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Can someone tell me what my problem is here???

  Author:  21376  Category:(Discussion) Created:(4/9/2001 2:27:00 PM)
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I am a cook at a local Deli,I Have a problem with other women ages 30 and over. I am and see myself as a nice person and always curtious to others.But since I have been back to work these past 4 years,Women will come in the store take one look at me and get attitudes.They are downright rude and act like I am no better than the dust on their shoes!I just don't get it! But if one of the guys or much younger girls or even the older ones wait on them they are all nice and sweet! I always have a smile still, (even if they cop this attitude) and Greet them nicely... I dress decently and by no means look like a Tramp!I have long curly blonde hair and blue eyes and ok I don't look my age 40,My co workers laugh and say they are just jealous. But of what?I am no raveing beauty, but I am not ugly either!But its almost every single one of them! I could see if I had this big attitude myself, But I will greet them all the same way! "Hi! Can I help you!"(Always with a smile!) And everytime! Bam! They all of a sudden get nasty!Arguementive, and I won't argue back, Well untill today. I have been known to say,"Excuse me but do you find me being rude? If I am I am very sorry,but I don't think I am.Although personally I find you very rude and I don't know what I did to offend you, so I think someone else will have to finish your order." They do userly appoligise after that but geeze what is my problem? Do any of you go through this? Any Ideas?

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Date: 4/9/2001 2:57:00 PM  From Authorid: 5940    I kinda know how you feel. I worked in a retail store for a few years and endured the same treatment. Of course part of the job entails customer service, and being courteous. My co-workers joked that I was a magnet for grumpy customers, but I could never figure out why. I always dressed in proper attire, groomed myself and am always on top of personal hygiene. So I tried even harder to be even more courteous. Eventually, I just chalked it off to the attitude of the customer, after i went out of my way to be pleasant, I just figured that they were the ones with the problem. Sometimes I think that they feel that it's their right to be grumpy or rude, because they are the customer. I don't work in retail anymore.  
Date: 4/9/2001 3:03:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 21376    I understand you there, but Its only me they are nasty to! I just don't get it and can't take it anymore!!!! Diana  
Date: 4/9/2001 3:08:00 PM  From Authorid: 32400    How much do you weigh?
Date: 4/9/2001 3:10:00 PM  From Authorid: 32400    How much do you weigh? The reason that I ask is because I've seen people treat others badly when they have a weight problem.
Date: 4/9/2001 3:12:00 PM  From Authorid: 5940    Hi Diana, I too seemed to be the only one they singled out, as I became known as the "Magnet". In my case, I changed jobs, I now work in a production plant.  
Date: 4/9/2001 3:17:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 21376    So I am a grumpy Magnet LOL! Ok I can live with that. LOL Thanks Larry! Diana  
Date: 4/9/2001 3:20:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 21376    I am about 20 lbs overweight, and these women userly "FAR" Outweigh me!LOL seroiusly! It can't be that!  
Date: 4/9/2001 3:33:00 PM  From Authorid: 5940    LOL! Diana , its a good post, and I wish I had more to offer you!   
Date: 4/9/2001 7:15:00 PM  From Authorid: 28767    Oh thier just jealous of you, i would take it as a compliment. I work in retail and I don't realy care what mean people say anymore. ~Snow Monkey~  
Date: 4/9/2001 7:19:00 PM  From Authorid: 16442    Perhaps you are TOO cheerful. I was a waitress for a few years and if I was in TOO good of a mood, I would get less in tips. It made absolutely no sense but it did happen. I had to find a 'middle ground', not too happy, not too rude and people would tip me just great. I still to this day do not understand it. : )  
Date: 4/9/2001 7:32:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 21376    LOL Well thank you all!Maybe your right!But I am not overwellmingly cheerful. You know what for now on! I am going to give it right back to them!They want to give me attitude! I will show them all real Attitude!I am not going to take it anymore!Wish me luck! They are all lucky I am off tomorrow! LOL Love Diana  

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