Date: 4/29/2001 4:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 9713
O wow! Well I hope that it helped venting on here!!!  |
Date: 4/29/2001 4:14:00 PM
From Authorid: 4255
You go Tiger lily he is being bad lol chew him up  |
Date: 4/29/2001 4:14:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 28660
It did. Thanks for listening to my griping.  |
Date: 4/29/2001 4:14:00 PM
From Authorid: 20750
oh I'm sorry Tiger Lily!!!I hope your day gets better!! LOL  |
Date: 4/29/2001 4:17:00 PM
From Authorid: 6860
I hope it heped too. Anyway, I'm sorry he did this, maybe he was just having one of those days, but I hope you two work it out. I know you will. I hope everything goes well. *hugs*  |
Date: 4/29/2001 4:21:00 PM
From Authorid: 28899
About the baby seat, he's probably having a bad day too. Or, he's just stupid. And, if you made such a big deal about getting the freezer, I don't think anyone would just go buy it anyway. -Underground  |
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Date: 4/29/2001 4:23:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 28660
There's no excuse for him endangering the baby. I hate when people don't put their kids first. He could have stayed home today. It wouldn't have killed him. Thanks for listening. |
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Date: 4/29/2001 4:25:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 28660
Underground: my vote goes for he's stupid LOL |
Date: 4/29/2001 4:26:00 PM
From Authorid: 16164
my guy is the same way..............sometimes I want to rip his head off his shoulders and put a new one in its place.........they do it cuz they know we will sacrifice our own needs before their or the kids needs.......we yell and rant and rave about it, and thats about all we do, and then they do it again.....give him lotsa lotsa he*&, he really deserves it, they think we wouldnt have anything if it werent for them, ya right, more like its the other way around........they need us, he is being ignorant, and testing you at every turn, mine does it just like yours.........if he isnt deaf yet, he can wish all he wants to be deaf, because hurt ears is way less then our men deserve........good luck there tiger  |
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Date: 4/29/2001 4:28:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 28660
Hey Hairbear, thanks for understanding. |
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Date: 4/29/2001 4:42:00 PM
From Authorid: 16164
under dog if it were my man he would go buy it anyway.........he thinks he deserves everything, oh he works hard and I dont, he works a "real" job I dont.........I go to work and I take care of my child, he goes to work and I still always take care of my child........just because he thinks he is more deserving then I.I do all the food shopping, cleaning, tkae my kid where she needs to be like school, Dr., plays, park, babysit my sis kids, help him when he needs it, cook,I work part time but I need shorter hours then he has because he has me to worry about everything, if there is no sitter he can still go to work and I cant, he has me, and as far as it goes I dont do enough to deserve either.........basically my man would buy it, and judging from tigers attitude here, hers is most likely the same...........he has no respect for her or what she does, he does not know what it is like to be even romotly in her shoes, where work, family, kids, and everyday life are concerned.It sounds to me tiger like he honestly thinks he deserves to have and is above being a somewhat equal partner in the relationship.He cant respect what he doesnt know.He really should open his eyes to the real reality of your lives together.....sorry if I sound a little harsh here, but I know what it is like to be in someone elses shoes like this and it really bothers me that some people tune out the other person in their relationships, and then they most likely get upset with ya for trying to have anything to do with what they say is only their business, two people one relationship, you cant have two horses pulling the same cart in different direction, they have to learn to pull together, or else your cart aint ging no where.and the baby should have been in a carseat, that was really irresponsible on his part. |
Date: 4/29/2001 4:44:00 PM
From Authorid: 30986
Don't get me started on irresponsible hubby's!!! Mine is the worst. He wastes and wastes money. and regaurdless of whether or not we have money in the checking accout to cover it he writes bad checks and uses his atm card, until I took it out of his wallet and started hiding my purse, LOL They act like we are their mom's or something...No sense of responsibility whatsoever. I've gotten the advice, "Well let him take care of the bills and money worries for a month and let him see how hard it is, then he will start caring." I said to his mom, and this is a direct quote, "I don't wanna wind up living on the street next month cuz he wasted it all on beer and porn mag's...." I was so upset. But I am learning a great deal about patience, and I really do love him. I quess you just have to either learn to live with his behaviour or *itch at him until HE learns, the way I am doing with mine....LOL Sooner or later it might work. We need to start a discussion group that could work for both men and women..."my spouse the idiot!" or something like that. LOL, we'd get a LOT of member's. Any way, I hope things work out with you.  |
Date: 4/29/2001 4:58:00 PM
From Authorid: 27542
that jerk. omg he should listen to u ...rory11.....  |
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Date: 4/29/2001 5:03:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 28660
Guys you hit the nail on the head. I feel like I'm his mother. He's so irresponsible.Three times in the past month I've come home from work late and found him sleeping on the couch with my four year old running around unsupervised. Thank goodness our baby girl was sleeping. But if she woke up and started crying he never would have heard her he sleeps like a dead person. I hate to leave him with the kids. Oh I forgot that last time he fell asleep he had a pot of water on the stove (he was going to make formula) thank God he didn't have it on high. It was on like medium low. He could have burned the house down.Or my little boy could've pulled it off the stove and got burned.Who knows? Anything could happen. |
Date: 4/29/2001 5:03:00 PM
From Authorid: 28065
wow i cant believe he would endanger your 3 month old child like that plus its against the law for one thing. and man im sorry tiger lily 200 dollars for a deep freezer like thats a necessity come on dude get your priorities straight....robb  |
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Date: 4/29/2001 5:05:00 PM
From Authorid: 28065
tiger you need to knock some sense into your husband im sorry to say he sounds lazy and doesnt care about a thing besides himself.....robb |
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Date: 4/29/2001 5:13:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 28660
You're right,I'm tired of being the only adult in this relationship. Eight years I've put up with this crap. The money he had was supposed to go to me to pay bills if it goes towards that stupid freezer I'm going to be furious. |
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Date: 4/29/2001 5:17:00 PM
From Authorid: 28065
hey if the money goes for the freezer instead of bills id make the s.o.b. sleep in the freezer or on it depending how mad you are lol....robb |
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Date: 4/29/2001 5:19:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 28660
Sounds like a plan to me Robb LOL! |
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Date: 4/29/2001 5:57:00 PM
From Authorid: 32789
i hope you got it out here tiger lily! i'd hate to see what you'd do to his tail when he gets home! but just think of the $$$ you can save with the deep freeze! you can stock up on stuff when it is on sale. that should make it pay for itself in a matter of months. i'll tell you what my friend ginger does in these cases. whenever her hubby buys things he wants she makes sure he also has to buy something she wants next time. make him buy another carseat for the baby for his car! then you won't have to worry so much and he can take the kids on outings more. meru |
Date: 4/29/2001 6:23:00 PM
From Authorid: 34487
Hmmm, this doesn't sound like an unsolved mystery to me. . .sounds like you don't need any help with this one.  |
Date: 4/29/2001 6:26:00 PM
From Authorid: 18516
I hope getting your frustration out helped. It usually helps when you can get it all out. Hope ur day gets better.  |
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Date: 4/29/2001 6:38:00 PM
Honey, just remember "The Hand That Rock's The Cradle, Rules the World"!!!!!!!!!!! Much Love To You Take Care |
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Date: 4/29/2001 7:14:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 28660
Meru, Its not that I don't want one. We owe so much money, I'm talking thousands of dollars.Medical bills and for building the addition to the house.My parents have paid for it and I'm paying them back. They are also doing most of the work on the house. I feel very indebted to them. I think it would be disrespectful for us to spend money on frivolous things when we owe them so much.I would be ashamed. Tiger Lily |
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Date: 4/29/2001 7:26:00 PM
From Authorid: 16164
muuuaaaaaahahahahaha.........brings out da USM paddle, and blows the dust off it..........cough cough......aint been used yet there, hands some pledge and a dry towel over to do the dusting .........a little dusty there tiger but she'll do da job for ya.here ya go, get 'em girl......knock some sence into him.........hehehehe |
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Date: 4/29/2001 7:35:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 28660
You guys won't believe this. My husband just walked in and saw the computer screen before I could switch it off. He saw the title and knew it was about him. Thats when I shut it off and said oops thats none of your business. He just laughed and laughed. He thought it was hilarious.He went outside a few minutes ago and when he came back in he knocked. I said why are you knocking he said I wanted to give you a chance to turn off the computer before I come back in. He's a nut.By the way, he didn't get the freezer. I'm not so upset anymore just embarrassed that he saw this LOL. |
Date: 4/29/2001 8:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 14780
im glad your husband has such a great sense of humor!! he knew not to mess with momma!!! lol  |
Date: 4/29/2001 8:21:00 PM
From Authorid: 31048
awww, i was gonna give ya some wise advice but it sounds like you and your hubby have pretty much made up! which is great (especially since i'm only 15 and i really don't have any "wise advice" when it comes to marriage!) but i hope everything's ok now. good luck! *~blondie~*  |
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Date: 4/30/2001 7:46:00 AM
From Authorid: 30986
LOL, my hubby caught me posting something about him one time and boy was he mad....He typed some rude comments using MY id! I was so ticked off! But I just deleted them when he stormed out the door. I'm glad yours has a good sense of humor, tiger. and I'm glad things worked out for you. luv, *~kysta~* |
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Date: 4/30/2001 11:43:00 AM
From Authorid: 16164
hey nothing to be embarrased about here tiger...Sometimes you need to get things off your chest and this is a way to releive that.Thank golly he didnt get it because BOY OH BOY would his head have hurt when you got finished with him........hehehe........at least he was thinking right? |
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Date: 4/30/2001 12:47:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 28660
Yeah I love the jerk. I cant be mad at him for long even if I try. He's the same way with me too. |
Date: 1/12/2004 8:54:00 PM
From Authorid: 57232
Oh this is so funny! Not funny as in haha funny, but as in...He's still the same. I feel like I know you and your family and I can just imagine Ashlyn being so little. You aren't going to believe this!!!!! Some names I was playing around with when I first came here was Alabama Worley, Amaryllis (my favorite flower) Jade, Jade and Tiger Lily! That is so weird.  |
