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Date: 3/26/2001 4:11:00 PM
From Authorid: 30229
There is NO excuse for anyone hitting. Hitting is considered "domestic violence" and especially when a guy hits a girl!!! Guys are so much stronger than girls. It is much better to just walk away until the anger subsides and then talk it over. That way there can be no violence. Most guys who hit a girl will always hit her. I know if you have seen your sisters abused then you have heard that. Be careful, and let us know how you are...ok? ***Gail***  |
Date: 3/26/2001 4:14:00 PM
From Authorid: 3538
Gosh,I wish I knew what to say,I am going to read some of your other stories now.  |
| Date: 3/26/2001 4:23:00 PM From Authorid: 27500 Listen close. Hitting is wrong. If he apologized and you forgave him, he will more than likely do it again. You said yourself things have been escalating. Do not let it happen again and if it does,,,end it!!! Grey Soul |
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Date: 3/26/2001 4:36:00 PM
From Authorid: 3538
I have read all of your other stories and left some comments.Gosh,this sounds so familiar to me,all of this.I am going to message you. |
Date: 3/26/2001 5:16:00 PM
From Authorid: 20859
i am so sorry to hear about your situation. i believe that hitting is wrong,weather it is done by the man or the woman.i think you should talk to him. tell him that you are sorry for what you did,and explane to him why you reacted like that.and if the hitting happens again, then you need to get out.i wish you the best.  |
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Date: 3/26/2001 5:31:00 PM
From Authorid: 31558
I understand how you feel. But if he is hitting you, then you need to tell someone and turn him in. Things wil get alot worse if you don't. |
Date: 3/26/2001 6:19:00 PM
From Authorid: 11749
I honestly think you did the right thing by hitting him back. I would've done that, too. But anyone hitting anyone is wrong. Especially your boyfriend hitting you, even in the smallest ways. I think you should kinda watch him for a while. And if he hits you again, Girl! Turn that boy in! ~CaitieAnjel  |
Date: 3/26/2001 7:54:00 PM
From Authorid: 30527
Dear Author; I HAVE read your other works, and commented on them, as well as did many others. The large majority of which has advised you to dump this guy. How many times must you be told? I don't mean to sound harsh or disrespectful to you, but you need to take a long hard look at your relationship. If all that you say is true, and I assume that it is, it sounds to me like YOU are the one holding onto this relationship. You stated that you know that your boyfriend can do better, but the truth to the matter is, so can all of the other wife beaters in this country. Just because a rose has the potential to blossem, doesn't mean that it will not die! Your boyfriend should have already preposed to you by now. He's got the rings, it's been seven years that the two of you have been together, What Is He Waiting On? The average lifespan for a woman is 78. How much of your life are you going to lose waiting on this guy? Get out while the getting is good. Forget him and move on. You have expressed to everyone over and over how displeased you are with this guy. Read your own stories. The writting is on the wall. You are hanging on to trouble, I don't care how attractive, or nice, you think that he is. You are obviously unhappy with him, look at the frequency of your posts regarding this issue. Look, I know that you love him, but you've got to let go for YOUR sake. You obviously deserve better, and even if you are alone for awhile, at least you can be happy for making the right decision. You can't change a duck. It will always be a duck. Don't try to change this guy. If you could'nt do it in seven years, you're not going to........... High Speed  |
Date: 3/26/2001 10:30:00 PM
From Authorid: 29526
i dunno about you,but i would break up w/him & get some new friends,& if they dont understand how you feel bout hitting & argueing then i would not consider them friends.hope i helped,star dragon  |
Date: 3/27/2001 4:25:00 AM
From Authorid: 31014
he hit you becos you were talkin loud and you say HE did nothin wrong becos YOU were being so bad well EXCUSE ME but you are now your sisters arnt you ?????? there is no point givin advice to you becos you are already makin the excuses for him that are gonna get you severly beaten and maybe killed ( it does happen) sorry if people think im bein nasty here but if someone hits you then you get OUT you dont make up excuses you LEAVE its not gonna stop ... and dont feel guilty about hitting him i had a guy that hit me one day cos he had a bad day and i was late with his tea or somthin i beat the life out of him nearly and hopefully by me doin that he wont try it on someone else will he?? i dont see a good future for you girl if you stay with him but goodluck anyway Blitterbabe x  |
Date: 3/27/2001 1:55:00 PM
From Authorid: 31515
Any excuse will do. You are doing exactly what he wants you to. You are blaming yourself. I was in a relationship just like this one about 12yrs. ago and everything was fine and one day he hit me. HE SAID HE WAS SORRY AND IT WOULDN'T HAPPEN AGAIN, BUT IT DID AND IT HAPPENED MORE FREQUENTLY. I was alway having to cover up a black eye or a big bruise on my jaw. He even went as far as telling me it was my fault. Even down to his friends had me convienced it was my fault. It took me a while to realize that there was more to life then getting beat up by a man that is suppose to love you. So I wised up and got out of the mess and I suggest that you do the same. It will never get better, it will only get worse..... Queen B  |
Date: 3/28/2001 12:16:00 PM
From Authorid: 27414
I agree, get out WHILE you can!!! I don't agree with "it'll only get worse". There's a chance that it will yes. But it's not for certain. But, from what I've read from this post, it sounds like he's making you feel guilty as was stated. In this, he will keep blaming you for making him blow up and hit you again if it goes that far. There's a longgg story behind this and I won't bore you with it but I used to be similar except alcohol was the main factor in both spouses' anger. Gave up the alcohol and the anger went away. If you want to talk, just email from my profile page.  |
Date: 3/28/2001 2:17:00 PM
From Authorid: 6890
Bad GIRL!!!!! no hitting!!!!!!!  |
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Date: 3/28/2001 7:59:00 PM
From Authorid: 12004
This is a bit confusing.. BOTH OF YOU WERE VERY WRONG..... but please take warning too..dont live in the shadows of your sisters or you may never find your true love.....  |
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