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DOES IT MEAN I DON'T LIKE YOU IF I DISAGREE WITH YOU???

  Author:  13354  Category:(Debate) Created:(4/5/2001 10:44:00 AM)
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How many of you feel that when I disagree with you, it means I don't like you??? I feel there are many who seem to have this idea... I find it very puzzling because I don't feel this way at all and I don't know why you feel this way... I may disagree with someone, even STRONGLY disagree with them but that doesn't mean I don't like them anymore... It also doesn't mean that I'm trying to put anyone down... I just have a different opinion... I don't get hurt or mad when people disagree with me and I don't expect them to get hurt or mad...

Things I do get hurt or mad about are being accused of things I didn't do or accusations of what I meant when I said something... I also get hurt and mad when someone calls me names or is very insulting toward me, my family, or my God... Even though I get hurt or mad, I try to stay civil toward them and I get over it... I do not consider ANYONE here at USM an enemy or someone I hate...

I don't know why I needed to say this but maybe it was for a reason...

I love you all * * * PAM

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Date: 4/5/2001 10:48:00 AM  From Authorid: 600    I do! *hanging head and slowly walking away*.......... Just kidding. lol. (I'm in a mood today) Actually there are many friends and family both in the cyber world and the real world whom I love dearly, but don't always agree with. It's human nature to have varying points of view, which imo. is a wonderful thing. I think for the most part people realize that agreeing isn't mandatory for friendship. There are also some who simply come across more "harshly" than they intend, (you not being one of them that I've seen btw) but soon realize their words have been taken out of context or in the wrong manner and once explained all is well again. Great post Pam!   
Date: 4/5/2001 11:00:00 AM  From Authorid: 25307    I think it's fine to disagree with someone. Unfortunatly some people can't see past themselves to even think that some people have different beliefs than they do. If someone posts a debate or a religious post then they are going to get a lot of different feedback. But people can disagree without being rude or hurtful. I really enjoy reading all the different types of religion . I have learned a lot of new things here. Everyone is entitled to their own beliefs Love to all-Dreamer204  
Date: 4/5/2001 11:03:00 AM  From Authorid: 600    to Dreamer^^^Yep, I've seen those as well. Can I copy and paste your comment so that mine will be complete? lol. Good point.  
Date: 4/5/2001 11:04:00 AM  From Authorid: 30747    Pam, I don't know as if we have ever disagreed but I wouldn't take it personally and I would hope you wouldn't either. maybe sometimes people get so passionate in their beliefs that it comes off as being obstanate and we have to remember these are written words without the benifit of tone of voice and body language. I'm sure that if you were face to face with someone they would know the goodness in your heart. *smile* Aunt Be  
Date: 4/5/2001 11:12:00 AM  From Authorid: 31673    Well said Pam. I agree with you 100%! I've found your posts to be very enlightening and reasonable! Keep them coming! Melodious  
Date: 4/5/2001 11:19:00 AM  From Authorid: 14754    That Is Why They Call It A Debate..It Doesnt Mean You Don't Like Them..Great Point Pam..~Tweeti~  
Date: 4/5/2001 12:15:00 PM  From Authorid: 20296    I love ya too pam *huGz* and I haven't dealt with you where anything was ever said that made me feel as though you hated me....I hope you know that I find you a kind and caring individual We all have times where we come across wrong, it only becomes a problem when it becomes a habit. I do not see that happening with you  
Date: 4/5/2001 12:19:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 13354    Thanks guys!!!  
Date: 4/5/2001 12:31:00 PM  From Authorid: 19092    LOL at TAC, again. Her wit does cheer us up. I also feel we can and should be able to disagree without that being taken personal. Some do get way to serious and emotional. Then the emotions cloud judgment and induce reactions. I myself am guilty of this, see >>King points to lumps on head<< as with us all, we do and say things before we think. I hold no grudges, they get to heavy after awhile. Each day is a new day, and if I disagree with you, that don't mean I don't like you. Good subject, God bless>>  
Date: 4/5/2001 1:06:00 PM  From Authorid: 20873    awe Pam....agree, disagree, it shouldnt matter, I luv you guys no matter what! you make my day better!! DINA  
Date: 4/5/2001 1:13:00 PM  From Authorid: 13079    Hiya Pam *hugs* When I am in debates *which is where I usually am* I don't take things personally if someone disagrees with me. What I do take personal *this is not directed at you, it is just a statement of fact* is when people do what you have stated in your story. I do not call names, or attack any person. I attack the "issue" of the debate. There are some on here who *for lack of debating skills* can't debate without attacking the person......They are unaware of what a debate is really for. Of course that's just my opinion. *hugs*  
Date: 4/5/2001 1:45:00 PM  From Authorid: 28125    Obviously you felt something that made you write this post. I am glad we aren't enemies or anything. Thank you for sharing.
In Christ's Love, PRINCESS AMY
  
Date: 4/5/2001 1:46:00 PM  From Authorid: 30606    I think it's ok to disagree, and that definately does not mean that u don't like them!! spazebabe  
Date: 4/5/2001 1:56:00 PM    ^^^PamyJo^^^
Date: 4/5/2001 1:56:00 PM    Hello name sake, I agree completely with you and just printed something that I found in a magazine pertaining to the same thing. Our self-esteem should not and does not depend on what others think of us, and it shouldn't hurt our feelings if people do not agree with us. Not everyone will!
Date: 4/5/2001 2:17:00 PM  From Authorid: 23610    Hi Pam. I know you and I don't have the same views on quite a few things...but then neither do my sisters and I and I love them more than anything. I think it can actually be interesting and helpful not to agree on everything (as long as it's not attacking). I know there are a few people here that think so much like me that I have a hard time finding anything to disagree with and sometimes I think, "Man, I gotta find something to disagree with or this is just going to get boring!". LOL. Nah...I think you're pretty great Pam. *hugs* -Lady Nyx  
Date: 4/5/2001 3:17:00 PM  From Authorid: 31137    I agree, just because you disagree doesn't mean it is anything personal.  
Date: 4/5/2001 3:45:00 PM  From Authorid: 5940    Being able to disagree does not mean instant "dislike". But rather, I feel depends on the person's attitude or frame of mind. Granted, one may post a subject some feel different towards, and being able to discuss this in a reasonable manner is ok. But wether the attitude is from the author, or the commentor, depends on that person.  
Date: 4/5/2001 6:29:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 13354    Well maybe I shouldn't have put this in debate after all...
lol... I just thought with tempers high around here at the
time, better to be safe than sorry...
  
Date: 4/5/2001 7:36:00 PM  From Authorid: 1432    I dont feel that way at all to those that disagree with me, cuzz there is always a bunch hehe..  
Date: 4/5/2001 11:28:00 PM  From Authorid: 16671    I dont dislike people just because we dont agree, and I know you pam, you dont have a hatefull bone in your body. loves ya  
Date: 4/6/2001 6:03:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 13354    Well Firstborn,
I'm going to DISAGREE with you!!! lol... I do have
many hateful bones in my body. I know what I'm capable
of... It's not a pretty sight... I try to keep my life
surrendered to God though, otherwise, like you always say,
that evil twin creeps out... lol...
  
Date: 4/6/2001 12:35:00 PM  From Authorid: 27046    Can we agree to disagree?....LOL......no just kidding....I understand what you are saying and I am the same way, I don't get mad at people that disagree with me. If everyone had the same ideas and thoughts on things could you imagine what society would be like? OMG....I can LOL.....This is the way that you learn things in life, by learning from and accepting the opinions of others.....Good Post!!!!........Azairyia  
Date: 4/6/2001 10:37:00 PM  From Authorid: 32577    I am new here, I feel this site gives everyone a right to express thier opinion on something they believe or disbelieve, and no one should judge or insult or hurt anyone.
By calling someone names just because you dont like what they have to say, would be like me going up to a person of a different race than me, and saying just cause you look or think different than me, "i dont like you"
Racism so wrong and so is hurting people just because you dont like what they have to say.
Can we all just get along and be adults about things?
Date: 4/7/2001 6:15:00 PM  From Authorid: 7092    I don't think that way, if we all always agreed it would be quite boring don't ya think...  

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