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How do I go about this without Explodeing?

  Author:  21376  Category:(Discussion) Created:(4/19/2001 4:33:00 PM)
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My daughter came home from school today, (She is in the 5th grade)She had a substitue in two of her classes. My daughter was aparently talking when she wasn't supposed to and was sent out into the hall.The teacher told her she was a stupid girl,who wouldn't amount to anything, and would probably wind up working at some Garage somewhere!While all the others in her class would be brilliant she would always be stupid! Aparently the woman started out the class saying she was in a very bad mood and noone better cross her.And aparently by my daughter asking a question without raiseing her hand made the woman lose It!Ok so I am so angry and On the verge of going to this persons home and dragging her to the street and severly hurting her, It isn't funny.How dare she! Number one, My daughter has come a long way in school,She had a reading problem until third grade but once it clicked with her she soared!She did stay back in the second grade because of this and she thought she was stupid her self. Now She has a (SubstituteTeacher) Calling her stupid! Tomorrow I am going to the school and have it out. Aparently other teachers had found my daughter cring in the Hall and heard her story! But I am so angry right now!I am never out of control, but tonight I am!Am I wrong to feel this way?I need to be calm and stern tomorrow,but need a little advice on how not to emotionally show how angry I am. Or should I? What would you Do? I am a wreck and I cannot beleive they have a person like this in our school!One of the teachers she saw at the school afterwords who talked to her and made her feel better,passed us this afternoon and mouthed "Don't you worry" and gave my daughter the thumbs up sign.Which made me beleive what my daughter said was true.(At first I kinda didn't beleive)Or maybe didn't want to, I was in shock! Any advice? or should I just go and Kick her?:( Diana

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Date: 4/19/2001 4:36:00 PM  From Authorid: 15319    Go all out!! Its yer kid dont EVER let anyone stomp her feelings into the ground. Make that wench pay!!  
Date: 4/19/2001 4:40:00 PM  From Authorid: 30421    I would have to agree that it is hard to believe that this sub. teacher would say this to a child!! If she did..I would definately say something to a principal to make sure that she doesn't substitute anymore..kids at that age aren't real sure of themselves as it is and need all of the encouragement they need especially from adults who are supposed to be mature..i thought kids were the ones who did all of the picking  
Date: 4/19/2001 5:07:00 PM  From Authorid: 5886    Take it to whoever got her that job in the first place and make sure she gets fired! Principals and Supers work the best. A Teacher, Substitute or not, shouldn't step on a child's self-esteem like that. If anything, they are supposed to be a person students can trust and they should support and help students.  
Date: 4/19/2001 5:30:00 PM  From Authorid: 31531    Take it to the top and demand to be heard!!!!!This way of talking to your daughter could do her harm.She had no right to talk to her that way your daughter should be apology too.  
Date: 4/19/2001 5:46:00 PM  From Authorid: 23685    I agree go to the principal or school board and I would also have a few words with the sub.  
Date: 4/19/2001 5:49:00 PM  From Authorid: 6814    I think you should talk calmly to the teacher if you can,but I agree with you thatshe had no right to call you daughter stupid no one needs to hear things like that!  
Date: 4/19/2001 6:31:00 PM  From Authorid: 20296    I would definetly file a complaint with the principal actually, I would kick her too how dare her what a .....well never mind that would not have been Grated.  
Date: 4/19/2001 8:28:00 PM  From Authorid: 27678    Diana, first of all, these teachers have power and if you go there with the wrong attitude, she could cause you problems. But I do think you should have a conversation with the principal perhaps, just to show your daughter some support. I homeschool and this is one reason why. I will not allow others to attack my children's self esteem and make them feel bad because that person is on some kind of power trip. Teachers think they are smarter than the parents and many of them don't even like their jobs. And hate kids! I just don't understand why people like that even work in the feild. I feel your pain and frustration and I would want to do the same thing as you. Just because someone has a college education doesn't mean they are GOD. And many of these so-called experts don't have a lick of common sense and should be reigned in. Perhaps they should be charged with "emotional abuse", if they hurt your child's feelings. Parents have their children taken away from them for the same thing, everyday in this country. We need to make the public servants act like servants instead of tyrants over us. God Bless. Free Girl  
Date: 4/20/2001 6:14:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 21376    Thank you all!I am haveing a meeting With a board member this after noon! Aparently the Teacher who calmed my daughter went right to the principle and he called me today!I don't care this woman should be fired.I will fill you in on the outcome.((((Hugs))) You all made me feel much better!This morning my daughter says, "I feel sorry for that woman, she deserves to be in trouble but I know you would stick up for me!" She knows I will not let anyone get away with hurting my children! Diana  

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