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SOME QUESTIONS FOR FINGER POINTING....Thunderhead

  Author:  15033  Category:(Discussion) Created:(2/11/2001 11:23:00 PM)
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This is something I would like to ask about all of the FINGER POINTING Going on here. This is for ANYONE and EVERYONE that can "honestly" search their heart and ask themselves if they can live with this type of poison inside of them.

1. Do you really think posting accusatory material makes you look above those you accuse?

2. Do you think using this manuever in debates and comments makes it acceptable?

3. If someone else did it to you first do you really think getting over it (since everyone claims they are into a higher way of thinking) involves reminding yourself and others, when ever possible, that it should NOT be forgiven?

4. Do you think the resentment will stop if you keep on posting the same finger pointing material?

5. Do you really think you will find power in numbers by getting together a group that will agree with you on how bad and unfair the ones are that you resent?

6. We are all alone, no one came with us when we came out of the womb and no one is going with us when we leave. Have you taken a real good look at how alone you really are?

7. If life is for sharing joy while we are here, do you see that sharing here isn't fun in posts about finger pointing?

8. Do you really think you are gaining respect from anyone when in reality everyone will see they were wrong themselves in the finger pointing, eventually. The ones that want to keep growing see it as wrong.

9. Do people TRUST you?

10. My last question is, do you have a satisfieing life outside of USM?...and if so, do people get along with you when you put the same kinds of words to them as you do here?

These are questions I am asking people not religions. I ask myself these questions everytime I post or make a comment. So far when I am wrong the difficulty is ironed out, I can admit it if I am wrong. But there are still those that make admitting it difficult. I thought being advanced spiritually involved being able to ask a higher power for the means to set things right; and then there is real forgiveness. It has always worked for people around me. I don't know about everyone else, but I have a life outside of this place, and I cannot think of one enemy anywhere in this real life. I do care about making everyone happy no matter who they are or how much of a disagreement we got into. I like to ask for ways to make it right. Pointing fingers is not the answer. Life is short.

~Thunderhead

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Date: 2/12/2001 12:24:00 AM  From Authorid: 16671    Your right, I should not point back when being pointed at, just sometimes you have enough of the lies and susgestions that you were doing something wrong.  
Date: 2/12/2001 2:05:00 AM  From Authorid: 21867    Yo Sis,
*big bro hugs* I totally agree with ya Thunder...and you certainly lay the smack down when it needs to be done. Yet in such a straightforward way. Peace and hugs, AGENT SMITH
  
Date: 2/12/2001 2:43:00 AM  From Authorid: 22370    Wow Thunderhead, you always make me think. I also agree with your post, and you seem to make other people think as well, but in a very calm manner
*hugs* Jessyca
  
Date: 2/12/2001 4:04:00 AM  From Authorid: 3642    hey I like This --------well done  
Date: 2/12/2001 5:23:00 AM  From Authorid: 11211    Thunderhead, I like this post so much. I think you layed it out great, and I agree with you. I have often wondered if typing on these keyboards allows us to say things, Hurtful, that we wouldn't say to others if we are looking into the face of the other person. I am shy by nature, and I write things on here to strangers, that I would have a hard time saying in person. I don't know of any enemies at usm, I certainly hope I don't have any...And I can't think of any in life outside of usm. But one thing that I have seen, is from time to time the people who do have disagreements eventually work them out. You are so right..."Life is short" and there's not enough time to let circumstances keep you unhappy. It really hurts me, when I see this because I know that people do get hurt by written words. I hurt for them. Just my thoughts. Love to you!*  
Date: 2/12/2001 6:13:00 AM  From Authorid: 19092    Very well said ThunderHead, food for thought that we all need. WhiteDove makes a good reply also. see you later today, Bye  
Date: 2/12/2001 6:35:00 AM  From Authorid: 23207    I'll reply to this post as I did another one this morning...It all falls back to something I am sure all of our mother's used to tell us, and we (I know I do) tell our children..If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all!! It would make the world a nicer place if we all took that to heart! Trouble   
Date: 2/12/2001 6:43:00 AM  From Authorid: 18103    Very well said Thunder! I agree life is short. Thanks for posting this, it may may people stop & think before commenting harshly or pointing fingers.GRAYWOLF65  
Date: 2/12/2001 6:44:00 AM  From Authorid: 18103    ooooooooops that shoud be may make not may may sorry for the typo :-)GRAYWOLF65  
Date: 2/12/2001 7:03:00 AM  From Authorid: 600    I can't think of a better way to say what you have said here Thunderhead. *hugs* As for me, I try to always be non judgemental and also try very hard to not be accusatory. At times I think words typed are also misunderstood due to the fact that we can't express voice tone, etc....But there are many here who are all too quick to start the accusation and pointing game....I sure hope I haven't offended anyone with my replies...I try very hard to think about what I'm typing before I submit... I truly hope my words have never caused pain or hurt feelings. Great words of wisdom my friend.   
Date: 2/12/2001 7:40:00 AM  From Authorid: 19772    ahhh Thunderhead, your words of wisdom never fail to inspire me. Well said and I hope you get your meaning across to everyone here. I agree, I mean what kind of a life must someone have to just go around the computer and pick fights all day? I would never intenionally try to hurt another person's feelings and I can't begin to imagine what joy someone else gets out of doing that. Thank you so much for sharing this. ---Jynx---  
Date: 2/12/2001 8:14:00 AM  From Authorid: 18155    Excellent comments, well wworth thinking about and keeping in mind all the time,however finger pointing is easy when you have enough people supporting what you are doing.  
Date: 2/12/2001 8:55:00 AM  From Authorid: 25699    I don't post RUDE THINGS,I just call them a <whatever fits> outloud to my screen,and skip MY reply to them.I just move on ...but watch for that person along the way!~~It sometimes seems I play "follow the same posters",when I reply after many of the same names...NOT SO,but do you ever feel that way?? Blonde Cherokee  
Date: 2/12/2001 1:48:00 PM  From Authorid: 10657    well, I dont think that I post rude things anywhere be them in my comments or in my posts Secondly, hey I could be a twin lol And, my life outside of usm is very fulfilling because, I am the same person as I am on usm every day  
Date: 2/12/2001 8:56:00 PM  From Authorid: 13354    VERY, VERY, GOOD POST THUNDERHEAD!!!  
Date: 2/13/2001 7:45:00 PM  From Authorid: 177    I haven't pointed any finger lately ( if ever ) as far as I can remember. Honest, I swear. Of course, it's possible I have, without knowing it. Of course one man's finger pointing might be another man's....well..something else.  

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