Date: 3/23/2001 9:48:00 PM
From Authorid: 30986
AAhhh, young love, I remember those days.... Can't think of any ways to help, except getting up your nerve and asking him out or something... maybe to a non date like event as friends. just to get your nerves up more so you can ask him the good questions....lol,,, cya,,,,<kysta>  |
Date: 3/23/2001 9:52:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 31151
Thanks for your advice, although I doubt very seriously that I could ask him out, because I am so shy. But maybe if I just put my mind to it I can do it. Thanks for your advice I will take it into consideration. sundreames  |
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Date: 3/23/2001 9:53:00 PM
From Authorid: 31260
Do you like that guy?if the answer is yes than ask him how he is doing .if its no than keep doing what you are doing |
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Date: 3/23/2001 9:56:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 31151
I do like him, alot and that's the problem. I can make small talk, we talk evertime he comes in but I can't seem to ask important stuff like does he have a girlfriend? And I can't seem to ask him out. But thanks for the advice. sundreams |
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Date: 3/23/2001 10:01:00 PM
From Authorid: 30986
Well, don't ask him directly if he has a girlfriend ask something like, "So how's your girlfriend doing?" if he has one you'll know and if he doesnt' you can get your nerve up to ask another question or talk to him more...... <kysta> |
Date: 3/23/2001 10:03:00 PM
From Authorid: 22868
I say you must have something for him if your friends see the change in you. Well that being the case why don't you stop ask yourself what is it that you want. Besides do you know his name? Better yet think of simple questions one step at a time and before you know a conversation will develop, after all that would be the ideal thing for you. One other thing it is okay to be silly that could break the ice. good luck  |
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Date: 3/23/2001 10:08:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 31151
Hey thinks for the advice. I do know his name but just his first one.lol I will try to ask a few simple questions and hope it will spawn into a conversation. The only thing is he picks up his food and everyone else's and heads back to work. But thanks for the advice. I will definitely use it. Sundreams |
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Date: 3/24/2001 12:21:00 AM
From Authorid: 29404
I'd suggest something to the extent of ..."I'm really nervous, but I like talking to you, or , I like seeing you every day, would you like to get together after work sometime and chat?"..Good luck, Arenakitty |
Date: 3/24/2001 1:41:00 AM
From Authorid: 30081
just talk to him the way you did before ask him hows his ankles doing n stuff .lol i dont know tell me what happens k kooool ~kittee~  |
Date: 3/24/2001 2:18:00 AM
From Authorid: 16619
Tell him you noticed he had`t been around & were worried about him.Then tell him he looks tense & needs a night out. Then hopefully he`ll get the hint & ask you to join him.Let us know how it works out. t2.  |
Date: 3/24/2001 9:00:00 AM
From Authorid: 31280
A simple answer indeed. When lost for words, ask questions . It shows you care. Remember to key into what he says. Wait till he asks what you think, and then answer him. The easiest way to start a conversation, is to ask a question first!
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Date: 3/24/2001 9:57:00 AM
hey i'm feelin' ya girl! try to find out where he hangs and just be at the right place,right time (don't stalk him or nething, just be cool 'bout it). timing is everything. try talking to him and drop a few hints that your into him without being too obvious. just remember my favorite two sayings: "if it's meant to be, it'll be" & "EVERYTHING happens for a reason" lol and good luck!! |
Date: 3/24/2001 3:38:00 PM
From Authorid: 23367
You should write down your number..whether it be your cell or home phone.........to add a "touch" to it, write it on a napkin....have it ready though before he comes in.....hehe.....
oompaloompa  |
Date: 3/24/2001 6:43:00 PM
From Authorid: 30747
Take a deep breath and smile for goodness sake. Ah to be young again. I remember the butterflies and faint feeling when a cute guy came into the shop I was working at when I was young. I must of looked like an idiot stammering over the order and dropping his change. I actually got alot of dates being dorky like that because guys didn't think I was perfect and unattainable. I'm no pshycic but I got a feeling he really does like you and it won't be long before you hook up. Good luck. Aunt Be  |
Date: 3/24/2001 9:09:00 PM
From Authorid: 30312
Just tell him you would like to get to know him and that you see him almost everyday. When he does come back in you will have something to talk about...his ankle! =0)~  |
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Date: 3/25/2001 3:42:00 PM
From Authorid: 31332
Use the ankle! You said that you think of things to say after he is gone..write'm down and memorize the best ones. Start with the ankle then progress eventually starting a conversation. |
