Date: 3/27/2001 9:01:00 PM
From Authorid: 21912
Well that's true and you have every right to want to spend this time with him, it shows that you care. But tell him that hurt and your reasons for saying no. Tell him (if this is so) that you thought this would be the right thing to do for you two, communication is very healthy in a relationship. What sometimes can happen by having different shifts is that when saturday comes you take out all the stress on that person cause you couldn't all week! Just work things out  good luck  |
Date: 3/27/2001 9:01:00 PM
From Authorid: 30051
hmmm.men ..just when you think you got them figured out.....they change..can't live with em can't kill em...lol...CoRyAnN  |
Date: 3/27/2001 9:08:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 28848
S.H. I've told my husband how I felt and the reasons why. He says that he's right and that I wouldn't understand because I'm not that type of person. I guess implying that I'm selfish.CPM  |
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Date: 3/27/2001 9:09:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 28848
I hear ya CoryAnn!! CPM |
Date: 3/27/2001 9:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 30081
phew all i can say is kill him lol jk , well this is just a misunderstanding on his part ,i guess he just doesnt understand that you said no so you two could spend time together if he doesnt appreciate that call your friend back now and tell her you will babysit for her ~kittee~  |
Date: 3/27/2001 9:31:00 PM
From Authorid: 8224
I don't know where he's coming from but as far as I'm concerned, your right and he's dead wrong - you were honest and the last time I checked, it wasn't a felony - "you don't understand he says?" Seems to me he's the one who's missed the point and if he keeps it up, he's going to miss a lot more . Stand your ground. Good luck. Antona  |
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Date: 3/27/2001 9:36:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 28848
I am standing my ground on this one. This time issue has been a real problem for us. That's why I can't see his view on this.CPM |
Date: 3/28/2001 9:00:00 AM
From Authorid: 29037
You both have really good points, but just tell your husband that since you don't spend a lot of time together, that you want to spend the weeked with him all to yourself. I am sure that he will understand.
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Date: 3/28/2001 9:15:00 AM
From Authorid: 13619
I am sorry it hurts your feelings, but I think your husband didn't mean to hurt you. I think he thought of the times that your friend watched the kids for ya, and he thinks the same thing will happen to you when you want to go out. Don't take it bad, that is what I see from what you are telling us.  |
Date: 3/29/2001 2:49:00 PM
From Authorid: 21376
I think you are right.You deserve time with your husband, But I must say he must be a good man wanting you to watch the baby...not minding other children on a weekend.Don't get angry at him though,you are one of the lucky ones..Diana  |
Date: 3/29/2001 7:18:00 PM
From Authorid: 30401
have you told him how you feel? Explain to him that you would of done it if it had been any other day. but you just wanted to spend some quality time toghether. I hope things work out . sry i didn't have much advise to give.luv lauren  |
Date: 4/19/2001 4:37:00 PM
From Authorid: 32806
Communication is always the key to resolution.I have to say he should consider himself lucky that he has someone who WANTS TO SPEND THEIR TOGETHER.Good luck Sagi10  |
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Date: 4/19/2001 5:23:00 PM
From Authorid: 32806
ooops should be "time" in there.Missed it out completely. |
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Date: 4/19/2001 7:34:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 28848
Thanks Sagi10, My husband and I do have a stronge bond, though we don't always agree........CPM |
