Authorid: 20296    this is supposed to be a happy place!!!!! *huGz* at least most of the time but when feelings get hurt..we should try to get over it as soon as we can or take it to personal messages. if you cant stop someone from harassing you or leaving rude comments, I am sure the admins would be more than willing to help us out Great post sap  
Date: 5/5/2001 11:49:00 AM  From Authorid: 11211    Great post Sap...I agree with you all the way!* You said it well...and it needed to be said. USM is a fun place...our home away from home...I like what Ginger said...take it outside. Love!*  
Date: 5/5/2001 3:10:00 PM  From Authorid: 31048    that is so true, i get so sick of these rude comments!! thanks for taking a stand about it. *~blondie~*  
Date: 5/7/2001 1:09:00 PM  From Authorid: 26717    I have made a few and got a few. In the end , no one has wound up hurt . We draw a conclusion and we're over it. I personally expect it and I don't dwell on it. People have different personalities and I like the spunky ones and the nice ones. I will argue with a sign and I enjoy venting myself and I know others do too. Just don't take it personally. When I am off this website, its forgotten!!! CORA
Date: 5/24/2001 10:45:00 PM  From Authorid: 36352    I guess I'm nieive cause I'm not sure whats going on. But I love and respect everyone on here and it souns like some need to do the same. *Can't we all just get along?* *what we got herea is a failure to communicate* Trying to act like an A-DULT, love, *ANGELBELLE*  
Date: 2/6/2009 5:30:00 PM  From Authorid: 42945    Good post and should be restored on the homepage again now...  

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